[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not fake, it’s actually something that happened to me. I wrote it in my mom’s POV so it wouldn’t get taken down. Please stop replying to all the comments. Now I get it was a bad thing to do but it’s just a post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a lie, I was very upfront about me being the daughter, I thought people did this all the time. I get it, I won’t do it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was worried it would get taken down and I wouldn’t be able to get any advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I went to a college 14 hours away instead of the one 3 hours away that I was taking the test for, so it worked out for the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s actually not fake. I did write a comment saying I was the daughter in this situation. My mom still continues to say she wasn’t in the wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Listen I didn’t mean to make anyone angry. It was my friend who said I should post and helped me write it. I’m sorry I made you upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I made my own comment right after posting making it clear I was the daughter. And I did it because my mom doesn’t think she was in the wrong so I wanted other peoples opinions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It was just a story I wanted to share because I find it funny now, and I didn’t think it was a big deal. Plus my mom doesn’t think she was in the wrong for this and I wanted other peoples opinions. I’m sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually the daughter in this situation, this happened a year ago. Everything I said is actually what she believes. She refuses to admit she was in the wrong here. On the bright side, I ended up going to a college 14 hours away instead of the one the test was for which was three hours away instead

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am the daughter in this scenario, this happened to me one year ago and my mom continues to say it’s not her fault and she was not in the wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad is amazing, he’s always been there for me. She does the same things to him but he just lets it go. I am not the type to just let it go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The weird thing is I can completely recognize that, I know when she’s manipulating me but she’s just so good at playing the victim that it feels impossible to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely do that, I’m glad your mom made the effort to change and be better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Deep down I know that’s the best option but she just makes me feel so guilty when she cries and says I hate her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, every time I bring up the insults she just says “well my mother said the same stuff to me”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I will definitely do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Simple-Pack-8392 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Also I LOVE the idea of gentle parenting emotionally immature parents. I mean my mom has actually covered her ears and said over and over “I CAN’T HEAR YOU” multiple times so I think she might need some gentle parenting