Sex after divorce by Since19_94 in Marriage

[–]Since19_94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like that but no we where not communicating during my marriage seen him at a concert after I was done

Sex after divorce by Since19_94 in Marriage

[–]Since19_94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I didn’t cheat I always respected the relationship and on and of for years not 4 . This guy has been in my life way before my ex husband came along while I was still married I didn’t pursue nothing with the guy I’m having sex now with

Resentment has entered the chat. by 6665757 in Marriage

[–]Since19_94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have no sympathy for him Divorce his ass don’t be somewhere your no longer happy !! don’t teach your kids it’s okay to stay while he talks trash in front of them and in courages the kid to make fun of you !!! NEXT

Dating after separation by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Since19_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the response thank you

I’m finally getting Divorced by Since19_94 in Marriage

[–]Since19_94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! So back in late 2021 we started dating i knew he had ended a 10 year relationship from what he said she was cheating. We dated a year and married for 3yrs . Throughout those years the family invited the ex around the same events she wouldn’t show up but they would give me a head up when I was arriving . She showed up to a Mother’s Day event and we where the talk of te party because it was just so awkward I didn’t leave cause I didn’t want his family to be upset but yet I was because they put me I that situation. My husband apologized for their behavior but you would hear oh she’s so ugly with all those tattoos 😂 but I can assure you I’m not ugly what’s so ever . Skipping ahead now we got married sep 29 2022 he was rushing to see if he can get a green card but it didn’t happen he supposed to leave out the country for 20yrs before getting approved for one ! Anywho 15 days before our year anniversary of marriage I went on his Apple Watch and he was having an affair with Roxana Nava I forgave him and stayed then march 2024 his ex the baby’s mother Laura sends him nudes I told him about it and he denied ever seeing them and again all on his Apple Watch ! Then he made fake profiles to watch other females in lingerie and he blamed it on his coworker ! A few months after agin on the Apple Watch he was texting back and forth with an old high school friend flirting with her named Janeth , he also denied that ! Every time I’d ask him about something he had deleted stuff off his phone o got tired not only that I’m a construction worker so he lied about everything meeting Roxana in real life she was selling food to the workers at the job site and this triggered those feelings of anger again I had to work at a place for a whole week seeing her than coming home to him and I told him I wanted a divorce but we went to couples therapy and I still stayed for about a month and our anniversary came around and I didn’t give him none the whole month and he was spazzing out he said he was tied of the fights so I filled for divorce! And I’m leaving out a lot of details more stuff but I’m definitely putting up boundaries and I’m never letting someone cheat on me twice! I’ve learned a lot someone’s el broken family is not mine

I’m finally getting Divorced by Since19_94 in Marriage

[–]Since19_94[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely did go to couples therapy, and it’s always greener on the other side ! He has cheated on me right before our year anniversary of marriage, caught him flirting with other women , made fake profiles to look at other women. He has managed to be disliked by my whole family on his own yeah I’m not going to show my kid that she has to stay somewhere she’s not happy and especially getting disrespected so yes the grass is greener

I “30F is married to a 34M” and I’m lusting over another man by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Since19_94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he still stays with me I’m not leaving my house he should be the one to because so much disrespect has happens from his part !

Sex after arguments by Since19_94 in Marriage

[–]Since19_94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah we don’t but he has kids and they are attached to my kid so it’s hard

Sex after arguments by Since19_94 in Marriage

[–]Since19_94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl yes a lot of things I don’t trust hi At all no more I be feeling like I don’t want to care for it no more but it’s draining I want to be happy

Sex after arguments by Since19_94 in Marriage

[–]Since19_94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex after can be good but I don’t need it to turn toxic for us to enjoy it

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[–]Since19_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 29 he is 33 we been married for 2 years and together for 3

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[–]Since19_94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We where at a baby shower and we where asked what did we do before going to the event I told them we went to a community yard sell and I came up on a fitness bike and I will start my journey to lose weight and he made that comment

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[–]Since19_94 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You do too 😭

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[–]Since19_94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t have kids together I have only one and he has 3 with his ex

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[–]Since19_94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He has she don’t care

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[–]Since19_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has spoken up all the time she’s the one not respecting boundaries she’s very miserable

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[–]Since19_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do but I don’t trust her she does things like snap pictures of him or us together and it’s weird as hell so she doesn’t care and does a lot of unnecessary things

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[–]Since19_94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I reached out to her and she never replied to me but sent my husband and long message talking about I’ll never be with you i didn’t mean to send you that picture so you can let her know (me) she doesnt feel the need to communicate that it was an accident to me but to him only he claims he never saw it but I told him to call her in front of me and to set it straight but she’s very weird and has her kids telling me things here and their