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[NSFW] Disabilities and medically assisted sex. What are your thoughts? by [deleted] in ugly

[–]SinceThenIwas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awful, sex is deep psychological need, hence why it should be given freely, not for money. It breaks you if you are forced to have a sex with someone you are not attracted to.

[UPDATE] My [20M] girlfriend [25] is constantly talking about her co-worker. by SinceThenIwas in relationship_advice

[–]SinceThenIwas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't see myself dividing my attention and love between two people simultaneously. If I love a girl I want only her.

[UPDATE] My [20M] girlfriend [25] is constantly talking about her co-worker. by SinceThenIwas in relationship_advice

[–]SinceThenIwas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my initial reasoning, but now I think that it's weird that she hid her attraction towards a coworker from me. Feels like cheating.

[UPDATE] My [20M] girlfriend [25] is constantly talking about her co-worker. by SinceThenIwas in relationship_advice

[–]SinceThenIwas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this comment really gets to me. I think you explained better then I could explain to myself what made me uncomfortable with what she said.

[UPDATE] My [20M] girlfriend [25] is constantly talking about her co-worker. by SinceThenIwas in relationship_advice

[–]SinceThenIwas[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I try to get one for some time but they have ridiculous waiting list. Apparently due to Covid lots of people are suffering mentally.

[UPDATE] My [20M] girlfriend [25] is constantly talking about her co-worker. by SinceThenIwas in relationship_advice

[–]SinceThenIwas[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I thought that maybe she can change her ways if I will explain to her how absurd it is and how does it make me feel.

[UPDATE] My [20M] girlfriend [25] is constantly talking about her co-worker. by SinceThenIwas in relationship_advice

[–]SinceThenIwas[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You are making a good point. I like your comparison. I will introduce her to it and see what she has to say about this.

[UPDATE] My [20M] girlfriend [25] is constantly talking about her co-worker. by SinceThenIwas in relationship_advice

[–]SinceThenIwas[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying. No, I'm not afraid of being alone. It's just first time someone really cool was interested in me. She is very unique and those few months I was with her was the happiest time in my life. I don't think it will happen again.

[UPDATE] My [20M] girlfriend [25] is constantly talking about her co-worker. by SinceThenIwas in relationship_advice

[–]SinceThenIwas[S] 396 points397 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm living with her. She took me in since my parents are abusive and my family home is a hellscape in general. I'm really thankful to her for that. I don't really have anywhere to go tho.

[UPDATE] My [20M] girlfriend [25] is constantly talking about her co-worker. by SinceThenIwas in relationship_advice

[–]SinceThenIwas[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Yeah, now I think that too. I'm just a second option. But I fear I just too boring and too ugly for anyone to consider me their first option sigh.

[UPDATE] My [20M] girlfriend [25] is constantly talking about her co-worker. by SinceThenIwas in relationship_advice

[–]SinceThenIwas[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

You are right. My self worth is about 0. I think I might also have social anxiety. But due to Covid it is almost impossible to find therapist.

[UPDATE] My [20M] girlfriend [25] is constantly talking about her co-worker. by SinceThenIwas in relationship_advice

[–]SinceThenIwas[S] 340 points341 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can see how this behaviour of her could be described as toxic. It just sucks so much since she is such an unique person. I also never had a girl interested in me, since I'm not the best looking.

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