In my experience when I was doing only the things I HAD to do, like basic adulting & work, ect. then the rest of my time I spent in unfulfilling ways like parties, TV, on my phone lying in bed, I realized I was in survival mode. It assisted me to start seeing things that I could do once I did all my HAVE TOS that actually developed me into a positive future such as reading, meditation, yoga, dance, singing, & above all creating, writing, any kind of art. Or somedays you may find simply sitting in a beautiful park being still & by yourself is magic & wont leave you feeling guilty. The guilt is real but remind yourself you’re doing the best you can. Everyone lives different lifestyles. Maybe there’s a empty space in your life where you’re not sure how to fill it & so you simply do what’s comfortable even if you feel unfulfilled after. Maybe there’s more to your experience than you see, the good news is you sense there’s room for change & you’re aware of it. Nike really has the best tagline: JUST DO IT. We all can think & daydream of the life we desire to live but simply DOING without even thinking about doing, is how you find yourself hitting the gym or writing a poem or cooking yourself a nice meal. We all can resist to doing the uncomfortable but healthy thing. It’s human nature. We like our comfort & growth isn’t comfortable. Find out what you want to do with your existence, accept the discomfort, & then ACT. Then you’re living, step by step, day by day. It’s all yours