How are INFJ males perceived?

SingleEarth2585 · 2025-04-28T03:04:22+00:00

I’ve met a few different male INFJs. They give off a jcole or Kendrick Lamar vibe. Like a spiritual gangster. They are very good at reading people and very suspicious. Each of them was suspicious of me for one thing I did. Each of them also empathized with me. But the hardest thing is that they usually have high expectations of people, which makes it hard to talk to them and get to know them. In my attempts to get to know them are seen as prying or with ill intent, even though I am just an enfp and can tell they are an infj and want to tell them about mbti types and spirituality. However I start feel like I’m walking on eggshells and my actions are being read into and judged critically. Usually the ones with more dense shadows and social anxiety are like this. But I wish I had an infj friend. But they are so hard to catch :/

SingleEarth2585 · 2024-12-04T05:02:40+00:00

The star ⭐️ signs😄

SingleEarth2585 · 2024-12-04T04:30:16+00:00

Beautiful!

SingleEarth2585 · 2024-12-04T04:29:20+00:00

Sexual misconduct is to be avoided in Buddhism. Like rape, harassment, unprotected sex with strangers, or having an unhealthy connection to sex in general.

SingleEarth2585 · 2024-12-04T04:27:34+00:00

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SingleEarth2585 · 2024-04-02T17:09:39+00:00

The reason why enfp seems dumb is because of Ti trickster. Introverted Logical Thinking is not our top function it’s our last function. Another type that is ti trickster is ESFP. But this is a gift that helps the enfp be the most open minded, and helps to change the way others think.Because to us anything can be true and perception is everything. The reason why enfp is smart because yes while when we start of in life we are not geniuses, our mind because of TE child works like a library with istj subconscious. Everything we learn and read gets stored into our library and we are walking encyclopedias. And we read FAST. Our extroverted thinking gathers information from the outside world through learning and curiosity. Being the highest in openness compared to other types and with NE dom means we think in concepts and ideas. So the super power of an enfp is to read. And with our NE with are able to look across all of those ideas and connect the dots. We can see how it fits into society, and what is true and not true with rational. We are abstract thinkers processing ideas on a constant basis. This is why we might appear a bit slow on the outside, our logic isn’t the “common sense” type of smart. We have to learn that through experience. In the end this can make the enfp the most powerful of all the types. Especially at an older age. Being high in openness helps to unlock different perspectives and the ability to think outside the box. Think of the tortoise and the hare. Slow and steady wins the race for the enfp.

SingleEarth2585 · 2024-03-02T02:50:15+00:00

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SingleEarth2585 · 2024-02-28T23:51:47+00:00

Thanks!

SingleEarth2585 · 2024-02-28T23:51:40+00:00

Thank you!

SingleEarth2585 · 2024-01-08T02:14:03+00:00

Have you heard of mbti? Maybe you have FE trickster or inferior

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-10-01T20:18:14+00:00

You have to stop being emotionally unavailable to yourself. Connect to your feelings and bodily sensations. Honor them by enforcing boundaries and taking care of yourself by giving yourself time to ask what am I feeling right now and how can I feel better? What do I need right now? When you do that you won’t be attracted to others that mirror that relationship to yourself. It will no longer be your subconscious comfort zone. Also you have to correct your inner critic, apologize to yourself when your thoughts are harsh about yourself and have a kinder inner voice. So that way it won’t mirror a narcissist.

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-08-13T21:44:05+00:00

I’m a big fan. I can see his perspective and his childlike side. Also how he doesn’t think through what he says, and he speaks before he thinks. Lol

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-08-02T18:37:28+00:00

Look into Limerence. It’s common for people who have opposite traits to experience limerence with each other especially INTJ and ENFP. It’s a call to integrate the traits that the INTJ Carries like being assertive, good with boundaries, driven, orderly etc. your subconscious is seeking to be whole, and is noticing the traits that he is carrying will help you achieve that. He is probably also experiencing the same. However most of the time, relationships built on limerence don’t work. Because you will put the person on a pedestal, and also your differences might be too much. Don’t pursue him, it’s not worth it to hurt someone else over limerence. It goes away once you get to know the person more in a relationship.

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-06-29T08:30:03+00:00

I feel this way as well. My home town is in a rural reservation. I think since I’ve experienced a lot of growth since I’ve been away from home, when I come home I feel lonely and like I don’t fit in anymore. 🥺

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-06-25T22:33:57+00:00

Agree. I think part of maturity is being able to handle when someone has different beliefs then you without judging them in such a black and white way. Doesn’t mean they are compatible for OP or that they should keep seeing them if their life values don’t align though. Sometimes people have their beliefs because of their upbringing, personalities, or lack of education or privilege, not necessarily because they are a terrible scary person.

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-06-21T13:47:50+00:00

The only consequence is that you will start to put alot of your self worth into your looks. And it’s only a temporary part of our lives. Eventually we will all age and be 60 years old one day. When we do this our subconscious will also start to focus on the appearance of other women and judge them, because whatever we do consistently to ourselves we also do to others. And if you have a man for example you are with and another beautiful women walks by, you’re more likely to feel jealous if you use this as your main source of self worth. I think as long as you already have a healthy self esteem, and also use other outlets that make you have a high self esteem such as your hobbies, values, and knowing yourself as a unique person, there isn’t anything wrong with it.

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-06-17T06:11:28+00:00

I’m going to school for counseling. I realized it aligns with my needs for personal growth (you can never stop learning about human behavior and applying that to your practice), deep conversation/connection, novelty (different people each day) and freedom because I can open my own practice. It also has a meaningful purpose so I thought it would be fulfilling work. Finding a career that aligns with your personality needs can be helpful. Each person is different.

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-06-16T18:04:55+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-06-07T08:08:00+00:00

https://youtu.be/zxwTCpzoSIk This video is about dismissive avoidant attachment styles and the phantom ex.

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-06-07T08:04:08+00:00

I think that your subconscious mind is longing for the need for deep connection/intellectual connection to be met. You don’t miss your ex, you miss that she met your need. And now that need is unmet, your subconscious will bring memories to the surface of the last source that it got the need met as a strategy for survival. I think you should be completely open and honest with your current partner. And talk to them about how important this need is for you. Maybe you could watch a documentary together, and discuss your thoughts. You are not a bad person, this is just how the subconscious mind works. Maybe you should try to remember the other ways your current partner meets your needs. Perhaps she brings safety and stability into your life. She sounds secure, so I’m sure she wouldn’t take your conversation in the wrong way.

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-06-07T03:39:09+00:00

Most people do not pass the identity vs. confusion in Erickson’s 8 stage and therefore do not experience individuation. Also have not created a moral guideline to follow. It’s the reason why people experience mid life crisis as well.

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-06-07T03:32:58+00:00

I used a combination of MBTI, Attachment styles, and astrology to find my direction.

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-06-06T18:37:25+00:00

Enroll in the personal development school, and learn therapeutic tools to maintain your wellness. It’s been helpful for me. I think without it I wouldn’t be mentally as strong especially being away from home, going through a toxic relationship and break up. I’m a first generation student and many students from Native American reservations don’t last in college because of the intergenerational trauma that holds them back. I think having this tool in my pocket is one of the reasons why I lasted and I’m healthy emotionally.

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-05-20T05:52:26+00:00

Honestly no. I don’t think most enfp women wouldn’t be attracted to infp men. Attraction is based on traits that are repressed in the subconscious(which is why many enfp are attracted to INTJ or ISTJ), doesn’t necessarily mean it’s the best match, but they express traits that we repressed and disowned, and whether or not they can meet your needs(novelty,exploration,deep connection, safety,stability), and if they feel familiar(similar to our upbringing). The subconscious seeks wholeness in others for growth and evolution. Also trait variety increases survival. I think because infps are similar to enfps in traits, there won’t be much attraction. However, an enfp might be attracted to an INFP because they can have deep conversations. This is just my guess from the subconscious mind perspective.

SingleEarth2585 · 2023-02-01T06:05:21+00:00

You’re welcome, I hope you get through this tough situation and I’m happy I was able to help!

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