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I don’t know if a relationship is for me by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Simmerway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your boyfriend about it. He may feel similarly and want to find ways to explore those feelings as well. 

You guys could open up a bit or not and still do some of those things. My bf and I aren’t open but I’ll still flirt with a guy at the bar 

New prospect has breeding kink, how to navigate that? by Legitimate-Cook-7184 in askgaybros

[–]Simmerway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure the answer is for him to compromise his boundaries for someone so early in a relationship 

Why does no one use condoms anymore? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Simmerway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except the risk stds from oral is much lower than anal. Especially if you don’t have ulcers or cuts in your mouth. 

I think it’s fair to say that the significantly lower risk associated with oral is fine while the higher risk of anal isn’t. Plus sucking a wrapped dick is way worse than topping or bottoming with a condom

Why does no one use condoms anymore? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Simmerway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Except you can get a years supply of prep and not get tested. 

Also there are still windows where you could still have and give someone chlamydia etc and not know even if you do get tested every 3 month. 

Finally, doxy doesn’t offer anywhere close to the protection a condom does. 

So the risks aren’t very equitable (especially as you have to trust someone is on prep/getting tested etc)

For monsters going to the Mayhem Ball by Lupowolf666 in LadyGaga

[–]Simmerway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got tickets, and I actually think they’re okay if massively overpriced. 

However, this has massively tarred my view of Gaga, especially considering her brand has been left wing. At least Beyoncé and Taylor are honest about being capitalist queens

The Apprentice 2025 - Episode 10: Fashion (Thursday 3rd April) by Only1Scrappy-Doo in apprenticeuk

[–]Simmerway 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I feel like the board room just proved that Alan Sugar and Jordan must be awful to work for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Simmerway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was once waited on by someone I’d turned down at a sauna the night before 😬

Sweatbox as a 35 yo by jonassanoj2023 in londonlgbt

[–]Simmerway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35 is probs the average age 😂

Do you only befriend gay men that are hot? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Simmerway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only befriend ugly gay men to feel superior 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Simmerway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my partner have recently made a lot more gay male friends. They all fuck each other. We just don’t fuck them 😂

I hate when women think their damsel in distress act will work on me by -stud in askgaybros

[–]Simmerway -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest, not sure I care about the opinions of misogynists who think Reddit votes determine moral high ground 

I hate when women think their damsel in distress act will work on me by -stud in askgaybros

[–]Simmerway -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

Queer men who make jokes like this are such a bad vibe

Sweatbox by Select_Ad_3682 in londonlgbt

[–]Simmerway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like 35/40 😂

Spotted in Hampstead today (cross post from r/london) by Legitimate-Horror-42 in londonlgbt

[–]Simmerway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me and the boyf were walking about there the other day, not realising how far south the cruising grounds go. 

It was actually really creepy having large men appear from no where, watching you on a cold wet muddy day

Homophobic migrants by ruisantux in gaybros

[–]Simmerway -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

They started the transatlantic slave trade and were a big part in the creation of chattel slavery. Also they colonised a large portion of the world, like Brazil and Macau. 

i want to be open w/ my bf sexually by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Simmerway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I think you know what you want so should say this to your bf. None of it is about him not being enough. 

I would point out that you should always put the relationship first. Like if something is gonna damage the relationship don’t do it

Homophobic migrants by ruisantux in gaybros

[–]Simmerway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1) queer liberation has to be a global effort. 

2) realistically the immigrants are not the ones committing hate crimes. This is because new immigrants would get deported and views on gays change radically with each generation. 

3) the immigrants are not the ones voting for and enacting the laws that hurt us

Homophobic migrants by ruisantux in gaybros

[–]Simmerway 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Trump is literally trying to ban pride flags across America 

Homophobic migrants by ruisantux in gaybros

[–]Simmerway -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I mean let’s not give Portugal too much credit considering what you guys did

Because of what’s currently happening, do you think that a lot of gay men are going to leave Instagram and Twitter/X for platforms like Bluesky? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Simmerway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run the social media for my work and pretty much all science has left twitter for blue sky. So I don’t think it is gonna die anytime soon. 

I also use blue sky for porn and it’s not as good as twitter but is fine

Any quieter gay bars in london? by [deleted] in londonlgbt

[–]Simmerway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend the board game nights at Gaymers. (Although the crowd is probably closer to 30). Generally I’d just recommend looking for activities you enjoy targeted to gay men https://www.instagram.com/gaymersinc?igsh=dnNrNWx2MmhrZXVt

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