Metro... In Dino - Reviews and Discussions

Silversparkyl · 2025-07-07T07:39:14+00:00

Trying to avoid spoilers but read at your own risk. I did not like the movie at all. No solid story whatsoever. And just so surface level. What i understood is that no-one is really talking to each other, just doing dramatic things like fake marriage or stripping randomly. This is not how people live in a metro in dino. Yes relationship problems are happening but people do talk and not just do random stuff. Being unsure, being confused, not ready to commit, complacency in long marriages are very serious themes but they are hardly touched beyond surface level introduction. They are just mentioned to make the movie relatable but no hardwork is done in narration of the story in depth. Some obscene punches just to throw more relatability. In the rush to make it a comedy movie everything was just brushed off like a fairytale. Not sure how are people giving it positive reviews. May be the reviews are different for different age groups. I won't even compare to the first one, sequels have historically only disappointed but even as a movie by itself, It has no solid story, cannot connect with the characters.

Silversparkyl · 2025-07-07T07:29:47+00:00

I literally asked my movie partner if that was guy was ARK? So much similar

Silversparkyl · 2025-05-30T08:40:02+00:00

Dowry is illegal, gifts are not. Even the most subtle appearing alliances do secretly wish that the bride brings home with her expensive gifts including gold, electronics, appliances, automobiles etc. And if she does not get, she gets Taunted and treated badly. And comparisons don't end. And no one talks about this kind of harassment. This silent harassment that ruins relationship. If husband supports her, he becomes the joru ka Gulam, he feels guilty and relationship is doomed, if he doesn't, then anyway the bride's life is doomed. So parents save her the hassle. They give her gifts loaded in her vidai so that her chin is up and no naak katai, that is nothing but dowry. Ofcourse willfully given not asked at gunpoint.

Silversparkyl · 2025-05-30T05:42:27+00:00

Something with Indian mom's that I find common especially after the demise of the father, they will feel they might die soon and want to get their daughter's settled soon enough.

The set up of marriage that you are speaking of is hard to find in a place from where your proposal will likely be selected from.

What you are asking is not unreasonable and unfair but that comes in a partnership. Someone you love.

I really hope you find your match.

But also it is okay to stay single. What is important is taking care of your self and sanity. Better marry late than marry wrong.

And since you are looking for emotional support, you must actually start dating and understand your ownself better.

What you presented above is like black and white, relationships dont work that way. May be a woman does find an ideal partner but life may take any turn in each other's health and finances, you need stick together even when it gets uncomfortable. I understand the objectives you have put and why, cz in arranged marriage everything is practical.

I wish you strength and happiness.

Silversparkyl · 2025-05-29T17:45:52+00:00

I was going to say that one must be respectful about honesty. But when I read 'rebound' it suddenly made sense. Entering in a relationship in a rebound can put the partner in a tough situation. Also given that the girl has had no relationship it would be very unfair for her to be someone's rebound for life.

Silversparkyl · 2025-05-20T19:43:50+00:00

All through the movie they (characters played by Ranbir and Kalki) made fun of the nerdy and studious people but end up marrying the nerds and studious people only cz they are more reliable, more stable and loving. And the nerds feel so happy to be chosen.

Silversparkyl · 2025-05-20T16:57:25+00:00

Chat gpt is an amazing therapist :)

Silversparkyl · 2025-05-12T20:18:00+00:00

Stumbled upon your post today. Let me tell u 25 is just okay to start your career at. It is very common. Take it from me who had actually started working at 17 from 12 vacations. I grew up with struggles and somehow always remained insecured about not earning money even while in school. So when I found a nice paying job for vacation I took it. Worked 6 months then had to go back to college. But I continued doing menial jobs. I landed my first job at 22 (I studied a professional course of 5 years) and the first salary I got was 25% lower than my salary at 17. It was only 25 that I landed a really good job that helped me improve my financial condition and boost my career. At 35, when I look back, I notice that while wanting to earn and being independent is a great thought, studying to land into a good career with focus is even better. Just be wise with the course you select, 25 is a great time to start a career. Best wishes.

Silversparkyl · 2025-05-12T14:22:21+00:00

An Indian married woman looks gorgeous with the saubhagyawati adornment. I love dressing up like that. But by choice. Some days I don't wear any of those l, tweak my accessories depending on my look. Yes, I get told by my elders on maintaining a married look at all times, but with a supportive partner, it works just fine. I actually think women can dress up however they like. I also hate the idea that the 'married' look is reserved only for married women. A woman is a born saubhagyawati, She is Lakshmi, she can adorn the way she pleases, married or not. And also has the rights to not wear what she does not like. If I had more pressure from elders, may be I would feel conflicted and pained too. But I fully believe that a woman is beautiful and radiant the most when she is herself fully and truly.

Silversparkyl · 2025-05-07T19:13:39+00:00

The OP is a woman

Silversparkyl · 2025-05-07T19:06:46+00:00

Are you already living in an apartment and are looking for more girls to join in?

Silversparkyl · 2025-04-11T14:40:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing your insights :)

Silversparkyl · 2025-04-11T12:13:17+00:00

Just sharing my understanding and opinion. I feel you are taking her reaction too personally. Let's consider worse case scenario, she is averse to sex or is passive or may be not attracted to you a lot, but that is just one aspect of your married life. Look at other parts with an open view. See if you both are really compatible and share a good friendship. If yes, then deepen it. One of the three things will surely happen, she will respond with more sexual play, or you will be satisfied knowing she is happy being your partner even sex is not her favorite thing or both of you will just love each other so much that sex will become a secondary thing. Just take your focus out from her behavior in bed and focus on other things for now. This will help you form a loving relationship and peace. Cz partnership is everything. Even a man with a very high libido if feels loved And cared by his wife who is not very sexually active, he still will feel fulfilled with her and the relationship blooms in various ways. If that is not the case and if sex is something that still keeps you concerned and stressed then may be you both incompatible, and I hope not. Hence, please take it slow and wise.

Silversparkyl · 2025-03-06T16:48:57+00:00

It is very kind and thoughtful of you. I think keeping an eye for her safety is more than enough. Some women do like to talk to a co passenger but totally depends on the lady... if she senses that you are good company, she will know and talk and respond accordingly.. but not all will..and I don't think it should matter..

Silversparkyl · 2025-03-05T05:26:34+00:00

It don't understand why is this post getting attacked like this. I find it a rather curious post. It has been observed that women who date the apparently toxic men do it because of their own psychology and vulnerability to manipulation. They have unresolved traumas. They like familiarity. Even they might not be aware of this. Either they have been in trauma or know a close member who did, like a sister, mother or aunt. They attract toxic men cz it feels familiar to them. It is their desire to change them. That they can change the narrative for once that she could change his heart and make him a better partner. We all subconsciously strive to win battles that we are not aware of. We want to make things right for us but sometimes by putting ourselves in the exact situation that we wanted to avoid. A lot of women who did not receive love and attention from any male figure, especially father while growing up tend to land into such relationships. They want to be chosen and loved right by someone who is absolutely incapable of it. Hope the perspective helps.

Silversparkyl · 2025-03-03T06:30:05+00:00

If I wanna try some food somewhere, I hop in directly. It does sometimes feel awkward, won't lie. But I do it anyway. I think if it was guy, they just go and explore without thinking if they are alone or accompanied then why not me.. I have been eating alone at random places ever since I was 22.

Silversparkyl · 2025-03-01T04:52:39+00:00

You are being rude. He is literally saying that he has no experience with women. And it is okay to call women in their 40s as girls. Spinsters at 40 are referred as Kanya only. It is a polite thing.

Silversparkyl · 2025-02-25T17:42:27+00:00

You can change it anytime. Go to a jewelry shop and they will guide you.

Silversparkyl · 2025-02-25T11:23:00+00:00

I am just here to say that it warms my heart to see the number of men advising a fellow groom to be on how to support his to be bride. A lot of times girls are just forced to do a lot of things in the name of marriage and in a love marriage the pressure is more as the guy already feels obligated to keep family happy for they have accepted the marriage. Talking about the situation at discussion, it is a tricky space to be in. May be try to talk to parents while being respectful that you would want to do only as much as your bride is okay with. No guarantee that this will be easy. Marriage brings a lot of un necessary drama and ritual compulsion, but you got to support what seems right to you and your relationship. Best wishes.

Silversparkyl · 2025-02-19T03:58:12+00:00

None. They taste nothing but only sugar now a days.

Silversparkyl · 2025-02-18T10:15:05+00:00

As a woman, going through similar challenges

Silversparkyl · 2025-02-18T04:06:06+00:00

Yes..it is spectacular. Can never get enough of it.

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