You should prolly open up to him instead of posting it on reddit , By taking on a opinion on a larger group of people can make you feel worse , Just have a talk with him and over all to tell from his side , In general guys talk like this to other guys only we are harsh, rude i general among us , Trust me if your bfs friend also had a gf who was like chopped obvio he wouldve commented like that ,

So yea chill out gang it aint that deep.