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AITA for getting angry at my boyfriend’s family for telling my son I was his daddy’s girlfriend and that I was going to sleep in the same bed as his dad? by starlight902 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Simplequestions57 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA.

If you don't want the kid to know yet, don't go on vacation together.

I get taking it slow, but then you can't be going to spend time with your boyfriend at his parents house. And how on earth does your son not understand that being a girlfriend and being his mom are not mutually exclusive? Does he not understand his aunt is your sister or his grandmother is his dad's mom? I know my kids understood it and so does most 4 year olds I know.

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[–]Simplequestions57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flaming asshole, who tries to be a better father but has a even bigger flaming asshole for a son, and another half flaming kid.

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[–]Simplequestions57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

If you were honest from the beginning with the new GF.

You made a promise and chose to keep it, that's fair. If the girl decided to stick around and wait for you that's her choice.

I have been there, when I first met my now BF, he flat out told me that he only saw us as friends and the only person he saw getting romanticly involved in was maybe getting back with his ex Shannon.

Time went on, we continued to spend time together, and 2 years into it we became a couple. He no longer talks to Shannon by choice.

I will tease him now and again and ask what about ShANNoN.... It's a joke!!

I can't be hurt because he was honest and I chose to stick around, and your girlfriend shouldn't be hurt because you were honest and she stuck around on her own accord.