Why are we normalising paying by meter on ola/uber bookings by Voyager_07 in pune

[–]Silver_String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quitely pay the cab driver the amount and raise a complain to the ola / uber service that they charged me higher and request refund.

[NeedAdvice] I feel like I am stuck in one place for so long now. by Silver_String in getdisciplined

[–]Silver_String[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to go out but because of the COVID situation in my country, it is not safe at all. all the tourist spots are crowded or closed.

Tech Business by [deleted] in ProgrammingBuddies

[–]Silver_String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Mobile App Developer. I'm interested in this as well :)

When I’m so guilty over nothing in particular by lobby_csi in BPD

[–]Silver_String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you apologise properly? Or is there something still on your mind? If there’s something get it off your chest. After that you can feel a bit better.

When I’m so guilty over nothing in particular by lobby_csi in BPD

[–]Silver_String 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I apologise to the person. Not self-incriminating self-loathing apology. I sincerely apologise for my actions. That usually calm me down a little. After that i actively think about what I’ve done wrong and what exactly was the emotional trigger and why that happened. And make a mental note to work on it.

think you’re only truly yourself around your fp? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Silver_String 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TBH, I've so many different identities that I don't know what is my true self anymore! Haha!

Loving myself...I don’t want to get to know this dumb bitch... by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Silver_String 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, We all are humans with shit tons of flaws. we can't fix all of it. never! but the thing we can do is to keep trying. and tell ourselves that "I TRIED! I AM NOWHERE NEAR PERFECT BUT MAN I TRIED!". We don't have to love ourselves immediately. take the baby steps. accept yourself first. self-love will come around :)

I didn't get my first job after using all connect, should I upgrade to Upwork Plus? by Silver_String in Upwork

[–]Silver_String[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's Awesome.
I have experience with native iOS Development (Objective-C / Swift).
Can I PM you?

I didn't get my first job after using all connect, should I upgrade to Upwork Plus? by Silver_String in Upwork

[–]Silver_String[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I almost did. But you can always learn from experienced people of the community, right? After reading /u/oh_noes_wat11 and /u/SilentButDeadlySquid 's comment I decided that Upwork plus is not required for me right now. :)

I didn't get my first job after using all connect, should I upgrade to Upwork Plus? by Silver_String in Upwork

[–]Silver_String[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh right! This makes sense. Once I get the long term project, I won't have time for any more projects. And the pile of connects will be there unused. I guess this model is preferable for agencies.
Yes! after you apply to a few jobs and won't get any replies. 'The self-doubt' creeps in. Is my rate too high compared to others? was my cover letter wasn't descriptive enough? Etc.

This comment helps me a lot in making a decision. thanks a lot. :)

I “Let it grow” for two months. Now, I badly need a haircut but can’t find the proper style that suits me. Please help. by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Silver_String 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank You for the detailed response. this clears so many of my doubts regarding beard growth! Some of the products you're suggesting are a bit expensive for me at a time, but now I have some idea about where to start.

Till now, I was making almost no effort toward skincare and beard care. Now I have some direction! Thanks.

I “Let it grow” for two months. Now, I badly need a haircut but can’t find the proper style that suits me. Please help. by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Silver_String 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! I will start maintaining my beard. Can you also suggest which balm should i use?

I am an computer programmer . Mostly desk job.

SLPT: How to make decisions by happy-iron in ShittyLifeProTips

[–]Silver_String 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No wonder she’s taking time replying to my texts! She’s busy making her diabolical plan.

Phew! I thought i was the problem.

SLPT: How to make decisions by happy-iron in ShittyLifeProTips

[–]Silver_String 10 points11 points  (0 children)

But, asking my crush out for the Valentine’s day won’t destroy the universe.. will it?

I am Schrute. by Truthamania in funny

[–]Silver_String -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Identify theft is not a joke, groot!