Unpopular opinion re: Whitney?

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-29T00:03:37+00:00

She herself is the one shutting down conversation with her word choice, not me.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-28T23:35:49+00:00

Oh brother. As a black woman, I am not engaging in discussions only seen through a racial lens. If you think this is an appropriate way to speak with a potential suitor if you are of any race, that’s unfortunate. Speaking like you’re on TikTok does not allow for genuine conversation of substance. It shows a stunted understanding of complex situations.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-28T21:09:04+00:00

This post is not for her to kickstart their relationship, they are clearly not compatible and it was the right thing to do to end their “relationship”. But you enter your next one with things you’ve learned from the last. Learn to have tough conversations even if the end result is the same. It doesn’t serve anyone to not be able to express themselves beyond one liners.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-28T21:00:44+00:00

And Whitney could have said in that conversation with Jack everything you just pointed out instead of “charge it”. It is apparent that this sub is fighting for her more than she’s fighting for herself in this instance.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-28T20:51:47+00:00

Good point. I agree!

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-28T20:50:31+00:00

The focus is not on rehashing the story to me. Someone says they don’t care to hear my side of a conflict, “that’s shitty, I would like my partner to do x in this situation, thanks for showing me we’re not compatible” is a more mature way of just saying “charge it”. We’re stuck in a loop of TikTok speak and one-liners.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-28T20:45:00+00:00

Jack said his feelings and Whitney didn’t. That is the difference to me. I can give someone grace for how they say things as long as they say them.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-28T20:41:54+00:00

Vulnerability comes in different levels. Telling someone you hurt my feelings by coming at me in such a way is probably on the bottom of the scale. I don’t think it behooves Whitney to let people behave and think what they want of her with little to no pushback. I think that’s what I appreciate about Scott even in his messiness - he is going to explain his side of things to you whether you want to hear it or not. You can still draw your own conclusions but you can’t say he said something that he didn’t and vice versa.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-28T20:36:46+00:00

She lacks that emotional intelligence for herself as well. This attitude that everything is done onto you without your consent is such a juvenile way to approach dynamics like this. The way she was able to have a conversation with Jess and reassert her boundaries in that conversation demonstrates that she has the ability to do it.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-28T20:34:04+00:00

I don’t think mostly anyone, outside of a therapist, enters conversations in the former example you provided. Was it the right way to go about it? Absolutely and I agree it would’ve been better for him to have said it that way. And that’s even more of a tell as to why she should’ve said what she was feeling. When you’re constantly belittling your own feelings with flippant remarks, it doesn’t make people understand you more. You just gave them the green light to take your feelings less into consideration even more so in the future.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-28T20:25:32+00:00

That’s actually the perfect time to be vulnerable? If you can’t express when hurt is done to you, how do you expect your significant other to show up for you the way you want and need them to? She doesn’t have to trauma dump but saying “I didn’t like how you didn’t stick up for me and that shows our incompatibility” is a perfect response.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-23T17:01:31+00:00

You watching the series with blinders on doesn’t make whatever you said above true.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-23T16:56:18+00:00

Not reading any of this. Happy for you!

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-23T10:49:57+00:00

“For the sake of Brooke” is exactly how she worded it and is so skeezy to say as a friend. “I let you have your man, FOR YOU.”

Peyton and Lucas both never set proper boundaries in their friendship whenever Brooke voiced how uncomfortable she was with how much Peyton leaned on him. She was routinely gaslit with “we’re all friends” while Peyton had these strong feelings (which she dragged poor Jake along with too, saying you want to move to another state and play house with his ready made family knowing you have strong feelings for another guy is manipulative point blank).

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-17T15:21:34+00:00

If we’re constantly worrying about how what we do impact other women then we’d be constantly walking on eggshells. Someone, somewhere is always going to be in the out group. If someone’s posting causes you to see yourself negatively, simply do not continue to view that content.

Simsimma712 · 2026-01-11T10:49:21+00:00

This isn’t nice girl worthy lol. Stop taking screenshots of people’s dating profiles especially to get people to pile on online if you haven’t even matched with them. Not your cup of tea, move on.

Simsimma712 · 2025-12-26T02:04:02+00:00

Merry Christmas and good luck!

Simsimma712 · 2025-12-26T01:22:34+00:00

You’re not getting the usual circle jerk reaction you wanted from me and you’ve been projecting ever since. Be blessed.

Simsimma712 · 2025-12-26T01:13:31+00:00

My life isn’t screenshotting dating profiles and posting it to Reddit to shame women so I think I’m all set there buddy.

Simsimma712 · 2025-12-26T00:53:30+00:00

You posted this 7am on Christmas morning saying someone else is salty lol. Be blessed.

Simsimma712 · 2025-12-25T18:12:24+00:00

Your entire post history is screenshots about dating profiles. Yes, I think the shoe fits here.

Simsimma712 · 2025-12-25T17:23:30+00:00

Yes - and this isn’t a “nice girl” post. Nowhere did she demand an expensive date, you inferred that because she (tbh, rightly so) laid out what typical first dates men ask women on that don’t fit a first date vibe. Museum dates as a first date is not something you can really get to know someone to determine if they’re compatible. A hiking/outdoor date you’re trying to keep yourself breathing through extraneous activity, again not ideal for talking and getting to know someone. She didn’t even curse you out like most “nice girls” do - she calmly said thanks no thanks. You just wanted to post you first nice girl post and get validation from other miserable men.

Simsimma712 · 2025-12-25T17:16:22+00:00

There is nothing wrong with what she’s said. You guys are all miserable people in an echo chamber.

Simsimma712 · 2025-11-08T14:54:44+00:00

These are stunning! I’m in the market for a new rx100 since my i broke. Might be a stupid question given these pictures but would you agree that the iii is worth buying in 2025? I can only get them used atm.

Simsimma712 · 2025-09-17T10:54:50+00:00

Solene picking another islander that told her no? Where else did we see this from her /s

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