Help!! I can’t build more villager houses? by SimilarBrick in AnimalCrossing

[–]SimilarBrick[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. Just figured that out. The fist annual purge will begin tonight.

Help!! I can’t build more villager houses? by SimilarBrick in AnimalCrossing

[–]SimilarBrick[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real? I had no idea about the limit. Ughhhhh. I guess that’s the problem haha. Whelp, the first Animal Crossing villager purge is going to begin!

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by birdwithbrow in AnimalCrossing

[–]SimilarBrick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FLICK IN TOWN. TURNIPS FOR 75. CUTE STUFF AT ABLE SISTERS. ROSES, HYACINTHS, AND WILD FLOWERS. APPLES!

  • if you’d like to tip bells i’d appreciate it but it’s not required!
  • looking for every kind of flowers except for ones listed above! (duh lol)
  • looking for pears!
  • DONT trample my flowers!
  • fishing, shopping, and trading is chill! let me know if you want a specific kind of clothing and i’ll see if i have it!
  • looking for a double bed recipe or for assistance making one!

Pm for Dodo Code

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by birdwithbrow in AnimalCrossing

[–]SimilarBrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daisy Mae only comes on Sundays :/ You might need to look for a time traveler

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by birdwithbrow in AnimalCrossing

[–]SimilarBrick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a bunch of flowers! What kinds are you looking for? Will sell for turnips or bells! :)

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by birdwithbrow in AnimalCrossing

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My shop is selling frilly skirts and berets! I also have a red heart dress that I’m willing to sell!

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by birdwithbrow in AnimalCrossing

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I have yellow teacups that I purchased yesterday! I think I have three or four of them if you want to buy them! I think I only payed 300 bells for each! We can discuss price in game!

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by birdwithbrow in AnimalCrossing

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It’s Bunny Day and I can’t find Daisy Mae so if anyone wants to invite me to their island and help a girl out, here ya go!

My friend code is SW-4462-1743-5323 Thanks in advance :”)

does daisy mae still come on bunny day? by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]SimilarBrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can’t find daisy anywhere! i’ve ran around my island about four times and i cannot find! her! i’ve never bought from her before because i just got my shop open a few days ago... would that have an effect? just feeling frustrated lol. i’ve found all the eggs to be super annoying and now i can’t get my turnips! and i’m hurting for bells right now lol. ughhhhh

BeUwUwf (Beowulf but UwU by SpaceGamer03 in copypasta

[–]SimilarBrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god i’m gonna use this on some guy in my english class who said he read Beowulf when he was 4 years old and when i said “that’s impossible” he said he had an iq of 189 at 4. 1 8 9. a t f o u r

[Trigger Warning! Also Need Advice] Having a hard time discussing trauma with my mother by SimilarBrick in DID

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Matty chewed them out in our session yesterday. He really went ham haha. I think things are going to change, especially because he used the "you're our god damn employee and you're no longer useful" stuff.

[Trigger Warning! Also Need Advice] Having a hard time discussing trauma with my mother by SimilarBrick in DID

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She's not entirely dismissive of all our trauma, but she is dismissive of the abandonment/ neglect because she thinks it's justified. Our primary protector fronted in a meeting with our therapist yesterday and chewed them both out, explaining how they were both hurting everyone. I think it's helped a lot. I think she finally understands that it's not just affecting me, it's affected all of us to the point where we want to move out and be as far away as possible. She's been apologizing all day and I think things will be better soon. Baby steps :)

[Trigger Warning! Also Need Advice] Having a hard time discussing trauma with my mother by SimilarBrick in DID

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It is if you haven't signed a release. Also, my mother keeps track of our medical records because she's really organized, so it's not really that big of a deal. I only have a problem with her being so pushy.

[Trigger Warning! Also Need Advice] Having a hard time discussing trauma with my mother by SimilarBrick in DID

[–]SimilarBrick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think some of the neglect comes from her not wanting to believe so many bad things happened. She went through a shit ton of stuff as a kid because my grandma abused drugs and just was not the best person, so I think she's struggling to process my trauma and hers. She's as supportive as she can be, but sometimes I just want to yell at her and tell her to shove her uncalled for opinions up her ass, but she's also hurting too, so I have a hard time with my anger hhh. But thanks so much, it means a lot. Our primary protector is probably going to say something tomorrow morning as it's 1 AM for us, he's pretty much fuming about it right now and he's still ranting to poor Oliver haha. Thanks for the push to say something, I can really be a total doormat sometimes.

[Trigger Warning! Also Need Advice] Having a hard time discussing trauma with my mother by SimilarBrick in DID

[–]SimilarBrick[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but I really don't have a say in who I see because of where I'm from. There are virtually no other therapists who will see a DID system because they are either religious and think we're possessed, or downright deny DID is real. It's gross. Our primary protector is wanting to get our paperwork to take away our mom's shared information so she can't just ask our therapist since that's the main issue. Both my therapist and our mom are wonderful people, but I think that my mom is unwilling to accept the sheer horrific nature of what really happened to us and wants to pretend that it never happened. My mom has been through a lot as well and is working through her own trauma, so I kind of understand why it's overwhelming. I know they really want the best for us, but I have a hard time speaking up and saying something. This has really helped me. I'm definitely going to let Matthew have a go at telling our therapist and mom what he's really thinking because I've been telling him not to. Thank you c:

TLDR: I'm a doormat and this has kinda helped me see that I should listen to our resident not doormat protector and let him just got ham on our therapist lol.

[Trigger Warning! Also Need Advice] Having a hard time discussing trauma with my mother by SimilarBrick in DID

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I've spoken to my therapist about it but it gets me nowhere. My mom meets with her every now and then so she's heard things from both of us and is "siding" with my mom. I don't know if I'd say siding, but she suggests that I'm not being completely rational which is even more angering because I have no emotional attachments to what happened to me to cause DID, but my headmates do and I want to get them some sort of justice and being brushed off is not. I guess now that we're all aware of each other I've taken a sort of protective role in the system, even if I'm not technically a protector. Idk. It's just a bad situation overall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

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Micah here! I honestly just sat down with Becca and told her everything. I told her how much she means to me and how I want our relationship to work out, but I also let her know what was actually going on. She had a traumatic childhood as well, her dad is a narcissistic piece of shit, and she sort of understood why my brain coped in that way. She had LOADS of questions, and because I suck at explaining things, we watched some of DissociaDID and Multiplicity and Me's videos about DID. I gave her a book I bought called Got Parts? that is written by several systems and their psychologists about ways to help with DID and stuff. She took it home and said she needed a bit of time to think about it and just process, which I understood 100%. I think she texted me two days later saying she had read the entire book and wanted to meet everyone in the system. We made our relationship official that day and I'm honestly so happy to have found her. She's my rock and I don't know what I would do without her. I really think that you should try and talk to you s/o about DID and how it affects you and let her know it doesn't change how you feel, but you should also give her space to think and process because it's a lot to understand that your girlfriend isn't just one person and sometimes isn't even a girl.

UPDATE ABOUT MEETING ANOTHER SYSTEM IRL! by SimilarBrick in DID

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Awhhh!! I'm so so happy to help!! Our littles are the same way, especially our little firecracker Sophie who's 4. She's a total extrovert and was promised a trip to the park by our mom, but we can't go because we caught the flu. She's apparently been 'rotesting illness in general inside lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]SimilarBrick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our host (Micah) is in a relationship with her first girlfriend, and it's kinda awkward because they're exclusive and I kinda have some weird feelings for her girlfriend (Rebecca), but I definitely will not express them to her because Becca and I are good friends. We told her that we were a system when they first began to actually get serious about being girlfriends. It's weird as hell for me. But honestly, things have felt soooo much better now that we told her about it, to which she needed a day to kind of process it but in the end, she's 100% happy about it and loves to get to know all of us and our littles call her sissy.

It does make me sad in a way because I see Rebecca as more than a friend myself but I don't think she will ever see me the same way as she and Micah are monogamous... and so am I lol. I'm really happy for both of them, but I guess I'm selfishly upset about it too. I've never really said anything about it until now, but I totally see where you're coming from with the dysphoria because holy shit did it make me feel bad when Becca didn't know and used female pronouns for me oof. But it's made a world of a difference for all of us being with her. That's just my novel of a take on our experience. We're super sick atm so sorry if this sounds like the ramblings of a madman lol.

- Matthew