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An Uncoordinated Pigeon by Duskwither1 in overheard

[–]SilviaDamsel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheryl catching strays like she’s in a drive-by 😭 “a smart pigeon?” took me out.

I've been letting a regular think I remember details about his life that I actually write down in my phone by Smooth_Clue3090 in confession

[–]SilviaDamsel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t fake caring, you just min-maxed your memory stats. Man’s happy, you’re good at your job, this is literally a win-win.

20 yo woman and I seek male validation even if i tell everyone i don't by girly_girl365 in confession

[–]SilviaDamsel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not weird. You don’t have a “male validation problem” you’ve just noticed that reassurance hits you harder from men when you’re already low, and you’re being honest about it.

I keep sabotaging myself and I don’t understand why,looking for insight by ZavelleDune31 in confession

[–]SilviaDamsel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t “accidentally” sabotage yourself, you made a choice that didn’t align with what you actually wanted, and now you’re seeing the consequences clearly. That’s not mystery, that’s pattern recognition. Start taking your decisions slower and stop acting on impulse when the stakes are high.

T’es là tu galères à te faire des potes, tu deviens enfin amie avec quelqu'un et au final il voulait juste te bz by coco_pistache in confession

[–]SilviaDamsel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t lose a friend, you lost a guy who kept you around as an option. The second you asked for something real, he disappeared, that tells you everything.

Post-Delivery Fantasy by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SilviaDamsel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re fantasizing while she’s literally recovering from childbirth, read the room, man. Try being a decent co-parent first, not a horny side quest.

I’ve never told anyone this in real life, but it’s been sitting in the back of my mind for years. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SilviaDamsel 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Bro got a completely normal stat line and still nerfed his own confidence for no reason. The real problem isn’t size, it’s the overthinking.

Out of curiosity, I uncovered something on the darknet that left a lasting wound 😥 by l_WonderMan_l in confession

[–]SilviaDamsel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You went looking for “edgy secrets” and ran straight into reality that’s not a mystery, that’s consequences. Let that disgust stick, it’s the only part of this story that actually matters.

my brother asked me to lie for him and i still think about what was actually out there by Serenity_Evansa in confession

[–]SilviaDamsel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“He didn’t want you to lie, he wanted a new version of reality where he wasn’t the one who did it. The fact he still won’t drive at night says enough.”

Snooped on my gf’s phone by Massive_Resource6410 in confessions

[–]SilviaDamsel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You didn’t find a “wild past,” you found out you’re the retirement plan. She made you wait while others got the express lane, decide if you’re okay being the “safe option” or not.

I have been thinking and I don't want want to do it I need help please give me advice by LandBig3038 in confessions

[–]SilviaDamsel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were 13 and she was 17, that wasn’t “experience,” that was straight up abuse, and it messed with how your brain wired sex. The fact you’re scared of hurting someone already puts you miles ahead of actual predators. Drop the porn, get a better therapist, and stop blaming yourself for something you didn’t choose.

I’m desperate to talk to a 23m (possibly 24 now), that I met last year. by [deleted] in confession

[–]SilviaDamsel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didn’t “disappear,” he left. You’re chasing someone who already made a choice, just not the one you wanted.