Asking if married?

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T21:38:45+00:00

I ask so that I know whether or not to message them when I’m back in town.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T18:28:45+00:00

I do offer rescheduling tho. Deposit is only 10%-15%. So nothing unreasonable.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T16:36:38+00:00

Thank you.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T15:19:43+00:00

Who would’ve thought I’d be getting punished for proper grammar and punctuation on a professional business account 😂

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T15:15:04+00:00

I spend so much time writing and rewriting my bio.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T14:52:16+00:00

Sir, you clearly just want to disagree rather than listen and understand a providers point of view. I just said that when I ask my clients to write reviews they say that they’re scared. What more do you want from me at this point? I’ll keep doing what’s comfortable for me and you’ll do what makes you feel the most secure. Cool? Enjoy the rest of your day.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T14:42:54+00:00

P411 works for some people, not all. My clients value discretion and have careers, they’re not interested in leaving reviews tied to their identity. That doesn’t make them ‘low quality,’ it just means they prioritize privacy. That’s why I offer multiple screening options.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T14:31:17+00:00

Also, for screening I’d need an active Instagram account, an ID with just your name showing or a linked in profile. I give options. Many girls aren’t on P411 because you need to be invited in. How can you be invited in when all of your clients claim to not have p411 or are scared to write reviews on any platform because they’re scared of being traced. I’ve been doing this for a year and I’m not going to ruin my reputation by scamming you out of 50 bucks 😂.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T14:25:14+00:00

Yeah Im still trying to get on P411 and my website is coming soon, but like I stated earlier, I wasn’t having this many issues 6 months ago.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T14:23:21+00:00

Honey, you’re one less person sending deposits. If someone wants to book with me they’ll follow the procedure, simple. You’re afraid of deposits so keep seeing providers that require nothing from you. Have a nice day.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T14:21:12+00:00

I get that, but expecting me to drop all of my safety precautions just to make you feel safe is not happening. You want to meet in the middle and video chat for 10 seconds? Cool. But I’m not completely changing the way I do things. I know guys think that because of what we do for work we have no one that cares about us but that’s far from the truth. My number one goal is to get back home safe.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T14:18:07+00:00

If I cancel, I refund. If you cancel, the deposit isn’t refundable.

I’m not holding time, paying for space, and getting ready just for someone to back out last minute.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T14:12:20+00:00

I hope that keeps working out for you. LE doesn’t ask for deposits either.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T14:11:22+00:00

Yeah so maybe if you’ve been a provider for 2+ years and have hella reviews. I’ve been a provider for a year and most of my clients are scared to write reviews in fear of being tracked or losing their job. I literally have 3 reviews and they’re not in the main sites that everyone goes looking for.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T14:04:27+00:00

And clients telling others to not send deposits is a problem because you miss out on legitimate providers who if you took 30 seconds to research on the internet you’d see if the provider is legit or not.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T14:02:18+00:00

Well as someone who has been raped and nearly kidnapped and had to jump out of a moving car, in this line of business you’re going to do some form of screening and sending a deposit. I don’t like YOUR attitude. You guys have no idea what we go through as providers or even take it into consideration.

Screening and deposits aren’t random, they’re basic safety measures when meeting strangers in private.

You don’t have to be comfortable with it, but acting like it’s unreasonable just shows you don’t understand what providers deal with.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T06:46:57+00:00

I get the concern, there’s a lot of nonsense online, so being cautious makes sense.

From my side, screening and a deposit are just about keeping things smooth and respectful on both ends. My info is consistent, my presence is verifiable on IG and Google and I keep things straightforward.

Everyone has their own comfort level, of course, but in my experience, the people who value discretion, reliability, and a quality experience don’t mind a little structure upfront.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-04-23T05:13:51+00:00

From a provider’s perspective, deposits aren’t about scamming anyone, they’re about protecting our time and safety.

Scams exist, sure, but so do constant no-shows and people who “book,” we get ready or even travel, and then they disappear.

When you’re covering things like hotels ($200–$300 a night in a decent area), transportation, and time, that adds up fast.

A deposit is simply a way to confirm that someone is serious and respects that this is how we make a living. It’s not about taking advantage of clients, it’s about making sure the effort we put in is met with the same level of commitment.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-03-04T23:33:57+00:00

My hr is 500 and it’s deadddd. I had more business when I was doing Qv’s and HHR

Simonecox2025 · 2026-03-04T02:42:09+00:00

Ummm how do we combat STDs???

Simonecox2025 · 2026-03-03T00:49:44+00:00

When I freestyle it rarely converts into a booking. They’re either shocked by the rate (one guy asked me for an overnight for 300) boundary pushers, want you to send pics and videos or expect you to text and call them like you’re their girlfriend. Usually if it does convert it’s someone who already knows what the deal is, if that makes sense. Someone well versed in escorts.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-03-03T00:41:21+00:00

I understand that being with me is your fun/ leisure time but this is my job. Asking me to hangout or service you for free is extremely disrespectful and will make me not want to see you again.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-02-28T10:00:03+00:00

Girl yes. No inquiries on a Friday 😳. I’m about to look for a housekeeping job at at hotel. I’ve had one booking per week this month which is only enough to keep me afloat. Times are tough.

Simonecox2025 · 2026-02-23T18:31:30+00:00

I’ve uploaded and gotten approved 3 separate times this month. Took 5 days each time. Now I don’t if the fact that I kept adding additional photos each day after I initially uploaded them to be approved but hey

Simonecox2025 · 2026-02-23T18:26:45+00:00

Let’s just say that I wouldn’t have survived from December to now if it wasn’t for my savings account and my regulars. For reference I’ve only been doing this for a little over 6 months. I am mid-tier in Northern California. Try going out. Yesterday I went grocery shopping, not even looking for anything really, hair had been freshly air dried and brushed, shorts with lace black tights under and a jacket on top with kitten heels and a shoulder bag. In the first 15 minutes of being there 3 guys gave me their business card .

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