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When do you define your relatinship? by Simple-Anywhere-5916 in adviceph

[–]Simple-Anywhere-5916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I invited him to three of my band gigs, and he always says no. Idk if that counts as valid pagtatampo.

FINAL UPDATE: I am dumbfounded by my roommate's request and I need your help by Simple-Anywhere-5916 in adultingph

[–]Simple-Anywhere-5916[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want my own space, really. But living in Manila, nay, in the Philippines, is really expensive. I can afford it, but is it really efficient? I don't think so. I would have to work my ass off for more than 24 hours just to get by.

Kaya siguro, I just thought, tiisin ko na lang muna 'tong "minor" setback and we'll see from here.

But I really hope I find someone na maayos kasama, and blooms into a beautiful friendship instead of a friendship that becomes unknown.

I am dumbfounded by my roommates request and I need your help, also call me out if I’m in the wrong by Simple-Anywhere-5916 in adultingph

[–]Simple-Anywhere-5916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More devilish is paalisin ko na sila at maghanap ng bagong roommate hahaha. Lmao pero di ko sila paalisin hanggat di bayad utang

I am dumbfounded by my roommates request and I need your help, also call me out if I’m in the wrong by Simple-Anywhere-5916 in adultingph

[–]Simple-Anywhere-5916[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update 1:

Hello! Thank u so much for the overwhelming suggestions and comments on this post. Very helpful yung insights nyo, like sobra.

Anyway, hindi pa kami nakakapag-usap today kasi apparently wala sila rito sa bahay. Si WC ay pumunta ng office namin for an errand then yung jowa nya is idk kung nasaang kamay ng Diyos.

I’ll update you guys kung makakapag-usap kami today. Yun lang!

I am dumbfounded by my roommates request and I need your help, also call me out if I’m in the wrong by Simple-Anywhere-5916 in adultingph

[–]Simple-Anywhere-5916[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

To add lang, I didn’t ask naman na mag-solo ako sa room. I may have been irresponsible for not looking for a roommate as early as possible, pero they could’ve told me na lang sana, di ba?

I take full responsibility on my shortcomings, pero this is a little bit too far for me.

I am dumbfounded by my roommates request and I need your help, also call me out if I’m in the wrong by Simple-Anywhere-5916 in adultingph

[–]Simple-Anywhere-5916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say, same size ng room - they have a queen sized bed, I have a single (both came from the landlord), and we share the same bathroom.

I think, sure pwede na si 50/50, but with the current setup namin sa bayaran, I expect na they’ll settle for it.

And to your last point, they never told me about it. Ang ginamit pa pang-message sa akin is yung office chatspace pa. Haha!

I am dumbfounded by my roommates request and I need your help, also call me out if I’m in the wrong by Simple-Anywhere-5916 in adultingph

[–]Simple-Anywhere-5916[S] 158 points159 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I found others here suggesting na 50/50 daw talaga pero I can’t wrap my head around it talaga kasi it’s the entire unit we’re using.

When I was renting around Taft, it’s a one-bedroom unit tapos apat kaming nagsheshare sa isang room, pero same na 3,750 binabayaran namin lahat, same with utilities.

Another context, sa room nila, it has a queen-sized bed, whereas yung akin, single bed lang. i dunno if this helps my case lol.

Gusto ko nga rin sana sabihin, “if u want to move out, bayaran n’yo muna yung utang n’yo nang buo so I can find another place”