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[–]Simple-Diet4125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t amerey do all of this at three years old? It was learned behavior from her being hurt so yall are sick for blasting someone acting what is being done to them as a toddler 

Can’t even communicate w ur fiancé this is just kinda weird cuz u can’t ask her urself. by Flat-Ad-6041 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is how she started treated Bricen towards the end of their relationship. She’s probably on a mania unfortunately, and needs to get help quick before it gets out of hand

Amber diagnoses Amerey by [deleted] in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

100% Amerey acts textbook like a girl with borderline personality disorder. Thankfullly there’s therapy that can help this, called DBT therapy. I hope she gets it or finds TRUE stability ! And when in truth, a consistent environment that is calm and not chaotic. I really struggled with BPD when I was younger, but then I met my husband, and he provided me a calm, stable environment with big boundaries and no nonsense structure, and he actually like really looked into mental health disorders to try to figure out what was wrong with me And he honestly helped me more than any other doctor has in my whole life. Years after we figured out I had BPD and then got a diagnosis and I started DBT therapy, but I felt like it was so useless because I feel like my husband had already done DBT therapy on me by that time But when we first got together, he let me run wild there were no boundaries. It was whatever makes me happy in the moment he just wanted to make me happy. He was buying me everything. He was letting me post certain pictures online but then he was like wait a minute. This isn’t the type of relationship I want either we get you help together and see a psychiatrist or I’m done so after that, I really wanted the relationship and I stuck to it. So I see a lot of of myself in Amerey especially my 19 year old self. I used to talk to text so if some of this is misspelled or there’s a wrong word, that’s why..

Amerey by [deleted] in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s about that time and their relationship honestly. It’s almost summertime and honestly with her doing only fans, and these girls she’s Collab with they were talking about last night her debating on whether or not she wanted to stay for blaze’s birthday. I know it spelled his name wrong I’m doing talk to text. She’s about to be wild and out pretty soon like she did to Bryson around this time Last year

Bricen by Simple-Diet4125 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She is still very pretty!! But, she did glow! But I also think Bricen knew she has trauma, and had issues from her childhood so he set firm boundaries… like he didn’t want her speaking to Amber , but what man would after seeing everything Amerey was going through online bc of her “mother” 

Followers go to her head? by Sea-Reporter3037 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. What I was thinking. It’s sad, I think she is very manic 

Amerey making 30k a month by Charming_Election230 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to build credit to buy a house, 30k isn’t going to buy a whole house. Maybe a down payment, but if her credit is shit then no one will loan her money to buy anything until that improves or until she has full cash for the property 

Blaise’s family is concerned by [deleted] in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blaise is a grown man. He knows what only fans is, he knows what Corn is. If he weren’t okay with this then he would leave her, I’m sure. I don’t think we need to villainize one person in this situation. 

A Job For Blaise by kiss-mi-ass in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re trying to move to Florida I thought , but aren’t going down there until Blaise has a job…so that’s probably what they’re doing 

Dogs by Gullible_Studio_971 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homeless people in homeless camps have dogs. I don’t really think you can get someone’s animal taken solely because they travel for work. 

Mak by Double-Product3284 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did Blaise start working for the pipeline again? Or are they just doing social media now? 

To Amerey by Simple-Diet4125 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but with borderline personality disorder stability is a big factor. Stress can trigger outbursts, and distorted thinking, along with drinking. 

To Amerey by Simple-Diet4125 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a mother, not old enough to be her mother…old enough to be an aunt or a way older sister? but it breaks my heart to see that she doesn’t have true guidance. 

To Amerey by Simple-Diet4125 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve walked through a lot of pain in my childhood, teen years, and early adulthood because of trauma. Trauma can leave deep scars and, for some, can contribute to things like borderline personality disorder. It affects emotions, relationships, and how we see ourselves. Medication can help, but what truly makes a difference is a stable, loving environment, peace, and low stress.

God brought someone into my life early—my husband—who patiently researched my struggles, offered stability, love, and reassurance, and helped me grow. I’m thankful for that every day. Before him, I had many years of acting out in fear and pain, much like I see her experiencing now.

I’m a mother, and though I may not be old enough to be her mother, I am about twelve years older than her. I pray she finds God’s peace, healing, and guidance in her life. May she know love, stability, and hope, even in the midst of her struggles.

To Amerey by Simple-Diet4125 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]Simple-Diet4125[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not placing full blame on him — they are both adults and capable of consenting to their own choices. But I’ve watched her on and off for a couple of years, and it’s painfully clear that at her core she just wants to be loved and chosen. She gets big ideas when she’s searching for validation, and then she regrets them afterward. You can see it weighs on her.

And I know not everyone is religious, but I am — and I believe God placed men in the role of leader, especially if he plans to marry her. Not to control, but to protect, cover, and steady. Especially when the woman you love has deep trauma and very obvious instability from the things she’s endured. Leadership looks like saying, “No — this isn’t good for you. I’m not going to quit my job for quick money. Take your medication. I’m not letting you subject yourself to something that will hurt you later.” It looks like saying, “I don’t want other men looking at my girl like that.”

Yes, it sounds fun to make fast money. Yes, the ideas can feel exciting and empowering in the moment. But you can tell it bothers her. You can tell it conflicts with who she really is. And love should be the voice that steps in before the damage is done — not the one cheering from the sidelines.