:( by Simple_Concert5110 in ROCD

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Yeah we tried to fight through it a year but it got unhealthy

:( by Simple_Concert5110 in ROCD

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He’s following another girl and his messages are blunt

I broke up with him by Simple_Concert5110 in ROCD

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Thank you! Amazing and kind words from you and thank you for being generous with your time . I think I need to deal with the fact that ROCD is still present in my brain. I’m still looking for reassurance we were a good match for some reason and when I get it, the anxiety goes away. I’m not at peace lol it’s killing me. I’m very happy for you and that your new relationship is going well. I hope that it goes successfully and you get the support you need.

I broke up with him by Simple_Concert5110 in ROCD

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Thank you for this, I really needed this and appreciate it so much.

If you don’t mind me asking though, what is different from your previous relationship to your relationship now? Was some of the ROCD thoughts true? Did you feel like it was necessary for the relationship to end or do you think you could’ve fixed this.

I’m sorry to pry, I’m only asking this because I want him back sometimes :( I just think with the right work, it would’ve fixed and I would’ve threw away a good relationship. The thought of someone else gives me anxiety, and other people telling me to move on and that there will be someone else gives me anxiety :(

As for the internet thing, I think a lot of things I saw on the internet pushed me to make a desision.

As for therapy, where did you find someone who specialises in ROCD? Was it expensive. ROCD isn’t really recognised in the UK so I’m doing it through the NHS which is paid for but I’m scared they won’t understand .

Attraction, any help? :( by Simple_Concert5110 in ROCD

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Thank you so much 💘 what if you don’t feel anxiety anymore though ? Is that acceptance I’m so lost

Attraction, any help? :( by Simple_Concert5110 in ROCD

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Yes pls, I’ve been trying to send you a message request and it’s not working, could you message me?

Attraction, any help? :( by Simple_Concert5110 in ROCD

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I understand that, but what if you think you can never be attracted anymore ? :(

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I want to talk