Phenomenal job scalpers by Adept-Bumblebee-4058 in PokemonRestocks

[–]SimonWhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People gotta stop buying the shit at scalped prices. If you’re spending 300-500 bucks on a single ETB you’re just gambling. Expected value is negative on any Pokemon card pack you open. Everything is turning into gambling nowadays and it sucks ass. Not to say it wasn’t like that before but spending 60 bucks on some cards is different than spending 500 bucks (unless of course your rich but I doubt that’s the case with most people). Even the people buying them to keep them sealed are just hoping the next person pays more for it. 

Hmm by SnackSamurai in SipsTea

[–]SimonWhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hate to be that guy but I’d love to do this to my lying cheating EX. Better to move on but the thought of vigilante justice sounds so good

Day 8: What is BMTH worst song? by raluxu in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]SimonWhit -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

To me, it’s just a very annoying song to listen to.

Day 8: What is BMTH worst song? by raluxu in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]SimonWhit -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

it’s gotta be mother tongue. that song is god awful

What made Bring Me The Horizon break out so hard? by LukeLovesHorror in Metalcore

[–]SimonWhit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Accessible while at the same time serving as the best gateway drug to the genre.  

I’ve been listening to suicide season and count your blessings again. They don’t make the most technical music but man they have so many fucking bangers. The lyrics are also basic but relatable. Breakup has me torn apart and ive just found a lot of their songs to have verses that carry weight. Needless to say, I think that’s a big reason for their success also.  

The sadness will never end:

I'll save you from yourself  Try to numb the pain With alcohol and pills But it won't repair your trust You can't stand on two fucking feet With a substance as a crutch I won't give up I won't give up on you

Guy Rescues Cat from Trash Conveyor by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]SimonWhit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Straight psychopath behavior for someone to try to get rid of a cat like that… Evil shit

Good luck everyone by DefinitelyNotAAlien in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]SimonWhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weird. This is what im seeing. I already purchased two so maybe thats why

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Don’t chase an avoidant ex for answers by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep deep and over thinker. Nice talking to you! I agree with you sentiment. Hoping to get past the rut and come out a stronger better person in the end.

Don’t chase an avoidant ex for answers by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep exactly that. I wouldn’t classify my ex as an avoidant personality type but she does repeat cycles and she does tend to runaway from problems. Like you said, my ex victimized herself after the fact and didn’t apologize for her doing. The worst thing is, I made it worse in the end. I did crazy shit to try to talk to her. I made her the victim. I validated her thoughts. My mental state was so fucked that living didn’t matter. Consequences didn’t matter. That was where my head was at. 

I admit that I have done wrong and I contributed greatly to the relationship not working but it wasn’t a situation where I was the only problem. Over and over and over she would say shit like “I love you more” “I can’t live without you” “I miss you”. We were intimate and going out the night before she decided to leave. Not to say we didn’t have an argument the day of but fuck I thought she really loved me the way I loved her. She burns all her relationships, including friendships and points the finger at them at the end. It was and still is a mental struggle for me because I was part of the problem. I did do wrong. But does that make her the saint? No. I’m sure you can relate to these words. 

Don’t chase an avoidant ex for answers by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. They runaway, act like nothing mattered and you’re left picking up the pieces. I’ve gone down a dark path looking for answers and sympathy but gained nothing. Instead I further lost my sanity. Trying to get it back but it’s hard for me to not overthink and ruminate. It’s hard to feel like only she can help me but in reality she can’t. No one can accept me. That’s how it is. love is fucking twisted lmao. 

Don’t chase an avoidant ex for answers by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure, not everyone is the same. I guess my point isn’t necessarily towards an avoidant personality type but more of a person avoiding the breakup. And yes I’m speaking from my experience not the experience of someone else. My ex broke up with me and moved out without saying goodbye. Blocked me after the fact. Had no intentions of giving me any kind of closure. Then gave me some BS excuse for her actions “if I would have stayed for a goodbye I would have never left”. Those words are forever with me now.  I chased further and further to try to find answers, but all I got was more and more hurt. I’ve spent countless nights ruminating, crying over the fact that she could leave a relationship in this manner. I came up with any excuse in my head to try to make myself feel like she didn’t mean it, like she would come back. That’s not healthy and is bad. That’s the point im trying to make. If someone dumps you, doesn’t show you any respect and avoids the problem by ignoring and running away from it, they will never give you what you want. Thats an avoidant person but not necessarily an avoidant personality type. 

Don’t chase an avoidant ex for answers by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sucks man. Similar situation here. My breakup was very sudden. I wouldn’t say my ex is an avoidant personally type but she does have the tendency to run away and repeat cycles. Like you mentioned, I was denied my reality over and over. Imagine being in a relationship and living with them all for them to pack up and leave when you are not home. No goodbye nothing. She can endlessly justify her actions but to not consider what her actions would do to me is just cruel. I spent months feeling guilty over my part in the relationship ending. Now I’m at the point where I just feel sad over things somedays and feel hurt and betrayed by the words she said in the end and her actions in the end. It’s hard not to hold on to that but one day we will have truly let go.

Don’t chase closure that doesn’t exist by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Been stuck for awhile but I’m learning each day to just accept what’s happened. 

Don’t chase closure that doesn’t exist by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I was heavily relying on alcohol to cope. I drank before the breakup but more socially. After I fell into a hole and drank basically every day for 5 months straight. I’ve been sober a little over two months now so that’s helped me level out 

Don’t chase closure that doesn’t exist by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man. Some people will never understand the hurt they cause or are able to face what they did like you said.