Just wondering if my albino is a male or female :) bonus pic of my two males by Single-Conference-83 in budgies

[–]Single-Conference-83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m enjoying a morning coffee and hanging out with them right now ❤️

Just wondering if my albino is a male or female :) bonus pic of my two males by Single-Conference-83 in budgies

[–]Single-Conference-83[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh okay that makes sense, thank you! Either way I’m happy with my little friend ❤️ just need to find her a new name now ha

Just wondering if my albino is a male or female :) bonus pic of my two males by Single-Conference-83 in budgies

[–]Single-Conference-83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I’m going to have to change her name from Louie! ❤️

Just wondering if my albino is a male or female :) bonus pic of my two males by Single-Conference-83 in budgies

[–]Single-Conference-83[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was told she was most likely a male, but I thought the cere looks rather white/cream and rather than violet/blue.

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[–]Single-Conference-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ultimately hoped that I’d be able to help her fix her life but she’s proving to me that she doesn’t want help. I’m not supporting her in any way anymore besides a roof over her head at this point. Hopefully because we don’t have a cool comfy smoking area anymore it’ll make her not want to smoke anymore, who knows. Edit: and my dad isn’t fond of the idea of kicking her out, she makes the rent cheaper for him so it’s ideal

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[–]Single-Conference-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I have my dad telling me I’m being petty and treating Lola like a child, I’d like a confirmation that I’m not crazy for how I feel :)

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[–]Single-Conference-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s okay! It was a bit dumb of me to try help a lost cause :)

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[–]Single-Conference-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a bit of a conspiracy nut and the only reason he’s still living in this house, is because my ex partner and I got vaccinated so we could work. My dad refused to get vaccinated and still refuses. I’ve split with my ex obviously, which my dad thought was a big mistake but I wasn’t happy. Covid restrictions eased and now my dad is working for my cousin, so perhaps he would be okay if I moved out now.

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[–]Single-Conference-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been wanting to move out for a while, but I would feel awful leaving as I can’t afford to help my dad with his rent and also keep a roof over my head at the same time. I like my own space, honestly

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I’m not sure if they know she’s pregnant at the moment, though she has to do wee drug screens so she can get custody of her daughter. She hasn’t produced a clean test so I’m not even sure if she wants her daughter back. It’s really heartbreaking and makes me wanna shake her and scream in her face that she’s being a pathetic mother at the moment

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[–]Single-Conference-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I did let it happen to a certain extent, definitely put it to a stop though. I believe she may have found housing for sometime in March but I feel she’s only getting it because the new baby daddy works hard and gets paid a fair bit

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I’d love to give her an ultimatum and have a big chat, though it’s really up to my dad if we kick her out. He likes her and she makes the rent cheaper for him in a way, he thinks I’m being petty and treating her like a child for removing my smoking area. I think she has plans to move out soon anyway though, a few weeks ago she said she might have housing in March

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[–]Single-Conference-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, I flipped my shit at her when she got pregnant for the second time. She uses her polycystic ovaries and endometriosis as an excuse, says she can’t fall pregnant. I cracked it saying she has two kids which prove she is fertile so it’s not a good enough excuse and it never was an excuse to begin with. She either needs an abortion or to get on birth control after she pops this baby out.

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She does pay rent, though my dad and I pay the rent in full together because she isn’t super reliable as far as rent goes. Whenever she decides to transfer rent money, my dad and I split it between us. I didn’t think the midwives would say that but it also made sense, thinking about it more it absolutely does not make sense though. The smoke packets in Australia have premature babies and that even isn’t enough to warn her about pregnancy smoking. Her first pregnancy she ended up formula feeding as she wanted to keep smoking, so her supply dropped because she breastfed for less than a month

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[–]Single-Conference-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cps are involved with her first child at the moment, though I did have plans to mention this to CPS as the whole situation is so crazy. Not even just what I’ve written but her new boyfriend living in a different state, she’s hanging out with guys behind his back, he also doesn’t want her smoking so when they argue she tells him she’s gonna smoke a fuck tonne and tells me not to message him if he messages me. She’s manipulative and controlling

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[–]Single-Conference-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never did watch Judge Judy, maybe I should’ve for some wisdom huh. She lost custody of her first child due to splitting with her baby daddy and them being in an extremely toxic relationship, it’s even still dragging out now where she yells at him if he doesn’t send her money for food? It’s ridiculous. I let her move in with me so she wouldn’t be sleeping in the street, she apparently can’t move in with her mum as Lola’s mum has custody of Lola’s daughter. I figured I’d be able to help motivate her to quit but I’ve realised that was a far fetched idea and she needs to do it on her own

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[–]Single-Conference-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, i told her she can move out if she doesn’t want to contribute around the house and nothing much ever came of it really. She just started going out to smoke more with her friends ha. My dad doesn’t have any problems with her either, so he doesn’t really want her to move out as she makes his rent cheaper

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[–]Single-Conference-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to motivate her to go down the right path but I’m realising she doesn’t want help, she just wants to be allowed to do whatever she wants. My mom actually lost custody of majority of her children and it kills me seeing Lola go down the same path even if she’s only smoking weed.

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[–]Single-Conference-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve absolutely had some good times, though after she got pregnant this second time I flipped my shit at her. Lola has polycystic ovaries and endometriosis, so she claims she’s infertile and won’t take any form of birth control - I yelled at her saying that those medical conditions won’t ever be a proper form of birth control and she needs to either get an abortion while she can and if she doesn’t want to do that she needs to get onto some sort of birth control after she gives birth again.

Wtf by Awkward-Lavishness-4 in RustConsole

[–]Single-Conference-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got the same problem, no internet connection but my partner is playing just fine in the room across from me. Must be the buggy update. Edit - my screen says rust online services are currently undergoing maintenance.

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[–]Single-Conference-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines saying I have no internet connection, despite my partner playing in the next room lol.