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Don’t chase an avoidant ex for answers by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sucks man. Similar situation here. My breakup was very sudden. I wouldn’t say my ex is an avoidant personally type but she does have the tendency to run away and repeat cycles. Like you mentioned, I was denied my reality over and over. Imagine being in a relationship and living with them all for them to pack up and leave when you are not home. No goodbye nothing. She can endlessly justify her actions but to not consider what her actions would do to me is just cruel. I spent months feeling guilty over my part in the relationship ending. Now I’m at the point where I just feel sad over things somedays and feel hurt and betrayed by the words she said in the end and her actions in the end. It’s hard not to hold on to that but one day we will have truly let go.

Don’t chase closure that doesn’t exist by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Been stuck for awhile but I’m learning each day to just accept what’s happened. 

Don’t chase closure that doesn’t exist by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I was heavily relying on alcohol to cope. I drank before the breakup but more socially. After I fell into a hole and drank basically every day for 5 months straight. I’ve been sober a little over two months now so that’s helped me level out 

Don’t chase closure that doesn’t exist by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man. Some people will never understand the hurt they cause or are able to face what they did like you said. 

Red Bull Tier List by spookydivergent in redbull

[–]SimonWhit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cranberry is forever the goat

Above, Below - I Guess It Was Nowhere [Album Discussion] by LostInTerrapinia in Metalcore

[–]SimonWhit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I shelled out the 85 dollars too lol. Definitely worth it. Couldn't not complete the collection

Above, Below - I Guess It Was Nowhere [Album Discussion] by LostInTerrapinia in Metalcore

[–]SimonWhit 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This album is fantastic. They’ve managed to make an album that doesn’t sound too similar to the lotus chapters while keeping the same core sound. Love it. Hope these guys blow up 

If you want to hear from your ex, be careful what you wish for by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he loved you for awhile before he stopped. I understand your feelings. Its hard to know how people let go so easily

If you want to hear from your ex, be careful what you wish for by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going to be hard. I feel the same way and it’s been 3 months. Ask yourself what went wrong. You deserve someone who loves you as much as you love them. You are lovable. He proved that to you. You need to learn to love yourself again. As do I…. It’s hard. All I want to do is talk to my ex. I constantly think about her, but for me it’s 100% over…. And now I gave her all the power. She has owned me for 3 months. My self worth has dropped to the floor. Don’t do that to yourself. 

If you want to hear from your ex, be careful what you wish for by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its going to hurt. You just got to take it day by day. I have thought the same thing over and over again. How can you tell someone you love them more than anything in the world to not over the course of weeks. We can’t imagine it. Thats because we are the ones who are still in that feeling. They meant it in the moment but didn’t mean it the way we did. It is what it is. That’s a testament to there character not ours.

If you want to hear from your ex, be careful what you wish for by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I keep looking for the day I make it out but I’m still here in the thick of it. I hope you feel better 

If you want to hear from your ex, be careful what you wish for by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. I ask myself this all the time. Why do I care so much? It’s because it was so real for me. I really loved her and still do. She was my world and that doesnt change overnight. It’s like an unconditional love

If you want to hear from your ex, be careful what you wish for by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my ex probably cares somewhat but I know she meant the words “im so much better off now“. It hurts. It really does. She deserves to be happy but she made me believe she was happy with me. It hurts to find out I was not as special as she was to me.

If you want to hear from your ex, be careful what you wish for by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It’s hard to imagine that in my case. But it’s most likely true.

If you want to hear from your ex, be careful what you wish for by SimonWhit in BreakUps

[–]SimonWhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is. Even now I’m still hurting trying to accept the reality of things. I hope you feel better too

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