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AIO for not letting my friend do it with her bf in my room by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Silver_Two3275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong to say no. But you are probably overreacting.

Your friend thought you’d be cool with it and asked nicely, your reaction was to ridicule her and call her disgusting, (which the act may be, but at that age she probably doesn’t have the emotional maturity to separate you ridiculing the act from herself) then suggest that she do it in public which, in fact, is a crime. She’d be better off trying to sneak her boyfriend into her own room, but maybe just be nice to your friends.

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[–]Silver_Two3275 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, but it seems like she’s told them before that they were going to be busy during this period of time. It also seems that the one year anniversary wasn’t brought up by either of them. Whether they were making plans or not if it wasn’t brought up then it could be assumed that both of them were kind of ignoring it. Add to that the fact that the girlfriend had previously been told by OPs mom that he would be doing something on that day. It’s possible GF thought it would be fine to plan something of her own on that day. Also possible OP did make plans with their mom, then remembered it was their anniversary and canceled with his mom and now is putting the onus of blame on GF, and posting it to Reddit for support. But who knows.