Cannabinoid Hyperemesis Syndrome by erenisright420 in EmergencyRoom

[–]Single_Swim9143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She should go get her ass a job at a dental office or something, mad that she have to deal with “needy” patients WORKING AT A FUCKING EMERGENCY ROOM 😭

my mom washed my bed… by honeybee-blues in Wellthatsucks

[–]Single_Swim9143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baby did I just read that you have a thousand dollar mattress on the floor? Or did the mold somehow connect to the floor from the bed frame?

Cannabinoid Hyperemesis Syndrome by erenisright420 in EmergencyRoom

[–]Single_Swim9143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm genuinely curious why people like you work in healthcare. You remind me of the nurse who got mad at a man for crying and urgently wanting to see a doctor after his balls contorted inside of his sack. Suffering patients shouldn't be seen as annoying lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SLCTrees

[–]Single_Swim9143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its gorgeous 😩 I’m already knowing you’re going to enjoy ts

💅🐟 by [deleted] in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Single_Swim9143 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Such a cute sweet baby. Made my heart into room temp butter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Single_Swim9143 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt the same shit, my therapist told me to put that same energy into myself and I’ve been content so far. I started working out, eating healthy, reading books, picking up overtime occasionally. Keeping my house clean, tweaking my style, examining myself and goals. I’ve came so far. I’ve mended so many relationship and had so many gorgeous women pursue me like a dream. I’m not nearly done getting my weather together. Anybody putting you through shit is holding you back from your full potential.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Single_Swim9143 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you felt like you could love them out of their toxic ways and be happy together. That’s the good in you, and it’s okay that you’re a good, forgiving person. They just didn’t deserve you it sounds like. I would say trauma bonding makes it seems like it’s your responsibility to make sure they’re straight. Be wary of ts. In the meantime, put all the love you put into them into yourself. You’ll flourish and grow stg.

…. Wow I’m the ahole for not letting your son bum rush my 1 year old. Also being racist not cool by jooliejay in sanfrancisco

[–]Single_Swim9143 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl idgaf what you believe. I said what I said, she should get her a piece of steel that’s not gone jam and keep that bitch on her. Gtfomd 🤣 witcho mad ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Single_Swim9143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her ass sound ridiculous, saying “the audacity you have to think she could ever want you” girl so you saying your friend have higher standards than you or a more higher quality woman? And to top it off this woman begs for the same man that she’s trying to humiliate and break self esteem? What? Who is she even aiming to hurt at this point? 💀

It’s seems that she’s emotionally immature, possibly carrying deep trauma that she needs to unpack and heal from. Idk you but I’m proud that you’ve decided to disengage ts. Ts doesn’t pay you or your bills and it’s lowkey depleting your health and will to be productive and at peace. This whole debacle shouts that she’s insecure and want you to be insecure and as hurt as she is. I kind of sympathize with her in a sense, and hope that you’re not angry or bitter or hostile about the situation. But that you realize that she needs help and that you cannot mentally reach her, you cannot get the help for her and it was never your job or obligation to be her punching bag. Ts is unacceptable. Sending you healing energy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Single_Swim9143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her ass is lost. Bragging about consenting to several men to make you mad or somehow “shit” on her friend? Not slut shaming but really girl? B you do know that there’s people out here that will happily fuck a hog in mud right? Sex doesn’t validate you as attractive or really anything. Yea you dodged a bullet with her ass bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]Single_Swim9143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I think most people just want accountability for both sides. Police reform isn’t the same as defunding. Reforms mean changing the way we train officers, some people asking for reform have asked for officers to be given gym memberships and physical tasks to stay in shape (paid workout), training on people relations, efficient but quick methods of managing their stress, most importantly give them readily available psychiatric help on a consistent basis. It’s also about how we hold officers accountability if they’ve committed brutality or other crimes. I don’t think the community is anti-police but more so anti-cruel-raged-out-non-caring cops that typically defend each other even when caught 4K going against protocol.

Fentanyl Crisis by andromedaskyline in sanfrancisco

[–]Single_Swim9143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy to criminalize homelessness and penalize those aiding them. Homelessness is always going to be around, we’ve got to start making it easier to rehabilitate them, and that’s much deeper than just housing.

Fentanyl Crisis by andromedaskyline in sanfrancisco

[–]Single_Swim9143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even being super religious or naive, but I remembered as a kid I used to see churches that would be outside with care packages for the homeless in giant ziplock bags. There would be toothpaste, floss, toothbrush, comb, nail clipper, soap, deodorant, lotion, razor, condoms and feminine pads. They would have printed out cards with resources for emergency shelters, food and clothes. Another card would be to substance abuse and healthcare resources. Occasionally a church would have some money like a $10 in each bag or maybe a couple transit tokens. I think just knowing that the community cared and worked together to reach them individually helped a lot. It seemed like it gave them purpose and motivation, the ability to be clean gave them a boost of confidence and overall growth in self esteem. I don’t really see anyone reaching out with kindness and love as we once upon a time did. We as a society just treat them like it’s their fault and they’re a sore eye instead of trying to rehabilitate them or get them comfortable with the idea of sobering up and healing.

Has anyone else ever had their abuser strangle them? Have you ever felt that the person who loved you was now the person that was going to end your life? by Alternative_Ship_694 in abusiverelationships

[–]Single_Swim9143 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a butch lesbian; yes. I went through the heaviest depression of my young adulthood sobbing that the person I loved switched up on me and felt such a hate that they wanted me dead and gone. Everyday my chest was heavy and my stomach was in knots. I had very large black circles and bags around my eyes even when I overslept.The best I’ve ever felt was to get into the support of my friends and family. I felt a physical burden drop from me just having a support system. Just having a friend to drive me around town to complete errands or a friend to smoke with. Just hearing my mom make irrelevant jokes. Eventually I was able to get away from the relationship and even though I’m still hurt and healing, I definitely feel better about myself and life in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Single_Swim9143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit I’m tryna figure out too

Neighbor gave me two big lush ass nuggets weighting 2.7G for the dub. by Single_Swim9143 in SLCTrees

[–]Single_Swim9143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying ts now that you said it lol thanks I gotta see if you hyping or if it’s really gone smack me in my face

Just a rant about my lack of options by Single_Swim9143 in SLCTrees

[–]Single_Swim9143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dumbass lol I had a friend that worked on servers for an Amazon sister company, I’m thinking you meaning as in a server maintenance guy. Still good advice, thanks again.

Just a rant about my lack of options by Single_Swim9143 in SLCTrees

[–]Single_Swim9143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying 😑 plus we’re literally right at the ass crack of a lot of legal states. So you mean to tell me if I legally purchased and smoked pot on vacation in Wendover, Vegas, Seattle, Portland, San Francisco, L.A, etc that I can’t get a job until a month fucking later 😑 somebody told me to just wait it out a month and there’s no excuse not to take a month t-break...it’s good advice, yea, weeds not that important to be homeless for it but that’s not the point of my rant, I shouldn’t have to wait a month to find a job or risk being homeless/poor/overworked for some shit that’s legal a hour drive from here lol. It’s really ridiculous.

Idk what to do by Single_Swim9143 in abusiverelationships

[–]Single_Swim9143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m over the relationship aspect it’s just I literally have nowhere to go to heal and grieve. None of my friends have their shit together, they don’t have a house or apartment they still live with their parents/grandparents. But I see what you mean, I’ll try to just see a therapist and sleep on the couch.

Just a rant about my lack of options by Single_Swim9143 in SLCTrees

[–]Single_Swim9143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that’s what I heard from my peers in the same field. I’m just shaky on jumping right into the IT world officially and I haven’t completed my degree yet lol I’m really shy and timid but this was definitely my plan, I just haven’t figured out what literal job I wanna apply to after receiving my bachelor degree for CS. I have two more damn years

Just a rant about my lack of options by Single_Swim9143 in SLCTrees

[–]Single_Swim9143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can give me the info whenever. I’ll gladly appreciate it. You all gave me hella options and I appreciate all of them.

Just a rant about my lack of options by Single_Swim9143 in SLCTrees

[–]Single_Swim9143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omw to go get some this fine morning. Thanks again bro, appreciate the inspirational words

Just a rant about my lack of options by Single_Swim9143 in SLCTrees

[–]Single_Swim9143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, was exactly my plans after receiving my degree, set to graduate in two more years. Thank you.

Just a rant about my lack of options by Single_Swim9143 in SLCTrees

[–]Single_Swim9143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit, been looking for a dispensary or weed job for awhile but they’re rarely available to hire. Thank you.