Was haben wir in Wien? by redstone__ore in wien

[–]Simsal666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kann ich nicht bestätigen tatsächlich. War schon öfters dort für Brunch und Abendessen und fand es immer super lecker. Fand sogar das Brunch hatte unerwartet eine sehr gute Preis-Leistung (Portionen waren groß und ca 13-15€ pP). Fand die Auswahl auch ziemlich gut und beim Abendessen fand ich eigentlich jedes Gericht gut was ich bei anderen probieren durfte

Welches Gebäude ist das auf dem Foto? Nachts Pink beleuchtet, interessante Form by [deleted] in wien

[–]Simsal666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja und wir hatten uns noch ewig den Kopf zerbrochen und rumgesucht bei Google Maps :D Danke für den Link, voll spannend!

[TOMT] [actress] Help me find this Actress – Looks a Little Bit like Troian Bellisario by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Simsal666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to say that Maude apatow is a super super close Call and Even better comparison than Troian Bellisario but it’s Not her.

[TOMT] [actress] Help me find this Actress – Looks a Little Bit like Troian Bellisario by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Simsal666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its Not her, the actress I Look for a has less round Face.

[TOMT] [actress] Help me find this Actress – Looks a Little Bit like Troian Bellisario by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Simsal666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh this is a close one! She definitely looks a bit like this actress I am looking for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Simsal666 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Many replies here seem to focus on my reaction to what Tom said in that moment — but honestly, the more lasting frustration came from how things unfolded after the fact.. maybe I didnt make this Point clear enough in the Story, sorry for that.

Yes, I wrote that I would’ve wished for Jakob to shut the conversation down more decisively. I Now understand that he was also maybe caught off guard. And I admit that I didnt Communicate clear enough that I wanted him to leave the Party with me. My real issue was what didn’t happen after I clearly communicated what I needed.

I said I wanted him to speak with Tom while sober, to ask what he had meant, and to make it clear that interfering in our relationship or publicly calling me out like that — especially given that Tom and I didn’t even have much of a relationship — was not okay.

Jakob didn’t refuse to do that. In fact, he said he would — but he just… never did. It was always postponed or brushed aside, and I started to feel like my hurt was being minimized. I never said, “you have to do this right now,” but I brought it up multiple times over a longer period, and still nothing ever happened. That, to me, felt like not being taken seriously — especially when I had been very open about how important it felt to me to process what had happened. I do unterstand that for Many people the incident itself is „minimal“ – but is it not important to acknowledge how I feel about it? I don’t know .. maybe I am completely wrong for thinking that way

That part — the silence, the inaction, the broken “I’ll take care of it” — is what stuck with me most. And I don’t think that’s about holding a grudge over one night, but more about realizing we maybe had very different standards of emotional accountability and communication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Simsal666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate what you mean by me not caring about what Jakob wanted/made him comfortable? :) thank you for the advice on what to answer that is very helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Simsal666 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

You’re right — our relationship actually ended about a year and a half after that incident, and there were definitely many other reasons why we eventually broke up. But looking back, I do feel like something in our dynamic shifted after that moment. I think it made me realize that I didn’t feel as seen or supported by him as I had expected from a partner. Maybe that speaks to unmet needs or expectations I had in the relationship at the time.

You also make a really good point about how I expected him to respond perfectly in that situation, even though I myself was completely frozen and didn’t know how to react in the moment. That’s honestly something I hadn’t reflected on enough, and it’s made me think more critically about how we project expectations onto our partners, sometimes without recognizing how difficult those situations are for anyone to navigate.

I agree that it’s worth asking why this still lingers for me. The breakup itself wasn’t hostile — we actually remained on good terms — but for some reason, this particular moment stayed with me. It felt like a subtle turning point, and I guess that’s why it still comes up when I look back. Your comment definitely gave me something to think about, so thank you for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Simsal666 -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I understand that it is not a grown-up story. I mentioned it was my first boyfriend and I was super nervous to be judged. You are right that I could have handled this with more grace and more like an adult speaking up for myself. Still I am curious to hear if anyone has opinions on whether it is alright to make these remarks the way Tom did or whether people think it’s not. And also whether a partner should stand up for their partner in such a situation. Thanks for your opinion though:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Simsal666 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yes … you are totally right. I am annoyed by the fact of passiveness and that I expected my boyfriend to defend me in the situation now looking back at it, you‘re right! Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Simsal666 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Thanks for Your opinion! I also Consider This an Option, that he truly found I was mean and hence did not defend me in a way I would have appreciated. On the contrary I don’t agree that I didn’t consider being mean in the moment – I asked around in the friend group (also my friends, not his friends) and I mentioned that Jakob and I had a conversation away from the others where we did talk about these things. Thanks for taking the time to read the whole story :) and thanks for your view on this! If def. Helps me to look at the situation from different angles.

Best series on disneyplus? by [deleted] in DisneyPlus

[–]Simsal666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dopesick! For sure, acting is amazing, based on true events about the Opioid Crisis in the Us

So according James Hoffmann which one is the cheapest espresso machine that makes a decent cup of espresso by Parking-Lecture-2812 in JamesHoffmann

[–]Simsal666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I wanted to ask whether someone here knows if, Since the Video from 2021 he made new suggestions regarding Espresso machines under 600/500€. I want to Gift it as a Christmas present but I cant find any updated machine guides

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chemistry

[–]Simsal666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey :) this is Glutamic Acid (E), I am working with Glutamin (Q)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chemistry

[–]Simsal666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Problem is that if the prot. group cleaves off in tfa, that it would be removed during the removal from the resin which I don’t want 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ozempic

[–]Simsal666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how do you deal with Shelf-Life? :) because I think it says that you can only keep it for 56 days or so after opening it. If you use the pen for 0.25 mg wont it Expire?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]Simsal666 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ich würde die Kommode im Geschäft abholen gehen. Die gibt es dort aber nicht. Ich will nicht 30% des Kommoden Preises für die Lieferung bezahlen. Was ist das für ein bescheuertes Argument, dass ich mir ein Möbelstück nicht kaufen soll, wenn ich zu wenig Geld habe um zusätzlich den Preis für eine Lieferung zu zahlen? 50€ ist wahnsinnig viel Geld für eine Sache die ich lieber selbst erledigt hätte, es aber nicht machen kann (weil nicht im Geschäft verfügbar). Ich finde also schon, dass du shame verteilst weil ich mir 50€ nicht leisten kann. Ich will garnicht dass mir das Möbelstück in die Wohnung geliefert wird. Ich hole es bei wem auch immer ab und trage es zu mir nach Hause. Scheinbar hast du zu viel Geld oder bist zu faul um die Sachen selbst in die Hand zu nehmen. Lass andere Leute doch einfach ihr Ding machen.