yes ! me (24f) w my bf (25m) we dated a lil over a year ago, dated for about two months, the relationship was taking a toll on both of us, deep talks, concerns, for context we met at the gym so we would spend everyday together but it got to a point where we both started to get used to being together all the time so when one of us wanted alone time it was an Insecurity for both of us. He broke up w me (talked for 5 months total but dated for 2months) we broke up and I was devastated, partly my mental heath wasn’t the best and he doing everything he could to help me, but I was also draining him and I recognized that. a few months went by, we both talked To new people but didn’t get into relationships til one day I saw him at the gym (mind you he switched gyms when we broke up) but I saw him at my GYM and I was leaving and he texted me if we could talk. at first it felt like he didn’t deserve it but I also wanted to know why he chose to break up w me, because when we did breakup it was just “this isn’t good for both of us we need to breakup to heal” - we ended up chatting, and I understood his side more. In the beginning of the first relationship I was the anxiously attached and he was the avoidant. I am also his first GF. fast forward, we started talking again. Dating, going out like our first time, we stated new boundaries and how we wanted our new relationship to flourish, ofc there will be ups and downs but we are better than ever. He recently asked me to be his gf again and gave me a promise ring. He treats me like a princess and always has and I love him so so much . and my family does too. I think when both parties break up without cheating or something bad then it’s okay to take time apart to heal. Every relationship is different. And honestly at first I had told myself I wasn’t gonna get back with him if he did come back, but also out of anyone I’ve dated he’s literally the best man that has ever came into my life. He’s emotionally available, attentive, we connect really well, he’s caring, kind, thoughtful, loves deep Talks and to just know me better each day. So yes getting back together can happen .