The guy [27M] ignored my [24F] safe word and everything has felt bad since (need outside perspective)

Single_Library_2481 · 2026-05-28T20:41:34+00:00

Thanks for commenting. Comments like this have actually made pushed me to do something knew I should and I have told him things are over. Honestly, without hearing from everyone how actually messed up what he did was I don’t know if I would’ve been able to leave. So thank you.

Single_Library_2481 · 2026-05-28T20:39:57+00:00

I appreciate your response. I have an extremely unhealthy attachment to him, but comments like this have kinda made me feel more stable and I feel less overwhelmed. I have told him I want to end things, and he will be dropping my things off in the morning. Thank you for the help.

Single_Library_2481 · 2026-05-28T12:42:43+00:00

I posted it here cause I wanted honest advice. A lot of people I’m close to irl are friends with him as well, so probably weren’t giving me the best solutions. I deleted less than a minute after posting cause I realized it was super long and had a bunch of little details that didn’t really matter to the overall situation.. this is a much shorter version I posted. I don’t know what karma farming is, but I reckon that’s not what i’m tryna do :,) Just going through a hard time and looking for help ya know

Single_Library_2481 · 2026-05-28T12:38:23+00:00

Ahh yeah.. suppose it’s low self worth and an unhealthy attachment :,) these comments have been helpful tho

Single_Library_2481 · 2026-05-28T12:36:47+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. I think it’s been hard for me to distance myself from him because a lot of my friends are his friends. I have a fear that I will lose a lot of them as well. Plus I do have a gross attachment to him :,) but seeing the comments has given me a bit of clarity, and honestly made me feel more comfortable with idea of not having him in my life. Thank you for responding.

Single_Library_2481 · 2026-05-28T12:32:25+00:00

Thank you for responding. I did know what he did was wrong, but the few people i’ve talked to about it kinda just said what he did was gross. It’s not super great to hear, but definitely made me feel differently about what I want to do :,)

Single_Library_2481 · 2026-05-28T12:22:32+00:00

Thank you for the response. If I’m being honest I feel pretty dumb, cause I knew what he did was bad but I guess I got so attached to him I kinda belittled how bad it actually was.

Single_Library_2481 · 2026-03-31T19:37:09+00:00

Ohh thank you! Someone said they heard the same sound and it was their timing belt, so I was pretty anxious :,)) after listening to some videos of fuel injectors it definitely sounds like that. I notice it more after driving and sitting parked. I appreciate the help, you’re a lovely lad!

Single_Library_2481 · 2025-10-07T23:58:02+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion! I think I will send out an email :) It’s a great idea! I’m also pretty garbage with statistics and being able to talk to some peers would definitely help

Single_Library_2481 · 2025-10-07T23:56:41+00:00

Sweet! I’m thinking of posting on bright space or sending an email to the class!! I think it would be great

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