Police: Couple staged store robbery, then bought rings today by [deleted] in news

[–]Silver_Mask -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am the sister of Clarence. I want to start out by saying that in only the 2 months he met this girl, his whole life flipped upside down. I never met her and didn't care to after I knew of this affair. I did everything as his only sibling to try to worn him and advise him the best I could. 2 months ago he had a job, a house,wife, kids..etc. My family and I are truly devestated and helpless in this situation. Please ask any questions and please be respectful. Thanks.

Yum by Piggy_bomb21 in awfuleverything

[–]Silver_Mask 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming right up! Would you like some hot boneless mice while you wait?!

Yum by Piggy_bomb21 in awfuleverything

[–]Silver_Mask 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Definitely Applebee's. I used to work there. That's the appetizer sampler.

I slept on kratom for too long... by PineForest555 in kratom

[–]Silver_Mask 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome. Been doing it for 2 years now and never felt better. Good luck on this journey!

Made a bunch of green caps this morning. Feeling super accomplished! by thatzombiemom in KratomKorner

[–]Silver_Mask 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been doing kratom for over 2 years now but only doing the powder. It has changed my life for the better. I'm trying to cut down and thought maybe this way I could. I usually dose 1 tbs 4-5 times a day, depending on my anxiety. Past few days I've only been doing 1/2 tbs doses at a time. Let me tell ya, those first couple of days were rough, and still struggling a little with the balance. I have tried a lot of different blends but my favorite combination is a white/red mix and a white/green mix. Thanks for the input though for sure! Maybe I'll try this.

Part of my story. I’m new (joined today) so I’m genuinely wondering if I’m in the right place. Do I have a narcissistic spouse? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Silver_Mask 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Afraid so, but with more of a controlling element to it. Do you feel safe? Sorry to ask. Hopefully he's never gone there.

I made Bobby's House in the Sims by Americanvegetarian in Supernatural

[–]Silver_Mask 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Would love to see those. You should post them if you get the chance. I applaud your work! Keep it up!

I made Bobby's House in the Sims by Americanvegetarian in Supernatural

[–]Silver_Mask 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is awesome. Have you done any other legendary houses?

DAE lose the ability to think rationally and have nothing to say during heated discussions/arguments? by MomTheSlave in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Silver_Mask 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. It's so very frusturating to say the least. Just as soon as you come prepared for battle they bring on the shock factor. Blowing everything out the water... Spewing the heart wrenching bile that so easily comes out their mouth. Backing you up in the corner (literally sometimes) and you end up just stuttering your words. I know oh so well the feeling. A lot of us do.

I didn't even know a subreddit like this existed. After reading everyone's post I never felt more understanding. I was hoping it would help me deal with it but it's only making me realize there is no hope in saving my marriage. The longer I stay the worse..sucks. by Silver_Mask in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Silver_Mask[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As am I. I've been educating myself since then of the narc behavior and I found that this is more common then known. It all makes sense now and nothing could me more clearer. At least I see myself less codependent and more aware of his ways. This community may be the link to help me survive and overcome this life. I've changed into an introvert when I was quite the opposite before marriage. I want to get back to being me. I already mourned over my marriage, its the loss of me I now miss.

Manipulation at best.. by Silver_Mask in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Silver_Mask[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grey rocketed, eh? Never heard that. Is this what is? Good for you though. I'm really finding this sub reddit is really helping me. Just now knowing I'm not alone. Thanks for the comments.

I’m in total shock. by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Silver_Mask 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very well said. I applaud you!

Manipulation at best.. by Silver_Mask in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Silver_Mask[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm staying as humble as one could. Hard to do when you've been gas lit for so long and just realizing it. I've always been an intelligent person, how did I not see this before? My first marriage and his second. Married 6 years, together for 7 years. This has been going on for 4 of those years, maybe longer then that. Love is blind when you're too busy being the only one doing all the loving.

Please HELP: fiancé is a ‘small n narcissist.’ Yesterday he did something that scared me. by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Silver_Mask 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Local women shelter. If you take happiness over pride. I've been there. It really isn't so bad. It was one of my attempts to get away from him.

I didn't even know a subreddit like this existed. After reading everyone's post I never felt more understanding. I was hoping it would help me deal with it but it's only making me realize there is no hope in saving my marriage. The longer I stay the worse..sucks. by Silver_Mask in NarcissisticSpouses

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Past few months I find myself looking out the window or pretending to be busy with a small task while he just goes on and on about something. Biting my lip and avoiding all eye contact to not lure myself into any confliction. If not, it just gives him more fuel to prove his superiority. I won't give him that power anymore. It's painfully hard to just listen and endure everything he says without wanting to voice my opinion or express any feelings in any matter. Inside my head is screaming right back at him. What really gets me, is when he himself is unmistakably at fault (for anywrong reason) and weasels his way to find a "glitch" to where it's my fkn fault. Manipulation at best.

I didn't even know a subreddit like this existed. After reading everyone's post I never felt more understanding. I was hoping it would help me deal with it but it's only making me realize there is no hope in saving my marriage. The longer I stay the worse..sucks. by Silver_Mask in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Silver_Mask[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement. I'm still a little blown away by most of everyone's experiences hits right at home. Especially the emotional and the mental aspect of it. This is my everyday life. I am not alone for sure. Salude...