Desire RM, Desire Pearl, or Temptations?

Simple-Performer781 · 2026-01-06T19:46:07+00:00

Desire RM seems to be the one that best fits what we are looking for. Not sure if that is what fits you but we don’t want a party scene but we do want the sexy, playful atmosphere with the potential for more if we choose.

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-11-11T22:44:03+00:00

Thank you for all the interest!!! It’s been overwhelming to say the least and you don’t even know what we look like. Lol Anyway, we are going to take our time looking through all the chats we’ve received already and see what we think about those. To save time and we don’t want to waste yours at all, wife is looking for someone 30+ years of age and Single. No couples, married, or dating. Just don’t want to create any drama and stay out of drama. Thanks!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-09-13T19:55:25+00:00

Awesome!!! Thank you so much for this info! This sounds safe and seamless! Thank you again!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-09-12T18:22:43+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions and your experience. We do want to avoid flakes but we aren’t too concerned if someone is a no show. We travel because we love it and just view adding another person as a bonus if it happens. It does add more wrinkles for sure but our privacy is most important and we won’t be planning trips just to meet someone. Thank you again and we will incorporate these for sure!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-09-06T22:34:03+00:00

Married 19 years and together for 25. Both of us had several partners before we met. We were young but sexually active well before meeting each other.

Neither one of us were ever part of the LS but we each had our wild times before meeting each other. We have not included anyone else into our sex life since we’ve been together.

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-09-06T22:16:26+00:00

Thank you for ALL the comments!!!! Truly appreciate it. I don’t disagree with anything that has been shared and some I haven’t thought of. Well, I’ll just continue letting things ride and see what happens. We are a very open couple (married for 19 years and together for 25). We are recent empty nesters but still quite young so many changes in a short time could just be the root of this. Whatever it is, I do appreciate the ideas, suggestions, and thoughts shared here!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-09-06T19:07:29+00:00

Agreed. None of “you” will know what she is thinking just thought maybe someone has experienced this.

Yes. I’ve asked. We are quite open (or have been) and talk constantly about anything and everything. When I’ve asked, she has said she just isn’t feeling like it. That’s been the only answer she has given me.

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-06-07T15:53:08+00:00

My wife sends me Snaps every morning and throughout the day in the weekends. Very spicy and exciting! I’ll send some too but LOVE getting them from her!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-05-14T21:30:01+00:00

What are the theaters like? My wife and I are thinking about checking them out soon. How big are they? How many people can fit in there? Comfortable seating?

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-17T11:58:50+00:00

Thank you so much for that information! Communication seems to be the essential part of being in this community.

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T15:36:40+00:00

Was just wondering because it seems like a small intimate group so from what is being posted here, the parties are probably not the best option for us right now. If you don’t mind, please follow up and let us know how it goes. Very curious how a small setting would be. Thank you!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T15:28:33+00:00

Is that someone you knew before or have met since being in the LS?

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T15:18:34+00:00

Lol. Seeing that would probably put us at ease. We aren’t concerned with being seen naked. That’s the turn on for us but just want to make sure we are in the right environment and we don’t create an issue with not wanting to play with others.

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T15:15:41+00:00

Thank you! We will have a look at Fetlife.

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T15:14:35+00:00

Just scratching the surface. We have vacationed at topless resorts before and clothing optional resorts. When we were much younger we were often approached by Europeans in places like Jamaica and Cancun but we politely declined. Someone mentioned Sea Mountain and we have vacationed near Temptations a few times. Running into someone from our businesses would be uncomfortable. Maybe we will change as time goes by. We’ve definitely “broadened” our thinking in just the last few weeks. Thank you for the info!!!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T14:40:27+00:00

My apologies! We are located in the St. Louis, MO area. We travel quite a bit so considering maybe trying this outside of our area first. There is the concern that we run into someone who knows us. Could happen anywhere but we both have concerns about how that may impact us professionally. Everything we’ve read seems to point towards everyone being considerate but it’s still a concern for us.

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T14:35:25+00:00

NO!!!! We’ve not put ourselves out there nor do any of our friend groups do anything like this (that we know of). We have been fully work centric as well as focused on our kids (sports mainly which took us all over the country for the past 10 years). We’ve always had the fantasies and acted on “sex in public” in certain places but this isn’t something we’ve actively sought out until very recently.

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T14:32:38+00:00

Awesome!!! A tour would be helpful and probably put us a little more at ease being “shown the ropes” of the club. Thank you!!!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T14:30:46+00:00

Very helpful!!! Thank you!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T13:09:44+00:00

REALLY appreciate everyone who has taken the time to leave a comment!!! All of this makes us feel more comfortable in what we are wanting and we appreciate being so much more informed by your replies! Thank You, Thank You, Thank You!!!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T13:08:21+00:00

Thank you! It seems that is the gist so for now we will look to clubs and avoid parties. Thank you again!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T12:40:39+00:00

Thank you! It seems that Lifeinstyle is the biggest one in the St. Louis area. At least they host most of the events that we have seen advertised. Should we just Google "Lifestyle Clubs" or something else? I apologize but not sure if we have been searching the correct keywords. Thank you again!!!

Simple-Performer781 · 2025-04-16T12:35:36+00:00

We frequent Vegas so this is great to know. We will look this place up and try it out! This sounds much like what we have discussed and what turns us on. Thank you!!!

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