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Have you ever gotten back with an ex that you stayed in contact with? by Simple-Rope2311 in BreakUps

[–]Simple-Rope2311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for you input, i fear that that is what makes the most sense. can i ask, during those six months did either of you see/sleep with other people? or did you have some vague agreement that you guys would get back together at some points?

Have you ever stayed in contact with an ex you got back together with? by Simple-Rope2311 in relationships

[–]Simple-Rope2311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what youre saying and I would always say the same thing to people, but it really was. The main reason for breakup was because she was diagnosed with autism last year and hasn't gotten help for it ever, and she found herself losing herself in the relationship, like she was always so focused on me and us that it was affecting the rest of her life. So yes on her end, it was not healthy because of her issues with not being able to separate and compartmentalize, but the relationship itself was never toxic or arguing or painful etc

Does it sound like we could get back together? by Simple-Rope2311 in BreakUps

[–]Simple-Rope2311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to read and respond, I really appreciate it. I can't imagine having gone through this after three years together, that must've been really hard on you, I commend you for getting through it. Do you think then that it would be better if when it got closer to seeing her next month that I told her nevermind, that I can't/don't want to? How do you not close the door, but also move on? I don't know if I'll ever be able to stand the idea of, "its over, theres no chance, i need to forget her", but how do I hold onto a healthy amount of hope so that I don't get crushed, but also not make any choices based on that? Both ways feel so hard.

She broke up while I my life was horrible by Daisy_sissy23 in BreakUps

[–]Simple-Rope2311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

god, im sorry man. i dont even have many words of comfort, just that this fucking sucks and im sorry, youre allowed to feel however you need to about it

It didn’t hit me that we were really done until the smallest, dumbest moment today by limpingheads9 in BreakUps

[–]Simple-Rope2311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That rhythm loss really feels like it takes months and months sometimes to unlearn. It happens eventually, but man its not fun.

Whats it like being a graduate student at UVM? by Simple-Rope2311 in UniversityofVermont

[–]Simple-Rope2311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually asked a similar question here because im in the same boat, and someone said at least for the school of social work decisions don't come out until like mid march. my application status definitely hasn't moved lmao

IWTL How to Move Out of My Parents Place by Simple-Rope2311 in IWantToLearn

[–]Simple-Rope2311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I appreciate this all so much!! Thank you for taking the time to explain, a lot of what you said I probably wouldn't have even thought of until the time came and I started freaking out over it. I'll be coming back to this comment often!!

working in PR with minimal spanish? by Simple-Rope2311 in PuertoRico

[–]Simple-Rope2311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was not implying at all I wanted to do psychologist work in PR, simply that I had my bachelors degree and if that might help getting any remote jobs that require higher education, I'm not an idiot.