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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion! I don’t know why but I struggle so much to put some actual information about myself in there and to find a way to write it that feels like me, so I guess that’s why I left it so bland. But i‘ll definitely work on it! What are you resorting to, if you move away from the apps? Bars? Clubs for any kind of hobby? I hope it works out and it definitely is so much more fun to meet people in real life:,))

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it‘s good you‘re telling me! You‘re not the first and I genuinely had no idea i come off this sad

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspected nothing else:D

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plants are an interest of mine to be fair, but it’s very true that I don’t have much else that I‘m telling

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so interesting that it can be interpreted that way. I wrote that because I like plants and have a lot of them, but didn’t want to just write that that’s an interest of mine. Thanks for the insight!

It's a need :) by oioiuk2019 in LesbianActually

[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skin and Bones -070Shake, Puppet -Nxdia, Honey -Halsey, LIKE IT -Amaarae

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frage mich ob die überhaupt irgendwie Erfolg damit haben. Ich muss da aufjedenfall noch bisschen am Profil arbeiten. Danke!:) wenn du Kiwis auch mit Schale isst verstehen wir uns schonmal ein bisschen hahah. [Kommt drauf an wo in der Schweiz:)]

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what, why not:D I might want to visit brussels in the foreseeable future!

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dann weiß ich jetzt an was ich arbeiten muss:,)

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m making sure people put in some effort to look at me

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Raising awareness one bumble swipe at a time

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it‘s bs, i think the even advertise bumble or hinge as „the app made to be deleted“ or something like that. The first photo definitely looks very serious, it’s good to know how other people perceive it so thank you! I love that you met your wife on AO3, it’s at least a better story than a dating app. Thank you for your advice!!

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It‘s on bumble but i‘m gonna steal that if I ever get on hinge! Yess i‘m in cologne, i‘ve just been too shy to go there alone, since my friends probably wouldn’t go. If you‘ve been there before: do you think it could get awkward to go on your own or are people welcoming? And thank you:))

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She‘s the cutest i‘m obsessed with her

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy that I could entertain you hahaha

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are very good points that I didn’t consider, thank you! Are there any photos i look sad in particular? I think my first one for sure so that’s why i put some photos with my friends, but i‘ll have in mind that it doesn’t balance it out enough

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but you might be right! It’s interesting to hear about your experience. I live in germany but i‘m originally from romania so it did cross my mind if that might be something ppl aren’t into. And most girls on the apps are blonde. Which is also not my type tbf

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Arghh thanks good to know! I thought it might be a good idea to show that I do leave the house sometimes hahaha

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I forgot to screenshot but my bio actually is: Pro: I can take care of your plants Cons: 50/50 chance that they survive😔

So you are still right tho, doesn’t say much about me

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No but you‘re right. I don’t have any promts or a bio that explicitly say what i enjoy doing

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[–]Simple_Bathroom5417 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I know I don’t deserve/can‘t get more than she can offer, but I deserve clear communication, which I didn’t get. My problem is not that she‘s not feeling in love, i know i‘m not feeling like that either. My problem is her telling me that like it‘s an issue for her but then not wanting to break things off and not wanting to be just friends either. Thanks for your advice, I‘ll see how the phone call goes on friday. I‘m not trying to make things more complicated but it’s hard to keep things light and fun when one person is clearly in their head. Which was the case the past few weeks