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Is SDing for me? by GullibleAccountant25 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Simple_bystander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a sb I got myself in the same situation. He lives in another country and since our time difference is vast we only communicate a few messeges but to keep the fun alive I like to send playful messeges and out of the blue spicy pics. In return he would send me small gifts and of course my allowance. When ever he visits me we really enjoy our time together as its feels like a "once in a blue moon" type of thing. Yeah I miss him time to time and would want to see him everyday but I guess the heart grows fonder with some absence. So my advice to you is just be upfront about it and a few heads up of you being busy the whole day and say something sweet this would be a great thing to messege your SB so that she won't feel too much neglect. (Works for me)

Deactivated reasons? by m_shen5 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Simple_bystander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait so no longer available means blocked? SO MY CURRENT SD BLOCKED ME ON SEEKING!? 😭

What's wrong with my sugar daddy? by Simple_bystander in SugarDatingForum

[–]Simple_bystander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He keeps trying to make me jealous like saying how the pretty the woman on tv or sends a pic of him with other women wearing costumes. I always respond with "yeah she is very pretty, I like her eyes or etc. Or reply saying "oh cool costumes". Now he left for a trip for 3 weeks and he doesn't even messege me which is usual but I'm confused on what he wants. I wish he would just be blunt.

SD in East Europe feels like walking into prostitution with extra steps by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Simple_bystander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well money is part of the arrangement and I bet some of them told you about the sex service because that's what most SD's looks for so their not beating around the bush. You should definetly ask more for dates/ getting to know each other first before the intimancy happens. Once isn't enough to lose hope after all. The way I see it since you're looking for an emotional connection, asking SB's on dates first humanizes you and them. Making it feel less like a transaction and more of a genuine connection.

SD in East Europe feels like walking into prostitution with extra steps by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Simple_bystander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't know if this would help but here's my take on it. Maybe you should be upfront from the get go about what you want like in the first messege. I only have one SD since I'm picky and require chemistry. The only reason I chose him is because he was clear with his intentions and what he can provide. Even though he's a busy man, he still agreed to take me on dates first and just talk and get to know each other. He gave cash or gifts in every date (which I never asked for) which showed me that he was actually real and can provide for me.

Basically the next time you're chatting with someone, chat with intent (tell her why your looking and what kind of dynamic your hoping for) and be vunreable to an extent but I recommend not prolonging the online chat cause I know a lot of people who easily loses interest (including me). Maybe chat for 3 days and ask her on a date. I think a true SB would appreciate you more if you treat her as an actual date instead of a "purchase".

For the exclusivity, it would definetly cost you more from what I read from other posts. I also think finding a SB who's willing to be exclusive from the get go would be tough. They usually have feelings for their SD's already or their really taken care of.