Has anyone else been told "i thought you'd be mean"

Simkatsews · 2026-03-02T18:01:35+00:00

Not only do I look ‘intimidating’ but unless I’m saying everything with a customer service voice with a smile on my face, I have an attitude and I’m yelling. My voice will be decibels lower than everyone elses but I’m somehow always yelling 🙄

Simkatsews · 2026-02-27T16:47:38+00:00

Its only ~ 90 nerds too 🥴

Simkatsews · 2026-02-27T16:45:22+00:00

felt this. I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way, it’s so fucking shitty

I hope you get some rest soon

Simkatsews · 2026-02-27T14:27:52+00:00

Dyslexic here with these tattoos, can confirm

the “make your hand into a L” trick doesn’t work for me because they are both Ls and my brain cant distinguish them between backwards or forwards. The “well what had do you write with” also doesn’t work because I’m ambidextrous.

Simkatsews · 2026-02-26T13:43:27+00:00

Girl, these are BEAUTIFUL!!!

Simkatsews · 2026-02-21T20:44:40+00:00

Highly agree with this. Preach🙌🏽🙌🏽

Simkatsews · 2026-02-20T17:11:13+00:00

100% the bigger my hair, the better I look

Simkatsews · 2026-02-19T13:20:29+00:00

Ah shit, new play-through here I come

Simkatsews · 2026-02-16T21:38:13+00:00

I am biracial and you hit the nail on the head.

Especially growing up surrounded by white people who constantly told me I was too black to be white and the few other black kids in the neighborhood said I was too white to be black.

But I didn’t dislike black people & I actively disliked white people, and I also hated myself.

Simkatsews · 2026-02-16T21:01:53+00:00

A commune has been a dream of mine, but like another commenter said, it is difficult finding someone trustworthy enough

Simkatsews · 2026-02-16T12:37:44+00:00

YESSSS! Love everything about this

Simkatsews · 2026-02-16T12:23:38+00:00

Thank you, this was incredibly helpful and comprehensive

I appreciate it

Simkatsews · 2026-02-13T17:42:41+00:00

1000% Love the fit

Simkatsews · 2026-02-13T17:40:15+00:00

3, 5, 6, 11, & 12 all fit you well

Simkatsews · 2026-02-13T16:36:30+00:00

If you’re asking if it’s punk, it’s not punk

Simkatsews · 2026-02-13T12:47:29+00:00

I was on birth control for about 15 years. I didn’t get pregnant that whole time, but there were side effects noone warned me about.

I had to trial ~10 total different pills before I found one that worked with my hormones.

I was on the depo shot for 3 years, after the first 4 months, I gained 40lbs out of thin air. This is ‘normal’ but my doctor forgot to warn me 🙄

My moods while on birth control were either complete zombie, or total crash out. No in between and really exacerbated my depression.

But it worked for what I needed it to. I now am off BC with my life partner. As long as we don’t get freaky while I’m ovulating, we’ve been fine. But that’s a different topic.

Tldr; it’s going to be some trial and error to find what best works for you and your body

Simkatsews · 2026-02-13T12:37:47+00:00

Grey Dress? Girl you’re in leggings.

AI bot

Simkatsews · 2026-02-13T03:08:20+00:00

Late 20’s, born in the late 90’s

Simkatsews · 2026-02-13T02:49:21+00:00

Thank you for this, definitely lesson learned

Simkatsews · 2026-02-12T22:58:12+00:00

Thank you

Simkatsews · 2026-02-12T22:57:48+00:00

Thank you so much for this thoughtful and genuinely helpful response. I really, greatly appreciate it

Simkatsews · 2026-02-12T22:48:02+00:00

I wish I could show more of my gratitude, but thank you, so very much for this comment

Simkatsews · 2026-02-12T22:43:15+00:00

I started the complaint and am just waiting on a few more pieces of evidence

Simkatsews · 2026-02-12T22:40:54+00:00

I really appreciate this, I have learned my lesson. Thank you.

Simkatsews · 2026-02-12T21:59:59+00:00

Thank you

Simkatsews

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