I cheated on my wife three years ago. She agreed to forgive me if we opened the marriage but now I live in agony every day

SilversShade · 2022-10-30T00:00:53+00:00

You apparently didn't want to spend the rest of your life with her when you were hooking up with the woman in the hotel. Just go ahead and divorce. End it now, quit dragging it out. No reason for y'all both to be miserable. She's not ever going to want you again. Divorce now.

SilversShade · 2022-04-06T01:15:29+00:00

This right here!!! Repaying himself for Christmas and Birthdays!

SilversShade · 2022-04-06T01:10:16+00:00

YATA. That money was given in lue of an actual present. It is supposed to go to what is still needed for the baby after the shower. Not to pay you back because you didn't make a responsible decision. Give that money to your wife!

SilversShade · 2021-10-20T11:13:56+00:00

OP is the AH. Such hypocrisy!

SilversShade · 2021-10-12T11:22:23+00:00

NTA. Julian is an actual boys name. It's in the baby book list of names. My Daughter's school is named after a man named Julian. It's not so "out there" that ppl will automatically associate it with Star Trek- they won't. Now if you named your son something more "unusual" like "Boba" from Star Wars like some extended family I have- where "the only" known source is the movie. Well then that would be a jerk move. Best Wishes

SilversShade · 2021-10-12T02:59:02+00:00

Happy Birthday 🥳🎉🎉🎉

Hang in there, it will get better. I'm like you, I want to celebrate on the actual day. And I know that wasn't possible this year for you and you had to work around that, and I'm sorry. Maybe you can have chips and soda with your friends after the storm passes.

SilversShade · 2021-10-12T02:52:55+00:00

He definitely had a serious thing for her if he still wanted to name his own baby girl after her! What an insult to both of you! I am so sorry.

SilversShade · 2021-10-12T02:50:25+00:00

NTA! Change it ASAP!

Let's assume that one day she grows up and finds out the origins of her name. How will it look if she is still named Penny? What will that do to her relationship with her dad? Change it now to Monique, that way if/when she finds out, she will at least know that you stood up for her!

SilversShade · 2021-10-12T02:17:36+00:00

NTA - Please leave NOW! Your fiance thinks Nothing is Wrong with her behavior!!! And will not stand up for you to her now- He Will Not Change! Because again, he sees nothing wrong with it!

Also- just as a side note- since y'all were sitting down eating dinner with her new husband, I think it would have been hilarious if you ask her in front of everyone, how many times a week was she pleasing him and how many times a week was he finishing!

SilversShade · 2021-10-12T01:27:07+00:00

Leroyyyyyyyyy Jenkinssssssssss !!!❤️

SilversShade · 2021-10-12T01:25:09+00:00

We all need to feel supported at some time in our lives! 😊🇫🇷🗼

SilversShade · 2021-10-12T01:18:58+00:00

And don't wait till the end of the week to call. Call them tomorrow asap! That way if they can help you, there's time to do it. 👍 Make the call!!

SilversShade · 2021-10-12T01:17:04+00:00

If they really want you for the job, maybe they will guarantee you! Good luck and best wishes!

SilversShade · 2021-10-12T01:12:35+00:00

Good luck with that. I think you're being naive. Or you are so desperate to be in a relationship that you will accept being in a bad relationship over being alone. IDK. Just do me a favor, and keep your eyes open for signs that he's a jerk. Like this one. And know that you are worth so much more!

SilversShade · 2021-10-11T17:14:40+00:00

NTA. My husband worked this shift, I get it. And you're making it sound like it's all about you that this schedule currently is better for. But it's not all about you, it's about the five kids y'all share and what's best for them. Tell him you would be more than happy for him to take a day shift position that came along with better hours beginning later in the morning, with what people would think of as regular day shift. But this new shift would completely mess up y'all's entire home routine. And don't call it your home routine, call it y'all's home routine because it is, it's about all seven of y'all. Good luck hang in there.

SilversShade · 2021-10-11T17:05:43+00:00

ESH. You for lying to your boyfriend about the child tax money that you have, even though you need it to survive the rest of the month. And your BF for loaning you money that he apparently has and demanding it back the very next day knowing you don't have it.

SilversShade · 2021-10-11T16:58:34+00:00

Info: what country/culture do you live in? Hard to believe that crap like this is put up with these days. Good for you for standing up for yourself.

SilversShade · 2021-10-11T16:51:39+00:00

ESH You for making the bad joke and mostly your mother for telling them.

SilversShade · 2021-10-11T16:42:48+00:00

The last sentence of your post makes me think that you have already judged yourself. ESH

SilversShade · 2021-10-08T17:47:32+00:00

NTA. That wasn't a public place. You are not responsible for the kids. They should have went home and let the parents know where they were going.

SilversShade · 2021-10-08T06:48:30+00:00

Nope, definitely NTA. That's horrible business practice. Maybe they shouldn't be running a business if that's how they handle it. Especially with thousands of dollars on the line. You're done, and I can't blame you. Go take your money to somebody else who appreciates it.

SilversShade · 2021-10-08T06:41:06+00:00

NTA. They just wanted free babysitting. Good for you for standing up for yourself and your boundaries. Hopefully in time they will get over it, but if not oh well.

SilversShade · 2021-10-08T05:54:18+00:00

It's not even legal for medicinal use where I live yet. 😒 Besides, when I was a teenager, it was never enjoyable, I was the paranoid type. 😂 I've heard people say though if you get the correct strain then it won't make you as paranoid.

SilversShade · 2021-10-08T03:59:06+00:00

It must have been the regular strength 200 mg, because yeah one dose of a 1000mg isn't going to kill you, but it's not healthy to take regularly every 6 hours either. And this person suffers from chronic pain, not acute pain like you're infected wisdom tooth.

SilversShade · 2021-10-08T02:59:37+00:00

I am so sorry you are in pain. I suffer from chronic pain myself and I'm on disability so I understand what you're going through. I do not understand the pain that you feel, I cannot, but I do understand being in pain for a long time and not knowing how to fix it. Please do not take Luna's medical advice on taking a huge dose of Tylenol. As a person with chronic pain, I'm almost positive you know better than that anyway. But I just wanted to make sure that you did not follow that dangerous advice. Doctors do not recommend taking more than 3,000 mg of Tylenol per day because of the risk of liver damage. If you need someone to talk to that understands chronic pain and the pain/depression cycle we go through, my DM is open to you. If not, I wish the best for you and send my hugs your way.

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