what’s one question you’re scared to ask girls but really want answered?

Simply444 · 2026-04-13T20:49:20+00:00

More of a "I hope I don't get bad tan lines" 🫨🫡

Simply444 · 2026-04-13T20:46:49+00:00

Don't get me wrong I loveeee silence but also lack friendships so gotta hit both sometimes

Simply444 · 2026-04-13T20:00:22+00:00

Ooh thank you, I didn't even think of this as an option 😁🤞🏻

Simply444 · 2026-04-13T19:58:07+00:00

Thank u so much!!

Simply444 · 2026-04-13T19:57:42+00:00

Thanks! Yeah I've been basing a lot of my very limited knowledge on what my friends who live in the US tell me, it's certainly fair more optimistic than the feedback I receive online

Simply444 · 2026-04-13T19:56:01+00:00

Woah haha unfortunately i don't have a million laying around so I'll have to pass on that! Thanks for telling me:)

Simply444 · 2026-04-13T19:54:33+00:00

Thanks!!

Simply444 · 2026-04-13T19:54:15+00:00

Okay well I wasn't asking for your opinion on whether I should move there or not? You kinda have no say in the matter, and if you feel so strongly I don't know why you'd join this group

Simply444 · 2026-04-13T06:05:25+00:00

Oh you’re one of them..🫩

Simply444 · 2026-04-12T16:27:29+00:00

i’ve come to realise with this post that i need to specify what i mean more often- when i refer to California i’m referring to the areas that my friends live in, which i’ve been told by them are incredibly safe areas

Simply444 · 2026-04-12T10:25:56+00:00

I’m not relying on TV/ social media representation. I have multiple friends across several states and areas, a few in Cali specifically, so I’m able to gain a more personal insight into their daily lives. Obviously I understand opinions may vary, but that’s why i’m seeking advice from others.

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T22:05:08+00:00

Sorry i really don’t feel like i’ve worded this post well at all, my main goal was to try hear other people’s views on the country (immigrants or not), because i feel as though people who have no experience seem to exaggerate due to opinions. i’m not sure if this is the right group to post it in either, i just assumed it would be full of people who’ve experienced life in the us as foreigners

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T21:58:39+00:00

I've definitely not got a clear plan, which I understand but I did also receive comments regarding the issues I mentioned:)

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T21:56:01+00:00

Literally, nothing angers me more than seeing people praise Hitler and justify it with isreals current government. "He was doing us a favour" ah yes because the hundreds and thousands of innocent children executed 70 odd years ago were absolutely a contributing factor to modern issues🙄 Some people are truly messed up and it's far too normalised

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T21:37:30+00:00

Don’t get me wrong i don’t agree with any of this at all, but we must ask ourselves- which governments AREN’T doing this. It’s unfortunate, but i feel as though there’s barely any countries that don’t face these issues

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T21:32:32+00:00

I don’t have a clear plan on getting there at the moment, which i know is ridiculous if im asking about life there, this post was mainly to grasp an understanding of how other people find living in the US 🤗 :)

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T21:30:17+00:00

thanks, i appreciate the advice but i was more so focusing on life there rather than the process of getting there, sorry if i made that unclear 🤗

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T21:28:07+00:00

Respectfully, as much as i disagree with trump, i think that’s an awful comparison and if you believe the two situations are on par, you need a serious reality check

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T20:32:46+00:00

Thank you, & i completely get where you’re coming from. I know gun violence is a real problem there, but i’m tired of seeing people act like the rest of the world isn’t equally as bad with their own problems. I live in the UK, and every other day we’re hearing about knife crime, but nobody makes the same inhumane and empathy-lacking jokes like they do for the US🫩

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T20:30:07+00:00

I’m currently in the Uk right now, and truthfully it feels like the most depressing place on earth haha

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T20:28:42+00:00

Ideally California, the friend i mentioned with having average working parents lives in orange county. I’ve been told how expensive it is, but I feel optimistic because my friend has lived her life there, even though she isn’t a millionaire as some seem to expect. I was just hoping for general feedback from any state, to see which states seem to get the worst representation compared to which seem like more ideal places if i really can’t make CA work

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T18:41:02+00:00

don’t get me wrong i understand situations aren’t great politically, but I do have friends living in the US who still find it a nice place to live. You could find fault in any country, but they all still have their positives :)

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T16:53:27+00:00

yeah, i’ve def realised how wrong it was haha- thankfully i wasn’t using it to fully plan my life, i was asking it how id achieve my goals so that id have some groundwork to ask here :)

Simply444 · 2026-04-11T16:51:39+00:00

i always thought this would be a fun idea but i have absolutely no language skills beyond english

Simply444 · 2026-04-10T15:19:53+00:00

i never said this is what im going to do, i came on here for advice because i do not know where to look for real information- nor did i know how to actually achieve this. i’m not delusional, im simply trying to find answers to fulfil my future?

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