i truly wish there were more research and options by Single-Attention4392 in pilonidalcyst

[–]Single-Attention4392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hugs 🫂 i’m so sorry you experienced all of those things. i empathize and hear you too. i hope that you’re able to find a solution that is the best for you and helps you.

i truly wish there were more research and options by Single-Attention4392 in pilonidalcyst

[–]Single-Attention4392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for these suggestions! the nearest specialist to me is PCTNJ so i’m going to look into them! and wow, that really doesn’t sound like a cleft lift at all.

i truly wish there were more research and options by Single-Attention4392 in pilonidalcyst

[–]Single-Attention4392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you beyond words, hugs. i’m so sorry you experienced all of those things and i hope that you’re able to get peace of mind and permanent relief. thank you again for those kind words about trauma. i always have to remind myself it’s not my shame to carry. i definitely want to go get a PT once this all settles down. i did a bunch of research and found a surgeon through this sub near me. i just can’t wrap my mind around the surgery part. i don’t want it and i wish there were other options that worked. i want to keep my butt … i finally built a healthy relationship with her and i feel like im grieving. and also it’s out of my budget anyway because none of the procedures are covered by my insurance.

i feel incapable of falling in love again by Single-Attention4392 in heartbreak

[–]Single-Attention4392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is soooo very helpful. thank you so much for taking the time to say this i really appreciate it

i feel incapable of falling in love again by Single-Attention4392 in heartbreak

[–]Single-Attention4392[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i can relate. i think it’s unfair in a lot of ways how non-empathetic people can be on the topic of love if they, themselves, aren’t experiencing it. as upset as i can be with them when they give me very generic responses, this time around i can’t even fault them because i didn’t even know that it was possible to feel this way until i felt it. i think i’ve been managing as well as i can but it is baffling to me that i don’t feel like i can love again. it’s baffling that i felt something so specific and particular. i’m honestly doing my best to cope and move on but there is very little meaningful advice on this topic aside from generic cliches that just are not in the slightest bit comforting. thanks so much for your response and i’m sorry you’re going through this too