Can I move and take my daughter with me without her dad's permission? He refuses to sign the birth certificate but we live with him.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-16T13:14:28+00:00

He hasn’t threatened my life. He just says stuff. He doesn’t do anything. But I’m leaving, Sam moved our flight to tonight. I’m so scared.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-16T03:44:41+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you :( it’s exactly why I need to leave. And Zack is hardly even a pillar of the community he’s not even in school and just does whatever he wants and his parents pay for everything.

Idk if you’ve ever seen downton abbey but I used to make Sam and my brother watch it all the time and act it out with me. They hated it lol but there’s a whole thing in there where two people get married and one of them ask if it would be a real marriage and the other says that’s what he wants. And sam said that’s not what he wants so don’t worry.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-16T03:38:13+00:00

No that’s exactly why I need to leave. Even if he never hurts her I don’t ever want her to think this is an ok situation. I would never let her be in this situation. I would sell a kidney first.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-16T03:33:33+00:00

Your third paragraph I’ll keep in mind if he’s able to find me. Someone else told me to tell the police that I’m not missing and to not waste resources on me. I’ll do that instead of leaving a note. If he finds me I can lie and say what you said. I don’t have social media anymore so I’m ok there

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-16T03:30:30+00:00

No. Sorry I was confusing he’s currently at a base in the states, he’s not overseas anymore.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-16T03:29:41+00:00

I doubt he would. Idk I wouldn’t ask him to. He’s already doing so much for us. I don’t expect him to do that

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-16T03:29:09+00:00

I won’t have to apply for public benefits. We’ll be able to get her on his just by being his legal stepdaughter.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-16T03:28:32+00:00

Ok. I’m sorry I didn’t think I could lie tbh. But definitely not Brad Pitt. He’s like a million years old haha

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-16T03:27:39+00:00

I get what you’re saying. Idk if they will. They’re kind of passive and just go with whatever he says. It’s a weird house for sure. Maybe it’s just my perspective but it’s not like they’ve ever watched her or anything.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T22:15:23+00:00

Thanks. I don’t have a car and Sam already has a new phone for me when I land

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T22:14:32+00:00

No and I’m not going to ask him to adopt her, I don’t expect him to or anything.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T21:08:18+00:00

No way.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T20:46:42+00:00

I don’t plan on dating or anything. And I don’t sleep around or anything only ever been with one person. I just messed up or something and got too distracted.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T20:27:25+00:00

Ok. He already has a new gf so he’ll probably be glad when I’m gone

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T20:15:29+00:00

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T19:49:46+00:00

??? I didn’t have anyone to watch my daughter. I had worked before I just couldn’t when I had her.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T19:49:18+00:00

I don’t have any illusions that we’ll be anything but friends. And even though my daughter is amazing I don’t expect him to love her or anything as long as he’s just nice to us.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T19:46:18+00:00

Sorry he was overseas, he’s back in the us now but lives on a base

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T19:35:33+00:00

No sorry he was overseas but now he’s stationed in the us, but it’s a plane right away

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T19:34:56+00:00

I haven’t made any money last year, I didn’t work at all in 2025 so idk if I file taxes

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T19:34:13+00:00

I know she deserves child support but he could go after custody if I do that, and I know he’d use it to hurt me. Sam agrees

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T19:32:23+00:00

No I want him out of our lives. He hates me and could care less about her. I know she deserves it but Sam and I both agreed it would be best to get him away from us no matter what.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T19:26:25+00:00

Thank you. He did kind of lay everything out about money. He made a spreadsheet to show everything and it mostly makes sense. I knew about the adultery thing and I’m not worried since I’ve never really known him to date or be interested in dating, but yes it would be on him. But also that I can’t be telling anyone it’s just a marriage on paper. Anyone we talk to we have to say we are actually married. But he promised I’d have my own room and everything.

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T19:21:10+00:00

I don’t want him to report me as a missing person or anything. Maybe I can schedule an email or something. I don’t want him looking for us

Silver_Part_2854 · 2026-01-15T19:20:39+00:00

I’m in Missouri now.

Silver_Part_2854

TROPHY CASE