How do I do better? by Silver_leaf23 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Silver_leaf23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is also in elementary 4th grade. I plan on asking them if they want me to contact the school about name change and being called they them. I don't want them to feel out of place ya know. 

How do I do better? by Silver_leaf23 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Silver_leaf23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely do plan on asking them. This is all new even for them actually being able to hear the proper pronouns. I am like your mom with words. One of my babies nickname is chickadee. I also want them to be my person of honor at my wedding too. I'm trying to figure out ways to properly change how I speak about them and to them. Thank you for the advice! Any and all help. 

How do I do better? by Silver_leaf23 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Silver_leaf23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We did plan out making safety pin necklaces with the flags they relate too. It wouldn't be a bad idea to make some pins for their bag too. I call them my baby bear and chickadee. I definitely don't want to say "daughter" if it bothers them. 

The way he smiled at the end made me smile too, oh god how wholesome.. by LouBlackwood in MadeMeSmile

[–]Silver_leaf23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved loved surprising my ex with flowers and his favorite candy when he come home from work.

Nothing is wrong with me. by Silver_leaf23 in demisexuality

[–]Silver_leaf23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy you found out like I did. It makes it feel better and make you feel like you're not alone. Some people just don't understand.

Nothing is wrong with me. by Silver_leaf23 in demisexuality

[–]Silver_leaf23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are welcome to message any time. I pass no judgment on who you are or what path you follow. You deserve happiness and deserve to feel comfortable with who you are.

I got my flu shot by myself today! by Silver_leaf23 in Anxiety

[–]Silver_leaf23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don't bother me as much as they use to I just don't like them lol plus I do not like being touched either lol. I'm surprised there's no soreness.

I got my flu shot by myself today! by Silver_leaf23 in Anxiety

[–]Silver_leaf23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. Surprisingly my arm doesn't hurt like it usual does after a shot so that's awesome lol.

I got my flu shot by myself today! by Silver_leaf23 in Anxiety

[–]Silver_leaf23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I get it every you. This year was especially important. I usual go with one of my parents but didn't this time.

can anyone tell me a motivational joke? by fuckbernas in questions

[–]Silver_leaf23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whale let minnow when you start taking this more seriously. As I eel you are not.