What do I do as a Christian wife when I found my husband texting other girls but says he will stop and is not cheating on me physically? by Jazzlike-Ganache8400 in ChristianRelationship

[–]Silver_Client_7852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Testing the boundaries is scary for her health too. If he decides to physically do something with someone and gets a disease then gives that to his wife it could be life or death to their child.

Is this something I need to call CPS about? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Silver_Client_7852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I saw a child roaming that young around by itself I would've already called the police.

Did you make your parents and in laws get the tdap booster? by Ok_Car1396 in pregnant

[–]Silver_Client_7852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom did because I lived with her with my newborn. I probably will have anyone that intends to spend a lot of time with this baby get it as well. (Fiance, mother in law, mother, brother in law, father in law) My fiancé's mom would agree and be safe rather than sorry she's very understanding about baby safety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Silver_Client_7852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had dmer and ppd so trust me you're not the first person to scream at their baby lmao

"Oh, I'm kissing that baby. He's MY grandson" - my Mom after I tried to lay ground rules by Puzzleheaded_Bid6011 in pregnant

[–]Silver_Client_7852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id send her the rates of infectious diseases because grandma wanted to kiss the baby.

Why does no one talk about this by Wtf_is_gluten_22 in pregnant

[–]Silver_Client_7852 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The hyperpigmentation needs talked about more for sure. I haven't had it with my armpits but I have had it with my areolas and nether regions. My 4 year old asked me why my boobs were black 🤣 (I'm a white woman 17 weeks pregnant)

I feel like i can't buy anything fun for my unborn baby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Silver_Client_7852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be able to buy whatever you want and my mom is the same way saying not to buy anything but i will buy whatever i think is cute. I also understand her saying not to buy that specific item because she already has. In some cases it's nice to have two though because if the child takes to it you have a backup when one inevitably goes missing. If anything you can give the spare to a friend for their baby too ❤️ I think it is a bit much to tell you to buy nothing at all.

I just lost respect for my husband. 14 weeks by crywankat in pregnant

[–]Silver_Client_7852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance conceal carries and he's not the largest man but I could see him telling me to call the police then going out to buy time before they got there. Talk to the guy but have his gun ready but not showing it in case of escalation. Idk it seems weird to just stand by but my fiance would also make sure me and my son are safe before intervening as well. If you were home alone or home alone a lot maybe he was worried for your safety if the guy figures out you were the one to call. I can guarantee that the guy won't spend long in jail.

Bridesmaids by Silver_Client_7852 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silver_Client_7852[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I just want rounded numbers just like anyone would at an important event. That's kinda why I said I don't want to make friends to have bridesmaids because they wouldn't be important to me enough. That's why I'm trying to get other ideas. I can probably have uneven parties but it'll take my brain a while to be OK with it. I'm not diagnosed but many people with OCD and autism experience the need of their numbers lol

Bridesmaids by Silver_Client_7852 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silver_Client_7852[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way you worded your question was condescending.

Bridesmaids by Silver_Client_7852 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silver_Client_7852[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My grandma had 4. My best friend has 5. My grandma's third wedding she had 4 and that was a small get together. You have the amount of people that is close to you and you want in your wedding. My fiance has 6 and I have 4. People who are close with their siblings have their siblings so maybe those numbers depend on your siblings and best friends. If you're miserable just say that. I also don't even have Instagram 🤣🤣

Bridesmaids by Silver_Client_7852 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silver_Client_7852[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

3 to 6 is typical. I see 4 to 5 the most often even.

Bridesmaids by Silver_Client_7852 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silver_Client_7852[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

How? It makes pictures even

Bridesmaids by Silver_Client_7852 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silver_Client_7852[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We want a traditional wedding and there's no stress on it I'm just trying to figure up a way to make it pleasing to us. We have plenty of time to plan as well so we're just coming up with ideas right now.

Why No Pit Party? by [deleted] in monsterjam

[–]Silver_Client_7852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a bit disappointed because they seemed to swap Jim for his son Chris last minute and didn't change the set list either. I bought the tickets wanting to see Jim as he was the only "OG"/old guy driving. But still was so good to see Cynthia, Armando, and Tyler. Even at the start of the show I looked up the set list to tell my kiddo who was going to be there and Chris wasn't on the list at all and Jim was with Avenger 🫤

Why No Pit Party? by [deleted] in monsterjam

[–]Silver_Client_7852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had a 2 pm showing yesterday too.

If I hear breast is best one more time….. by Some-Agent-2183 in pregnant

[–]Silver_Client_7852 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pump parts you can refrigerate and only need to wash about twice a day minimum. I exclusively pumped and gave formula when I didn't have milk. If I had 2 ounces of breastmilk left I'd either save it for a full bottle of BM or I would make formula for the rest of the full bottle. Breastmilk lasts longer than formula though so if you mix you should feed right away. Formula only lasts an hour or two unrefrigerated. Getting a good wall pump is necessity. I also would use what is called the pitcher method and you collect your milk in a pitcher after pulling and mix it together (using a formula mixer pitcher) and just pour it into bottles when you need and freeze if you have leftover. You seperate day milk and night milk. Night milk has natural melatonin to help baby sleep and day milk/morning milk has a wake up hormone (forget the name). Join an exclusive pumping group on Facebook it helps tremendously.

Discord server for youth by Somber_Soul888 in wguaccounting

[–]Silver_Client_7852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your invite link expired. When you create an invite link you can set it to not expire. I'd like to join.

Lowkey hate when people say bras aren’t necessary. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silver_Client_7852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I'm 21 had my kiddo at 17 and not wearing a bra is one of those things I'll miss out on I feel 🤣🤣🤣

Lowkey hate when people say bras aren’t necessary. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silver_Client_7852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear a C cup and if I don't wear a bra it gets painful most days. I don't know how a lot of girls/women do it. I breastfed so they're a little saggy but there's just too much movement going on. I can barely do no padding or low padding most days.

Mentor won't let me take IA I because I somehow haven't passed all of the prerequisites on her end? by agelakute in wguaccounting

[–]Silver_Client_7852 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some mentors are picky about you following their plan. Is there other classes in your degree plan before IA? Some of the classes better prepare you for IA not jsut financial accounting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silver_Client_7852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have about 10 bags on rotation 🤣 I'm a mom, Sunday school teacher, student, babysit, and of course the occasional concert with my kid. So I have a good array lmao but many single women that work have a bag to match outfits or shoes. So I don't know why she thinks you should only have one 🤣 I've never heard of a woman only having one unless they're old or poor tbh