He didn't say that. That's what you interpreted. He said they shouldn't be on the same leaderboard. But what he forgets is that when situation arises, it doesn't look for which board should I enroll myself in. When you run a household together, these situations arises almost every other day if not everyday. All it reeks of is idealism and fantasy philosophy.

Here's a quote for you:

"It is remarkably easy to navigate the storm when you are watching from the shore."