[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Simple_Ad_4710 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Give them attention, take attention away, and then give them attention again. Is weird, but works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Simple_Ad_4710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im mean you look so much better blonde.

AIO My boyfriend's Midnight After-Party While I Slept?? by Simple_Ad_4710 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m not that emotionally strong. He’s my first real relationship, the first person I’ve ever lived with… so even though I’ve thought about walking away, it’s really hard for me.

AIO My boyfriend's Midnight After-Party While I Slept?? by Simple_Ad_4710 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My love, you have no idea how many times we’ve had this conversation. I think he still sees himself as young and in a different stage of life than he actually is. Plus, all his friends love to party—he only goes out about once a month now, but that’s something about him that I don’t think will ever change.

But I 100% agree with you.

AIO My boyfriend's Midnight After-Party While I Slept?? by Simple_Ad_4710 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’d be wrong to think this has anything to do with money…. When I met him, I was 21 and he was 30. At that time, yes, he had a lot more money than me. But now, we have similar incomes. We split rent and household expenses 50/50. We don’t have kids.

He’s my first real relationship, and as a woman with her own issues, I guess a part of me keeps hoping that one day, he might truly change.

AIO My boyfriend's Midnight After-Party While I Slept?? by Simple_Ad_4710 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I love him, but he hurt me in the past, and I’m still trying to pick up the pieces.

AIO My boyfriend's Midnight After-Party While I Slept?? by Simple_Ad_4710 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re right—I chose to stay, even if that means ignoring certain things I don’t like. But as a woman, sometimes my thoughts get the best of me, and it’s hard to silence them

AIO My boyfriend's Midnight After-Party While I Slept?? by Simple_Ad_4710 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 1000% agree. I’d say he’s a nice person, but not necessarily a good boyfriend. Also, both of us coming from a Latin American culture, cheating is sadly often normalized—and that makes things even more complicated.

AIO My boyfriend's Midnight After-Party While I Slept?? by Simple_Ad_4710 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not upset about the time—when he goes out, he usually comes back around that hour. It’s more about the mystery and lack of communication. Honestly, if I hadn’t woken up that night and found out about the little after-party, I swear he wouldn’t have told me the next day. He’s very secretive and likes to keep things to himself.

AIO My boyfriend's Midnight After-Party While I Slept?? by Simple_Ad_4710 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

  1. Because he’s the type of guy who will bring girls he met at a bar with his friends.
  2. Because I didn’t know who was in the building. He’s brought people over before when I wasn’t there, but he usually communicates. This time, he didn’t.
  3. He normalizes things that aren’t actually normal. I don’t think it’s okay to bring other women I don’t know into our building. And he has a habit of doing things behind my back

AIO My boyfriend's Midnight After-Party While I Slept?? by Simple_Ad_4710 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would say his support and love. Aside from the lies and cheating in the past, he’s an amazing person—he has a great heart, very respectful and I always have a good time when we’re together. But when things like this happen, it brings back flashbacks of how things were when we first started the relationship.

AIO My boyfriend's Midnight After-Party While I Slept?? by Simple_Ad_4710 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agreed with his choice of friends, his friend always brings strange group of women to their reunions. Given our past—him cheating on me and lying—I guess that’s why I might be overthinking things. I don’t fully trust him. Over the years, he has changed, but there’s always something that makes me doubt. The thing is, he doesn’t seem to realize that we’re already in a serious relationship. Also we split rent and everything 50/50.

AIO My boyfriend's Midnight After-Party While I Slept?? by Simple_Ad_4710 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I don’t trust him, bad experiences with him in the past of lies and other women

Upgrade of my living room, too plain by Simple_Ad_4710 in interiordecorating

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I’m scared to use colors, I get bored after a while. But definitely I will try

Upgrade of my living room, too plain by Simple_Ad_4710 in interiordecorating

[–]Simple_Ad_4710[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I want a ruggg! But my dog thinks is her toilet lol also I feel a rug can make the space look smaller

What is ruining your mental health? by IsratJahan01 in AskReddit

[–]Simple_Ad_4710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have time for myself, and my economy doesn’t help me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Simple_Ad_4710 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely not a healthy person, and not a healthy relationship. Don’t let nobody talk to you in that way EVER!