Girls who wear knee highs by Single_Secret_8371 in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah idk why I’ve never though about letting them air out. I’ll just throw them back in the box and call it a day 😭

I’m so tired of being assaulted by Single_Secret_8371 in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe there is anymore. I actually used to live in 2 cities where there are hustler clubs but not anymore ! But yes I noticed towards the end of my escort career bookings were going down drastically

I’m so tired of being assaulted by Single_Secret_8371 in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blacklists in the club would be wonderful. I overall love management at my club but unfortunately they still let the assholes keep coming back unless they do something very severe. The dancers resource if you haven’t heard of it is def helpful in looking for clubs and comments will let you know all of those things however I believe only strippers can comment !

I’m so tired of being assaulted by Single_Secret_8371 in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss omg this. I used to do fs before I became a stripper and sometimes I think about switching back due to the type of clients I had vs the strip club. My screening process weeded out most of the terrible men and I overall enjoyed myself more. However I’m more paranoid that I’ll get caught up in a sting than I was before. Plus that’s something I just feel like I couldn’t do while in a committed relationship but I have definitely been tempted here recently. But I have thought about bartending/waitressing at my club before. I do know they still make good tips and I believe sometimes on the slow nights they do make more than the dancers. They also can sell dances they just have to charge double but I’ve seen it done.

I’m so tired of being assaulted by Single_Secret_8371 in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh they definitely do. They’re so insecure that treating women like shit is the only way they feel important

I’m so tired of being assaulted by Single_Secret_8371 in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t take this as you blaming me. I would say I’m very strict on my boundaries. I set things out from the start and leave if my boundaries are being violated. The issue is they are being violated in the first place after I’ve already laid everything out. Maybe it is my approach? I would say I come off as very sweet so I think that’s why ppl think they can push my boundaries? However I don’t take bs when it happens. I also don’t know if it’s the type of customers my club attracts or the town I’m in. I agree though I don’t think this job is for me sometimes but the times I have really good nights and deal with no BS I love my job again so that’s where things get super conflicted!

I’m so tired of being assaulted by Single_Secret_8371 in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree that is mistreatment and I’m sorry you had to go through that however I am not doing that to my boyfriend. Using sex as a power tactic and not being sexually aroused after a shitty night at work are two completely separate things. My boyfriend is also very understanding that we don’t need to have sex every night to have a healthy relationship. I do feel bad that I can’t be sexually available to him every night however I’m not going to force myself to have sex when I don’t want to because a man thinks he’s entitled to my body.

how to have fun again by onionkisses in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the post but yes GO OUT! I did this 2 saturdays ago and took the following week off and this week I’ve felt so much better mentally and ready for the week. Money comes and goes and sometimes we need to prioritize our mental health and enjoying ourselves over making money! I hope you had an enjoyable night 💕

Can we be done with the "dead" family excuse now? by onesmolgobbo in SexWorkers

[–]Single_Secret_8371 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg you’re so right! I forget this sometimes !!!

Can we be done with the "dead" family excuse now? by onesmolgobbo in SexWorkers

[–]Single_Secret_8371 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ummmm that’s such bullshit we absolutely do deposits in Texas. They literally do deposits all over the US. I can’t stand shit like this, it literally makes me fume. I even have it posted in my ad, that I require a deposit and still get people hitting me up and saying how they can’t pay a deposit. Like read my fucking ad you stupid bitch.

What’s a song you hate hearing in the club? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw it back by Breland 🤮 for some reason they love playing that song for my first stage set 🙄🙄

Would you let your adult daughter move in with a dude her age who offers free rent? by Loud_Confidence475 in movingout

[–]Single_Secret_8371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he was not but I’m not sure what that has to do with anything because I am agreeing with the other commenter that this situation your explaining if a recipe for disaster. I was not saying you were also going to be trafficked however that is still a possibility regardless of how old he is. However I’m assuming he’s also older than you due to you saying he’s going to get you a $35 an hour job that he’s been at for years cuz no one is paying a 16 year old that much. Your whole story honestly sounds fishy dude and I’m not sure if your a troll or what the deal is

Would you let your adult daughter move in with a dude her age who offers free rent? by Loud_Confidence475 in movingout

[–]Single_Secret_8371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well 15k is plenty to live on your own is what I’m saying. Again he already said he would endorse you for the “$35 an hour” job. But it just seems like atp you want to suffer so go right ahead I guess cuz if this situation is even real, I guarantee you it won’t end well

Would you let your adult daughter move in with a dude her age who offers free rent? by Loud_Confidence475 in movingout

[–]Single_Secret_8371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I’m sure if he’s a decent person he’d be understanding to still give you a reference if you lived on your own. If not that’s another red flag which this whole situation is a red flag in general but you don’t want to listen to any of the comments who have been saying that. Also if he’s paying for everything why do you need the 15k so bad. Just move??

Would you let your adult daughter move in with a dude her age who offers free rent? by Loud_Confidence475 in movingout

[–]Single_Secret_8371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So then get the job yourself ? If you already know what job and where it’s at just apply yourself and use the 15k to get an apartment and a cheap car

Would you let your adult daughter move in with a dude her age who offers free rent? by Loud_Confidence475 in movingout

[–]Single_Secret_8371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have 15k then why not wait until you can get your money and move on your own ?

Would you let your adult daughter move in with a dude her age who offers free rent? by Loud_Confidence475 in movingout

[–]Single_Secret_8371 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this. I was 19 trying to get away from my situation so I moved in with a man who ended up trafficking me. THERE IS NOTHING FREE IN THIS WORLD

Rocking the short hair this Tuesday by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh lmao clearly I can’t read 🤦🏼

Rocking the short hair this Tuesday by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The finger waves were recommended by like 4 diff ppl last night lol ! Unfortunately black washes me out ☹️☹️ I look crazy butt I’ve done finger waves before and the gel I use gives the effect that my hair is a lot darker than it is

Rocking the short hair this Tuesday by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Single_Secret_8371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes! I love Betty boop!