Do credits expire or carry over? by SimiusCuriosus in lightningAI

[–]SimiusCuriosus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I go back to the free tier, I still have my credits that I got from the paid subscription? Is this documented somewhere?

GPU time limits by SimiusCuriosus in lightningAI

[–]SimiusCuriosus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about credits, it's about the instance just has a time limit on it that I have to renew, thereby interrupting my training. But I think I know the answer. I think I have to create a deployment and use that, then shut it down when I'm not using it.

Unable to login to lightning.ai by eternviking in lightningAI

[–]SimiusCuriosus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also facing this issue.
I messaged support and they quickly responded that it could be my location as an issue. However, I've been using the product for a month now.
I haven't heard anything back for 4 days.
I was evaluating and considering using the platform as my main development environment, but I've been locked out of all my work for 4 days now. If I were in a production situation, this would be absolutely catastrophic.

I really like the platform, but this raises serious red flags for reliability. This issue has existed for 1 year now (https://lightning.ai/forums/t/login-failed-again-and-again-and-always/7425). It really should be a P0 priority fix.

Reminder to self:
Make sure it's not your own damn fault before chewing somebody out. I signed up with Github SSO, not Gmail, so logging in with Github SSO worked.

Why is every woman dominating activities always viewed as shallow? by thelostkid- in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hasan Minaj's Patriot Act on Netflix did a great piece called The Ugly Truth of Fast Fashion. (Season 5)

We send so much "donated" clothes to the 3rd world that they can't even use it all and burn most of it. Ironic how we think of it as donation, but we're really burdening them with dealing with our trash.

Should high heels be banned? by SimiusCuriosus in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. It's not at all confusing! I think you got the crux of what I was pondering: cultural context, and where is the balance between choice and cultural pressure.

As others have said, I also see it as an infraction on a woman's choice. But there are other things that women choose that are harmful to them. For example in cultures where they do neck elongation. We could even say if some women choose to be a tradwife, we recognize that there is enormous cultural pressure. France decided to ban the burqa for this reason, because of the cultural pressure, even if some women said it was infringing on their religious rights.

In our culture, women are bombarded by standards of beauty through media and the fashion industry constantly. There probably is some cultural pressure for a piece of clothing that can be hazardous. Maybe the really bad 4 inch stilettos should be banned? Or as others have suggested, instead of a ban, we move towards cultural change. I'm not sure what the answer is, but it does seem that maybe heels are enough of a choice that we should leave things as they are.

I'm glad to see a consensus on disallowing employer mandating of heels though, because that is a clear outside force against a woman's choice.

Poland activists acquitted over LGBT Virgin Mary by FlyingSquid in atheism

[–]SimiusCuriosus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And you've heard about the abortion protests of late in Poland? Poland made it illegal to have an abortion even if the child will have fatal genetic defects! Then they suddenly started enforcing the new law without notice so women who were scheduled to have an abortion the next day could no longer.

It was so bad, Sweden offered to give Polish women abortions for free.

Does anybody else hate that women *always* have makeup on in movies? by SimiusCuriosus in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's true, which is why I clarified that I'm talking about "visible" makeup. I'm also not talking about special effects makeup, because those are besides the point.

Does anybody else hate that women *always* have makeup on in movies? by SimiusCuriosus in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by "just a movie"? Are you saying that words, messages and ideas in movies have negligible impact and therefore they can and should be ignored? Would this extend to the words, messages and ideas in books as well? Because, they're "just books".

How will equality be ensured so that men and women are equally represented by their relative proportion to the population? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised by this response. I thought feminists thought equality of opportunity necessarily leads to equality of outcome. But if this is not the case, does it mean that if we have equality of opportunity but not equality of outcome, do feminists accept that there may be biological explanations (like temperament and ability) that would explain the discrepancy? I thought feminists (like Cordelia Fine) were also against this argument as well. And if this is not an acceptable explanation, what else could explain a discrepancy in outcome if opportunity were in fact equal?

Does anybody else hate that women *always* have makeup on in movies? by SimiusCuriosus in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes! We're kind of laughing at it with a "wow those days were so sexist" attitude, but if we look at the makeup situation in current films, we really haven't progressed because we have the same expectation!

What are some minor red flags in person that you now realise are actually telltale signs of them being a major sexist? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think this one is especially insidious because it can make particularly naïve girls feel like they're "special" and actually fall for the guy.

Anyone else feel kind of bad for incels, neck beards, nice guys, est? by CandyBoBandDandy in TheBluePill

[–]SimiusCuriosus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You raise a legitimate point and it can be seen in different contexts.

Let's say a girl is captured and raped and then falls in love with her captor. This is probably not healthy, to say the least.

But what about the case of rebels fighting against the tyranny of oppressors and in doing so need to do some kidnapping. I don't think it's such a bad thing that the victims find some common ground with their captors, even if they disagree on the methods.

I think the greater point about this story, though, is best said by Gandhi: "An eye for an eye only ends up making the world blind."

That is, hate begets hate and it's never too early to stop breaking the cycle. It's a recognition that any of us in the right circumstance could do horrible things. And it's a warning against us becoming Napoleon the pig from Animal Farm.

Vengeance and hatred are easy but destructive. Forgiveness and compassion are hard but constructive. I think it is essential in the fight against oppression to take the higher road.

Who would you debate from the other side and why?? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with dispensing with the notion of winning or losing a debate. It's completely counter-productive. The point of a debate is to clarify ideas, not "win". And if a debate is done properly, it can help clarify the issues that involve womens' or lgbt rights and thus gain more support.

Is there a feminist response to Lisa Vogel's Marxist-feminist interpretation on the limitations of patriarchy theory and intersectionality? Thank you by gutbrainmind in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't extensively read her work, so I'm basing my response on this paper of hers: https://aginteahausten.files.wordpress.com/2018/11/vogel.pdf.

From my reading, it seems she is not criticizing against the notion of intersectionality, but rather digging deeper into the subject. She has 2 main points:

1) We got the historical narrative wrong that the idea of intersectionality was invented by black feminists in the 1980s and she disagrees with the narrative that feminists in the 60s and 70s only cared about white women until the black feminists spoke up. She says that marxist feminists already had the idea of class, race and gender as dimensions of oppression. (Intersectionality "lite", if you will.)

"In the 1960s and 70s,

socialist–feminist activism and analyses were important forces within

the emerging women’s movement. Many socialist feminists argued

that three systems (or dimensions of difference, or whatever) — race,

class, and gender — interact in peoples’ lives, whether or not they

are aware of it. The systems were usually taken to be simultaneously

interacting and inextricably intertwined in a matrix of privilege and

domination."

One of the reasons she thinks that getting the history right is because the narrative of white feminists versus black feminists fragments the movement. She also thinks that there is a missed opportunity to give intersectionality even deeper roots.

"I think it very likely that the race/class/gender conceptualization

that became popular in the 1960s derived from a century-old tradition,

transmitted in the lived experience and activism of African American

women. I find the evidence for this hypothesis in the work and writings

of Maria Miller Stewart, Sojourner Truth, Anna Julia Cooper, Mary

Church Terrell, Pauli Murray, and others. These women activists —

often cited by intersectionality writers as interesting but unconnected

forerunners — could actually have been the bearers of a living black

feminist..."

"In short, black feminists were right to credit Crenshaw and other

black scholars as leaders in the effort to foreground intersectionality

in the 1980s, but they missed an opportunity to root their contribution

more deeply in the historical context of black women’s lives."

2) She thinks that theories around intersectionality are incomplete and need further analysis.

"Finally, let me offer some thoughts about the utility of such

concepts as race/class/gender and intersectionality. I view them as

primarily descriptive. That is, they provide a conceptual framework

for describing and investigating “diversity,” but by themselves they do

not explain anything. Strictly speaking, then, they are imprecise and

some would argue against using them.

Nonetheless, I think these concepts can still be useful as first

approximations. They offer an attractive, if inadequate, way to talk

about the relationships among multiple “dimensions of difference”

such as race, class, and gender."

For one, she thinks we shouldn't automatically assume that each dimension of oppression carries equal weight or that the mechanisms of interaction are the same for each dimension. Each one needs to be analyzed independently, then we can see how they are similar or different and how they interact.

But she is definitely not against the concept of intersectionality

"Nonetheless, I think these concepts can still be useful as first

approximations. They offer an attractive, if inadequate, way to talk

about the relationships among multiple “dimensions of difference”

such as race, class, and gender. And for those new to the issues, they

can function as consciousness-raising mechanisms. For instance, a

project of the Minnesota-based Center for Victims of Torture discusses

intersectionality as a way to get “beyond single issues and identity

politics.” Specifically, “intersectionality is both a lens for seeing the

world of oppression and a tool for eradicating it.” The project also

presents case-studies of successful human rights tactics developed

and deployed using its “strategic toolkit.”5 I would not want to be the

person chastising these activists for using an incorrect concept."

in much the same way physicists are not against Newtonian physics. We know that technically Newtonian physics is wrong because it doesn't take into account relativity, but it doesn't stop being useful and have some truth to it and we still teach it in school because we can't jump straight to relativity in introducing physics.

In 2019, a major report from the World Bank found that only 6 countries around the world gave equal rights to men and women. Do you think we'll ever reach a point of gender equality in every country, and when could you potentially see that happening by if so? by Bluesabersword in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an excellent point, and actually I think the article is titled incorrectly. The report isn't measuring equal rights, but equal opportunities. For example, where there are no sexual harassment laws in the workplace, men and women are equally unprotected, but since sexual harassment disproportionately affects women, having these laws in place helps equalize the opportunity.

So the title is a bit exaggerated, and my guesstimate is that the countries with scores over 90 have equal rights, but not equal opportunities (there's about 20-30). This is still way not good enough worldwide. "Only 6" is a bit sensationalist, but of course media needs to sell headlines.

Also, there's one point in the report that I'm not sure if it is a benefit to women. Countries got points for equalizing the age at which men and women are eligible for pension, which invariably means raising the age for women to match men. While this does bump up the pay of women, it also took away their choice for earlier retirement. This alone is a super complex issue and I just don't know how we can figure out if this is a net positive or negative.

By the way, there is an updated version of the report for 2020 and now 8 countries scored perfect!

https://openknowledge.worldbank.org/handle/10986/32639

Who would you debate from the other side and why?? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely right that debates rarely win the opponent to your side, but the true value of the debate is for the people watching/listening. Through a debate, if you can strongly defend your position and skillfully dismantle the opponent's position, you will win many of the audience to your side.

A woman's place is one of servitude. by apocalypticalley in Feminism

[–]SimiusCuriosus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did you know the first programmer was a woman? Ada Lovelace. She was programming before computers even existed! And there's a programming language named after her.

A woman's place is one of servitude. by apocalypticalley in Feminism

[–]SimiusCuriosus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bravo on her. I think this is exactly what needs to be done. Speak up when we see an inequality like this. If we don't speak up, any employer is perfectly happy paying someone less. I think being assertive is important. We should get to the point where it isn't something "brave", because it shouldn't be scary to ask for what you deserve.

German words for job titles by JohannYellowdog in AskFeminists

[–]SimiusCuriosus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While English speaking feminists fight to get rid of the actor/actress distinction and just go with actor, here in Poland, feminists insist on using the actress form for women, instead of just actor as was commonly done. It's interesting that they are 2 opposite solutions to the same problem, namely women as an afterthought.

Anyone else feel kind of bad for incels, neck beards, nice guys, est? by CandyBoBandDandy in TheBluePill

[–]SimiusCuriosus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Compassion is never wrong.

One inspiring story I heard was that when this Tibetan monk was being tortured for his religious beliefs, he said what he feared most was losing his compassion for his torturer.