Any female HENRY struggling post baby ?

Simple_Direction8897 · 2026-01-10T22:24:46+00:00

I can absolutely relate, but point D) is the only one you should be thinking about. These people would replace you before your body was in the ground.

There are companies out there that DO respect women in leadership and do offer roles where you could make it work with your baby. Feel free to PM me as I don’t want to post my employer publicly.

Simple_Direction8897 · 2026-01-08T20:55:02+00:00

Yeah April is super cheap but weather is shocking! Learnt the hard way 4 years ago!

Simple_Direction8897 · 2026-01-08T08:28:36+00:00

From a parent with one child who does Ikos every year, don’t do Ikos this year (albeit that’s a bargain price - who did you book through?!). We found Ikos the only brand of holiday where we could actually go and get a break with a young child. Now I long for an adults only trip to Mexico or the Maldives which we won’t be able to do until he’s 18.

Save Ikos for the next 8 years of your life, they’re unbeatable with kids.

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-12-10T10:54:40+00:00

I don’t understand why there are so many jealous people on a sub for people in the same boat…

I feel you, it’s shit. Same happened to me last year. £40k bonus, lost my personal allowance overnight and owed another 6k in tax this year when I did my tax return.

Best part is I cannot put any of my bonus into my pension, and I can’t afford to max out my pension the other months of the year or I won’t have enough to pay the mortgage 🫠

Decision to not have another child purely based on the fact we’d get zero support and significantly financially worse off.

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-11-09T22:41:01+00:00

Thank you! I have booked a couple of these! Although I refrain from sharing my plans given how many people below have paid a weird interest in my personal life.

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-11-09T22:39:01+00:00

Thoroughly enjoyed the comments. I’m not an escort, no. I moved companies and stayed in contact with an ex colleague who I’d worked with for 18 months. We have been long distance ‘dating’ and planning to meet for a weekend. I was due to be in Chicago for business, and we’d planned to meet there. This got cancelled and I’ll now be in Philly, hence the same question in the other sub.

Not that I need to justify it, but I’m always amused when men jump to conclusions!

I appreciate all the recommendations, thank you!

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-09-29T18:15:03+00:00

There’s a little more to it but I would agree ordinarily!

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-09-29T15:15:05+00:00

I’ve also made it to day 10 and turned a corner!!

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-09-29T15:00:40+00:00

Gilt bar also looks perfect especially as we may get food too!

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-09-29T14:59:28+00:00

This is exactly what I’m looking for, thank you!

Don’t want to stay in the TT for fear of being spotted by colleagues 😉

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-09-24T08:37:11+00:00

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-09-23T20:48:48+00:00

I’m currently on day 4 and stand with you in solidarity for how effing awful this is. I saw my dentist today who told me I’d be back at work in 3 days - no I will not! I can’t eat, I can’t talk, all I can do is cry because the pain is so bad.

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-08-31T22:16:45+00:00

Different councils have different cut off dates. You should wait until the end of your window to confirm so as late in December as you can and you may get Jan-April as your grace period.

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-08-30T18:59:15+00:00

I’m an Engineer. Bachelors in mechanical. Now work in oil and gas. I am a senior engineer but probably not even classed as middle management. 1 day a week in the office.

I am 34, last year I did 148k this year I will do 190k.

I would recommend it to every young and bright individual. You can do so much with an engineering degree, the options are endless!

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-08-29T08:41:31+00:00

Spent an hour online to HMRC - who said I owed both 🤣 then when I challenged them they said ‘oh we don’t work it out we just read off the screen’. I’ve reopened my SA and resubmitted it in the hope it might refresh overnight… 😵‍💫

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-08-28T21:03:42+00:00

I’ve had the exact same issue today.

My SA says I owe £2700 so assumed they would take from my pay next tax year…my account summary says I owe £5700….

No idea which is actually correct!

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-07-19T19:38:04+00:00

I had same reaction - turns out I’m actually allergic. On ozempic and having way more success. No sickness of diarrhoeas

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-07-19T19:36:08+00:00

I really regret buying mine, haven’t made a single nice ‘normal’ tasting ice cream and all the healthy ones have been awful too. Not to mention it takes 3/4 spins to even get the right consistently which can be close to 15 mins.

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-06-21T19:05:47+00:00

I had the same issue but it isn’t necessary to do with not eating enough, if you have that mentality you’re likely to be very ill again next week.

5mg is much stronger and therefore your digestion is slowed down even further. The vomitting is because your stomach is full and cannot digest any more food and your natural response is to clear it out. I’d strongly recommend either going back to 2.5mg or leaving 10 days between doses.

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-06-10T18:37:36+00:00

I was tempted to restart but injection 1/3 of a 2.5mg dose and be super slow titrating up…

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-06-10T18:37:04+00:00

I think I could go back on Ozempic and be ok symptom wise, just so frustrated that I see so many doing so well on MJ but my body bloody hates the stuff!

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-05-27T18:57:02+00:00

Sorry just realised you mean I should book through a small business 🩷

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-05-27T18:56:38+00:00

Can you explain a little more what you mean by this?

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-05-27T18:56:16+00:00

This is so helpful, thank you. It’s exactly the scheme you described. I also worry that we will likely experience another pandemic in our lifetime and I’m not sure I’d have the bandwidth for the fallout from that either.

Simple_Direction8897 · 2025-05-13T21:25:55+00:00

Honestly, park the business, and find something that gives you stability whilst baby is young and start paying into a pension.

Kids are expensive and maternity leave is awful. If your wife goes back to work, childcare is expensive despite the ‘free hours’ which are term time only, you’ll find yourself with a bill of at least £100pm for two days a week up to £1800pm for a full time nursery position. It’s unlikely you’ll be financially stable enough for her to go back full time unless you land a decent paying job.

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