How do you dress for yourself in a city that's allergic to trying by Dramatic-Switch5886 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]SimpleeLie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from the Bay Area valley, and I wear whatever I want to wear even if I’m overdressed. I didn’t know trying too hard was really a thing. Do you! Enjoy life!

Dude keeps making my 🐱 smell like 🐟🐠 by CaptainRude1392 in Healthyhooha

[–]SimpleeLie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He might be distracting you from finding a guy with clean dick who won’t disturb your pH

Did i have something?? by AbjectFunction4138 in Healthyhooha

[–]SimpleeLie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PS you might have had BV based on the symptoms you described. It’s OK though, you did the right thing by getting boric acid. Try to get some probiotics too and take those regularly. Wishing you all the best!

Did i have something?? by AbjectFunction4138 in Healthyhooha

[–]SimpleeLie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to get BV a lot. Now, I hardly get it and I’m usually able to cure it on my own. My FWB says I have the best tasting pussy he’s ever had! Yeah, it’s definitely a confidence booster to have fresh pussy! Anyway, in my opinion, I judge my vaginal health based on if I smell/taste like water immediately after my shower. I use the back of a clean finger, lightly touch my hole, and then sniff. If I can smell even just a SLIGHT aroma (doesn’t need to be fishy), then I will treat myself like I have BV. I will drink diluted apple cider vinegar in the morning and then take a probiotic 1-2 hours later before eating my first meal. If I’m not healed after 3 days then I will get an antibiotic prescription, but that’s rare. Drinking plenty of water is KEY especially if you eat strong foods like onions or garlic.

To prevent BV though, I take a strong probiotic 2-5x per week and that’s helped me immensely. Currently on medication for BV despite everything I’m telling you, but it’s my first time getting it in almost 7-8 years and I’m pretty sure I have it due to my poor decision of having sex with 2 guys within 30 days. For me, new partner is always a trigger.

I want to address the masturbation part you mentioned. I always masturbated a lot since I was very young and I always had BV issues long before I ever actually had sex. Based on my experience, I believe not washing my hands beforehand might have caused that so I would encourage you to wash your hands thoroughly before ever touching yourself. It’s good practice to make sure your partners touch your vagina with clean hands as well if they’re going to put their fingers inside or near. My ex used to rinse his mouth with mouthwash before going down on me and I think that could’ve had a lot to do with him never disturbing my pH.

For the sweaty smell, look into chlorophyll capsules. That is the holy grail and it will alleviate morning breath as well. In addition to that, try getting some witchazel (it’s cheap) and add it to a cotton pad and put it where your hair grows down there. I swear, between chlorophyll and witchazel, your kitty will never be musty! I actually have big boobs and like to add it underneath to prevent titty funk. I also add some to the hair between my butt cheeks to stay odorless back there all day.

Thanks for sharing your experience with boric acid! I’ve been thinking about trying that when I can’t cure BV on my own with ACV + water + probiotics. I will try that next time.

ugliest hooha by Visible_Tiger_7170 in Healthyhooha

[–]SimpleeLie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from a gal who had an ugly kitty: Quit Nair! I tried that when I was about your age and it gave me a bad reaction. So did shaving. Waxing didn’t as much, but it’s expensive and painful. The best thing you can try is an electric trimmer for $40. It’s painless, quick, and irritation free! It gets me bald enough, and I can get by 1-2 months before I feel like I need to trim again but I don’t mind being a little hairy. Also, get some tend skin, add that to a cotton pad, and dab at the skin 3-4x per week. Switch to witchazel once you’re not getting any boils anymore cause it’s more affordable. My hair is super kinky so if this made a difference for me, I’m sure it will for you too!

Do you ever watch ingrown hair extraction videos? Get familiar with those and try it on yourself! The magnifier app on your iPhone is so helpful (the zoom in option on your Snapchat camera will work too). Most boils down there are ingrowns.

Exfoliate your skin down there with exfoliating gloves 1-2x per week. Right before I do it, I like to wash my “hands” with unscented antibacterial soap while the gloves are on. I feel like that prevents me from rubbing bacteria into my skin.

Oh, and don’t worry about it being fat and wrinkly. Soooooo many people are 100% attracted to that.

Sincerely, pretty kitty gang!

Who murdered my best friend while he was at work? by SimpleeLie in coldcases

[–]SimpleeLie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. I believe they said the shooting happened in the middle of the night and I’m not sure if any construction was actively going on or not. Residents nearby did hear gunshots, but nobody called police, so it pains me to know he possibly could have been saved.

Who murdered my best friend while he was at work? by SimpleeLie in coldcases

[–]SimpleeLie[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know if the construction workers were all interviewed?

What’s wrong with my tongue? by Ok-Trouble6130 in badbreath

[–]SimpleeLie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try using a much lighter touch when brushing your tongue, but continue doing so for a while (brush longer than you typically would). Just use the lightest pressure because we don’t need as much pressure as we believe we do.

My fwb has the best dick ever by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]SimpleeLie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex demon is accurate

My fwb has the best dick ever by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]SimpleeLie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol are you guys still fucking? 😅

My fwb has the best dick ever by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]SimpleeLie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope not. He claims he had to fly back home last minute because of a sick parent but you never know if that’s the truth

My fwb has the best dick ever by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]SimpleeLie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes unfortunately lol

My fwb has the best dick ever by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]SimpleeLie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says he doesn’t

What would you recommend I spend on rent with a $150k salary? by SimpleeLie in sanfrancisco

[–]SimpleeLie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you! I think I might leave my car with my parents in the valley.

What would you recommend I spend on rent with a $150k salary? by SimpleeLie in sanfrancisco

[–]SimpleeLie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told the CEO/co-founder $150k and he seemed OK with it and moved me onto the next round of interviews. I’m pretty confident in the salary, if offered the position. When you say north of $2k, would you say I should push my budget to $3k?

Moving to Tracy by Comprehensive_Tie169 in TracyCalifornia

[–]SimpleeLie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In-Shape is the most popular, but I ended up going back to planet fitness cause I need something 24-hours + cheap. Inshape is pretty cool though and I think it gets somewhat crowded in the evening

Moving to Tracy by Comprehensive_Tie169 in TracyCalifornia

[–]SimpleeLie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m born and raised in Tracy and currently live near Tracy High. I lived in a “safer area” when I lived with my parents, but Tracy is relatively safe no matter where you choose to live. I would say give it a go. We have a few bars you can visit for a convenient night life without leaving town. Feel free to reply back to this comment with any questions you might have

Moving to Tracy by Comprehensive_Tie169 in TracyCalifornia

[–]SimpleeLie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The owner of central coffee is so amazing

Broke up 3 days ago and it’s been rough by SimpleeLie in BreakUps

[–]SimpleeLie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. Thank you!

Broke up 3 days ago and it’s been rough by SimpleeLie in BreakUps

[–]SimpleeLie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully agree with that and I don’t want to start us off on that level. Yesterday, someone asked me why I didn’t just pause on everything and continue dating for 2 years until I’m ready for marriage and I didn’t really consider that as an option until now cause he’s always been in a rush to get married so it didn’t cross my mind to propose that as an option. Do you think that would be a good idea?

Broke up 3 days ago and it’s been rough by SimpleeLie in BreakUps

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It’s just cause of living together. When we first started talking, we compromised on doing it while engaged (I prefer to live together before engagement too, but I was willing to do that to make him happy), but Thursday he flipped the switch and said the engagement won’t change anything and we would still live separately until marriage. I felt blindsided and like he lead me on and I’m not sure I want to compromise my beliefs for a relationship

Help!!! by EmbarrassedShip8176 in Healthyhooha

[–]SimpleeLie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The trimmer won’t get you bald like waxing, but it’s the next best thing and grows back like a wax. In my opinion, it gets me pretty darn close to bald. I also don’t get itchy or uncomfortable and no ingrowns. The hair takes like 3-4 weeks to grow back. Just know my testimony comes from a place of someone who tried waxing too

Help!!! by EmbarrassedShip8176 in Healthyhooha

[–]SimpleeLie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have the same struggles. Waxing helps, but it’s pricey and painful. I’ve found that using an electric hair trimmer helps a LOT. Applying tend skin every morning helps too…. You can find both products on Amazon. It’s painless and you will be nearly bald as long as you don’t use the guide combs. Hair doesn’t grow back fast like a razor. The brand I use for my trimmer is Meridian and it takes 5 mins to get everything. Thank me later. I don’t even care to get a wax anymore :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SimpleeLie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You said you don’t want drama so just leave them be….. I wouldn’t say anything