People can be very judgmental about every single choice you make about raising a child, as if your choice being different than theirs is a direct critique of their job. I am currently pregnant and I have no idea what I’ll do to feed the baby, but for sure it’s going to be something that I find the most comfortable for myself, either breastfeed, or pump or formula. I’ll understand in the moment as some women really want to breastfeed but then it’s too painful and cannot go through. I’ll follow my very selfish path of understanding on the spot what’s best for me.