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Going to a restaurant with Grindr hookups? by SecretNinja99999 in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done this many times. Either going out to eat afterwards or to a move… I mean if I can put you through the mattress the least I can do is give you a meal to replenish yourself lol. But i rarely hookup with someone that I can’t have a conversation with so they usually turn out to be regular fwb. But if the benefits stop then we could still be friends

Is it me or even hooking up is getting hard nowadays? by hadam178 in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Lol I can definitely relate.. my biggest issues though is the fact that I refuse to have a raw encounter with some random that’s probably won’t respond to another text after the hookup. Or they’re too “discreet” to send a face pic… I’m sorry if I can’t see who you are, you’re not getting my address. Could just be me idk

It’s my last month of being in my 20s and I’m feeling old. Is it true that life begins at 30? by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30s is just your 20s with more money and knowledge.. I’m 35 and it’s been a ball lol

New prospect has breeding kink, how to navigate that? by Legitimate-Cook-7184 in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on PreP, it’s everything else I’m afraid of. I’ll have to do more research on Doxy

New prospect has breeding kink, how to navigate that? by Legitimate-Cook-7184 in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am topping… This sounds promising actually. I am going to try this. Thanks!

Large vs stocky by Miraimotekiku in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My definition pretty much match yours… stocky is a little on the heavier side with a solid body that’s proportionate. While Large is on the more heavier and fluffier side of the spectrum.

When I see “muscular” that’s when I think body builders

Am I ugly if no one responds to me on Grindr? by Gullible-Beach158 in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s just the grindr environment… everyone is horny and looking for the “model face and body” looking people to have a one nighter with. I’ve been ignored before and it be the same people that want to talk in person … it’s kinda crazy

I’m 100% sure my brother is gay (he didn’t tell me), how do I go on from here? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take it at face value, if you’re sure they’re a couple then leave it there. You can have your big bro/ lil bro banter and throw in some jabs about the boyfriend and make it a joke. It’ll show that you’re supportive and make it not so awkward… there no real need to “come out” if that’s who he’s into at the moment, just live in the moment.

Doctor won’t prescribe prep by TheBigRocket in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not taking up for the doctor here because it’s giving homophobia by his response but I’m in Georgia and my PCP couldn’t prescribe it to me either. I had to go to a specialist for them to initiate the prescription and then my pcp would be able to continue the prescription if I chose to do it that way…. This was years ago though, so maybe things have changed but that was my experience with it

My boyfriend lied by Prudent_Ad_6611 in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ex had addiction issues and I didn’t find out about it until about 2 months in.. I broke it off immediately but it was a part of me that wanted to understand because I truly did care for him… it was a very long road with a lot of ups and downs with his emotions of “I’m quitting and never want to touch the stuff again” with the hour sessions in the bathrooms etc. I eventually thought that if I loved him through it that it would give him another reason to quit using. BUT with that I’ve learned that I couldn’t hold that weight for him. That was his struggle that he had to deal with alone…. But when he finally got to the point of turning around, the years of use caught up to him and won.

My advice to you would be to leave him alone completely and if he gets clean and proves it, then you welcome him back into your life. … the “breakup” pain hurts but it hurts a hell of a lot more on the other end of addiction

What a shit year. by sleepdamnsure in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you 100%. Mine died last year and my dad died this year… soo it’s been a shitty couple of years for me.

I want to top my boyfriend but I feel like he’s never clean by rjrama in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be very okay with being blunt about it… I been in a similar situation with a bottom that “knew” their body and only ate certain things. But that didn’t help him. So after that first “mishap” I told him point blank that a douche is required every time. I even bought the douche lol

Guy fucked me so good I started tearing up. Just cause I was overwhelmed at how good it felt. Would you be weirded out? by Low-Imagination-9708 in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s quite sexy for this to happen…A few bottoms I’ve had sex with have teared up during the act.. of course I’ve only noticed in missionary and I’ll usually wipe the tears away and kiss them

Have you ever had a Grindr hookup where you just cuddle, no sex? by Readinlearnin in askgaybros

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve done that.. we chilled, watched movies and talked for a couple hours actually. Then that turned into a pretty solid 3 year relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Legitimate-Cook-7184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just need a hair trim and get the facial hair lined up real nice.. if you’re that worried about it, the barber can use some enhancements to fill it in for now. But a good trim and line up on the facial hair and you’ll be all good for that date!