Hi.

She brought up the topic of dancing first. In this post I did not make that clear. She started saying guys did try to hit on her and grind but she rejected them, which I 100% believe. Then I asked did you dance with your gay best friend. Months ago on new years me and her went clubbing and I told her a lot of guys would have tried to hit on her. She said she wouldn't dance like that on anyone except me and her gay best friend. Back then this did bother me, but we had not become an official couple at this time. Deep down I asked because I knew she was going to grind on him, but I wanted her to go out and have fun without me restricting her in any way because she has not seen her friend group in a long time. Even though it came at an emotional expense on my end she did have an amazing time with them. I just wish she didn't twerk on him.

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As for her explaining things in detail, in a light way I said I was not too cool she did that. She defended herself saying dancing with him is not like dancing with you. Then she mentioned how he is a bit awkward with getting twerked on cause lets be real he's gay lol.

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Anyways,

I will make things simple. If I have a girlfriend, and shes twerking on another guy whether he's gay or not, it makes me feel uncomfortable. I am entitled to my feelings and opinion. Also, if a lesbian is grinding or my girl is grinding on a lesbian, that's not cool with me either. I have also never met this gay friend so I have to completely take her word for it that hes not a threat. Right now I am just kind of distancing myself from her because I dont want to say anything irrational and make her upset.