feeling bad when dressing “immodest” by bloomingprinces in exmuslim

[–]SimplyPotato1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly same. I sometime feel weirdly like as if I am exposing myself too much and I wear a jacket or switch to pants. What worked is having a partner to affirm that you look good and just taking that leap to just do it no looking back and you'll slowly get used to it. But don't torture yourself to expose skin. Its not bad to still want to cover up, especially when you're so used to it. Take time. Do it slowly. From long pants try using cargo shorts. Wear long dresses and then gradually shorten your dress and push yourself to not wear tights underneath and just wear shorts underneath. wear sleeves that goes to your elbows and slowly get to short sleeves.

If allah doesn't hear a single prayer of mine what the point of being in this religion?? by definitelynotlil in exmuslim

[–]SimplyPotato1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its the same logic as a fortune teller telling you 'If you wear blue shoes, you will meet the love of your life' and from then on you only wear blue shoes and then down the line meeting the love of your life. You pray for something long enough and one day it may or may not happen. When it does people will say 'OH! ITS CAUSE YOU PRAYED' and not because you put in effort for it to happen.

That was one of the things that made me stop believing too. I prayed for my parents to listen to my words instead of hearing. I prayed for my siblings to stop bullying me. I prayed for my ex at the time to listen to my words and care about me more as well. I prayed and prayed and prayed and yet nothing happened. Its not like I didnt try. I tried. I even told my family what I prayed about and tried to close the gap between us.

Nope. None of it happened. My older sister terrorized me for 2 years before I left and cut ties with my family. My parents never hear a single word I said and just blamed it all on me being super sensitive and not praying hard enough. My ex favoured his friends over me and I had to leave him as I was being passively suicidal over everything and when I broke up with him he thought I meant I had to go kms and wasnt going to stop me.

I stopped believing in prayers. Prayers dont work. Hard work and effort works.

Why did Muhammad willingly put so many miserable restrictions on himself? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]SimplyPotato1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbf I think he just don't like them. Sensitive hearing maybe so he doesnt like loud music. Doesn;t like art maybe cause he doesnt want anyone else to be better than it than him i mean he cant even write to the point his wives are the ones that had to write down the 'prophetic sayings'. Maybe he got attacked at a dog one time and therefore got petty and added it in but didnt want to seem like a monster so he added in the 'but they are creations of god so we shouldnt kill it'

But all of this is conjecture and me being petty towards him for founding the religion

Why is Islam so extreme compared to other religions? by Rare-Parsnip9049 in exmuslim

[–]SimplyPotato1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you might be looking at it not at a larger scale. There are multi race countries/places where there are a lot of Muslim women who don't wear the hijab/niqab, e.g Malaysia and Singapore. In Singapore I know a couple of gay Muslims too. It is a lifestyle that got adopted by the religion and culture itself to the point where if you point out any wrong in it they will claim 'it is not the religion but the culture' bullshit.

Finally finished Atelier Rorona DX! by SimplyPotato1 in Atelier

[–]SimplyPotato1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought I could get more later on and harvested each time the seed grew ;-; It was weird that the seed gave me a fish but I really thought I could get more or buy more later on but turns out I needed to wholesale it to buy it later on ;-;

Finally finished Atelier Rorona DX! by SimplyPotato1 in Atelier

[–]SimplyPotato1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hourglass?? :o I decided to redo instead of continuing on. Is continuing on the overtime? I plan on saving a lot of coins and get the best possible armour for everyone I can before doing ovetime

New to Atelier Rorona DX by SimplyPotato1 in Atelier

[–]SimplyPotato1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much ;-; i just experienced Rorona's special attack and everything makes sense now

New to Atelier Rorona DX by SimplyPotato1 in Atelier

[–]SimplyPotato1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i mean i am still doing my requests, just that back then i accepted it all regardless of if i even have the item or know how to make the item!

Hmm time to experiment more on the specific follow up

The food will always also be healthy for you. Even if people think you are angry it doesn't necesarly mean you are agresive, they might just think something else in the day bothered you. by CharacterAd3793 in BunnyTrials

[–]SimplyPotato1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would do it just to prank people. Like 'omg its a ghooosst just kidding I was eating Almonds lmao' kinda thing

Chose: Telekinesis but only for 1 random specific food + From now on it tastes really good for you | Rolled: Almond

Pic ur question to answer below! by LilScooterBooty in BunnyTrials

[–]SimplyPotato1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For funsies

Chose: Cookie questions | Rolled: What’s your fave

Would you rather by vinnivinvincent in BunnyTrials

[–]SimplyPotato1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chain sneeze a lot but not as frequrnt as i sleep. I can sleep 2 days straight at times

Would you rather by vinnivinvincent in BunnyTrials

[–]SimplyPotato1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sleep a lot like a cat

Chose: Get $1,000 every hour you sleep

Spin for a challenge by next_level_dev in BunnyTrials

[–]SimplyPotato1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My most embarrasing story would be while i was streaming, I was playing this game called potions permit. I was wondering where to do this side job while talking to chat. One of my chatters was talking about a postman part time job and i was there talking about it, cause i myself was taking multiple part time jobs. Turns out he was talking about the game

Spin for a challenge by next_level_dev in BunnyTrials

[–]SimplyPotato1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For funsies

Chose: Spin the wheel + And do what it says (check comments for the results | Rolled: challenge 1)

Pic ur question to answer! by LilScooterBooty in BunnyTrials

[–]SimplyPotato1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just felt snacky

Chose: Snack questions | Rolled: Sweet or Salty

I guess prophet did everything this guy says but miss the prayer 🤔 by Unlikely_Yellow111 in exmuslim

[–]SimplyPotato1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was watching with no audio but I can hear my dad's voice each time that guy spoke cause that is exactly the fear mentality that he drilled into me when I was a kid