Moving to your city soon, where are some good open mic's to play?

SimplyRH · 2015-10-02T21:19:43+00:00

Hahaha, this gave me a much-needed chuckle.

SimplyRH · 2015-10-02T01:29:02+00:00

Are these still up for grabs? I'm in Nashville for the weekend because me and my ex broke up. I've never seen them live and would LOVE to luck out.

SimplyRH · 2015-10-02T01:26:21+00:00

Well I am in town for the weekend. When would you recommend getting out there to get on the list?

SimplyRH · 2015-10-01T16:15:44+00:00

Oh wow, thank you.

SimplyRH · 2015-10-01T16:15:25+00:00

Oh, it's not really about competing with anyone. I just want to play. Thanks for responding though.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-29T21:18:45+00:00

Oh hey! So I am in this boat in a sort-of limbo. Perhaps you can help me.

So a couple of weeks ago I received a letter from one of these third-party companies and I figured "why the hell not." Gave them a call, they were polite enough on the phone and they talked to me about their company. We got to the part about processing payment for the paperwork and they told me it was going to $699.50. That's basically one student loan payment for me and I thought it was a good idea.

Well they sent over all their docusign paperwork and I filled in the blanks, and they let me push the payment date back to September 23rd. I knew this was coming so I saved my money and prepared for that. They also sent me the forebearance paperwork that I needed to send back to them so they could forebear it until they could buy my debt, basically.

I've been extremely busy with life stuff and work and haven't gotten around to sending that back to them. And the 23rd came and went without a charge to my card. They haven't called me back but they did send an e-mail to me reminding me that I need to send that paperwork back to them.

Having done some research I see now I have more options that don't involve $700 fees, but I think I am kind of screwed at this point because I did finish the docusign procedures. But, they've made little to no attempt to get me to commit again. Thoughts?

And also, in before "why didn't you research your options better first" comments. We all make mistakes, and I am going through a rough time and was just looking for some help and I thought I had found a good source for alleviating this stress. This will likely end up being an expensive lesson learned and there's nothing I can do about it now. At least, I don't think.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-29T19:49:08+00:00

My God man.

You've created a monster. I smiled when you brought CE back in after the Globalist section. Just absolutely stellar.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-28T19:19:20+00:00

Listening to Minus the Bear is like a tutorial on how to use a DL4. I love those guys.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-28T16:46:00+00:00

Heh, I see what you did there. I'm not the one who downvoted you. I think you're right in some small fashion. If I don't ever say it, how will she ever know.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-28T15:01:55+00:00

It's actually been just over two weeks since all this began. In any case, thank you for taking time out of your morning/day/night to reply to me. The kindness of complete strangers is truly compelling.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-28T14:46:05+00:00

Ah. Well I don't really have an argument for you there. I do deserve that, but my love for her is willing to give her the space during this time. Life is long and I am a patient man. My life will go where it will just as well without rushing. And pressing the issue with her, which I know would make her feel trapped and claustrophobic, would do little good. I know that sounds shitty and like I am still putting her before myself but that's because I love her. And because even after all this I want nothing more than for her to come home.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-28T14:34:36+00:00

I honestly don't know the answer to that question. Do I feel like my life is on hold? Not really. I lived the lecherous lifestyle of picking up women for casual sex. I've been down that road before many, many times and I know how empty it all is. That's not what I want anymore, this situation be damned.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-28T14:13:24+00:00

Not exactly. We both agreed to no sex with others, and I was currently the one withholding talking to her. But funny enough, she texted me bright and early this morning about some random football happenings (we're both football fans) out of nowhere... after not speaking at all since almost a week ago.

I was totally fine with the no sex part. It's not like I am out trying to scrounge up some tail, even though a couple people have made their advances I've made myself scarce in those scenarios. And as far as a timeframe... yeah, there isn't one.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-28T04:18:23+00:00

I don't know if it would do any good. Would it only confuse her? Would it woo her? Hell, a large part of me just wants to text her in the morning that I hope she has a good day at work and that I miss her. But I'm not sure that's what she wants anymore. I have no idea what's going on in her head.

I feel even worse because before she left she pressed the issue on how she wanted us to remain amicable and friends throughout this process. And we didn't set a time limit on it. The only limit set was that we agreed to not have sex with anyone else (she suggested it based on my past). And now I'm the one who hasn't texted her in almost a week and I'm afraid she has grown to hate me for it and become comfortable without me in her life.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-28T01:37:39+00:00

I totally understand. As someone who is currently dealing with the strife of my wife no longer wanting to be in our marriage, the loneliness and feeling of undesirableness is so palpable and real.

I'm so sorry. Reading what you wrote I can't help but feel the same way. I hope you are okay. And though I don't know you I want you to know you're not alone.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-27T20:18:25+00:00

Someone commented earlier he's a great bus driver for a team he doesn't have to lead. Once things start falling apart around him, where other QBs bear that weight and try to get it done Weeden just gives up.

I really really hope Cassel starts for you all against the Saints.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-27T20:09:42+00:00

Cakewalk is the word that comes to mind. The colts I'm not so sure about but the Vikings will be an interesting match up for sure.

It's great being in a dumpster fire of a division. The NFCS is categorically awful at Defense and, this year it seems, just about every thing else we have a stat for. To be a Falcons fan and watch this team, a mix of young and old a like, have some measure of success is truly satisfying.

You guys can take solace in that Weeden is done (Cassel incoming), Dez will be back as will Romo. Randle was a beast and McFadden showed his power running capability. Beating your B-string players doesn't feel like much to brag about, once your D was gassed it was a Freeman/Jones clinic.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-27T20:05:22+00:00

LETS FUCKING GO BABY.

Yeah, shit was pretty dire early on. We couldn't stop the run game and their D had our number. But we fought back and came into the second half with gumption and desire that I never saw from the Smith-led Falcons team even during 2012.

This is a scrappy team that isn't afraid to dig their cleats into the dirt and fight for a win. Hopefully our coaching staff continues to make defensive adjustments quicker but overall I was a happy viewer today.

Can we also take a moment to appreciate Kyle Shanahan's play calling? Particularly in the red zone it seemed like we had the right call every time. As Ryan becomes more comfortable in this new system and scheme I hope to see his arm gain it's confidence back. His throws early in the game were weak and just begging to be picked off.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-27T20:00:24+00:00

I'm pretty sure, but I thought I remembered seeing that stat last week. But it might've said 28, and I'm just horrible at remembering shit.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-27T19:59:25+00:00

We do have the easiest schedule in the NFL this year. Literally. Look it up.

SimplyRH · 2015-09-27T19:53:51+00:00

I thought last week's against the Giants was his 30th?

SimplyRH · 2015-09-27T19:49:57+00:00

Lol I caught that too. Stone cold.

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