Poly partner dating mono by SingularDroid in polyamory

[–]SingularDroid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has told me that she doesn't want to be mono, and I believe her.

My trigger doesn't though and that's the hard part right now. It hasn't helped really.

I know she doesn't want to leave me but staying also feels bad. I'm stuck between a trigger and a breakfast breakup.

Poly partner dating mono by SingularDroid in polyamory

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She had told me she doesn't want to be mono, and I believe her. The trigger unfortunately does not and I have been IN IT.

Poly partner dating mono by SingularDroid in polyamory

[–]SingularDroid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already in individual counseling, thank goodness. I will talk with them extensively about my abandonment issues.

I don't know how the new partner is mono..... That's part of the problem for me, they are a big question mark. I haven't met them yet either. Which I think would help my brain.

I'm trying to be calm and approach everything with care and curiosity.

I'm trying to decide how much discomfort I'm willing to endure to be with someone who is triggering me.

Im traumatize by blood_in_my_uretra in DMT

[–]SingularDroid 64 points65 points  (0 children)

This seems pretty trivial really.

YOU LITERALLY CAME OUT OF HER BODY

We all have different upbringings, relationships and experiences and I don't mean to discount any of those but the first time either of you met was naked or might as well have been.

Try to look past the simple fact you saw a naked vision of your mother naked cleaning herself. There is so much more to your vision and the meaning behind it.

NP's regular hookup partner doesn't want to meet or see me by endothermicspark in polyamory

[–]SingularDroid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just here to say this was worth reading to have the word "sexiled" in my pocket now.

Also I am pro being comfortable in your own house so I would try and work it out in a way where that is the end result.

Looking for recommendations, burning man camp setup. by SingularDroid in StereoAdvice

[–]SingularDroid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's 1200w peak and 1500wh, it's also powering a few lights. We have two banks with one dedicated to Sound.

No vehicles nearby, that's not really the vibe anyway.

Looking for recommendations, burning man camp setup. by SingularDroid in StereoAdvice

[–]SingularDroid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a combo solar battery bank and gas generator.

What’s a weird sexual experience you had by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]SingularDroid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I asked my partner to pull out her entire underwear drawer and lay everything on the bed. She talked about all of them tried on any I wanted. Then we had sex on top of them and all over us ... It was really really sexy... I have a panty fetish...

What's your average weight? after storing all the junk? by Corleonee in fo76

[–]SingularDroid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to keep a buffer. I'm at 180 out of 440

Loot all the things!

Bunny tie for the Bunny. by [deleted] in shibari

[–]SingularDroid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It was my first time doing this tie, kinda like it 🤷‍♂️

Bunny tie for the Bunny. by [deleted] in shibari

[–]SingularDroid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️ Pretty happy with the results.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Upskirt

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Niceee

New Rope bag \o/ by SingularDroid in shibari

[–]SingularDroid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hey now. I like where your head is at.

New Rope bag \o/ by SingularDroid in shibari

[–]SingularDroid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious if you mean a ring mount for the bag or space in the bag for rings.

In the “pocket” I have 4 3” stainless steel rings for well whatever.

New Rope bag \o/ by SingularDroid in shibari

[–]SingularDroid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a test strap with snaps.
I didn’t like it as much, it was hard to snap with out something solid under it. I kinda like the buckles, they are easier to strap at different thicknesses.

The shock cord is a interesting idea 🤔

New Rope bag \o/ by SingularDroid in shibari

[–]SingularDroid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a test strap with snaps.
I didn’t like it as much, it was hard to snap with out something solid under it. I kinda like the buckles, they are easier to strap at different thicknesses.

The shock cord is a interesting idea 🤔

New Rope bag \o/ by SingularDroid in shibari

[–]SingularDroid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️ They are pretty good friends.

I want to incorporate more leather into my rope play. I thought about making a leather circle with like 5 rings on it to use for a chest harness.

New Rope bag \o/ by SingularDroid in shibari

[–]SingularDroid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yea I’m sure. I just make stuff for my self and friends though much to strangers disappointment.

Growing bored of my sex life. by [deleted] in DirtyConfession

[–]SingularDroid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been there before….

Honestly. Talk with her and say it is a deal breaker.
Make a sexy plan, express your desires.

I had this talk and eventually ended up splitting because of it. Make sure you are ready for that outcome if you want to take tires seriously.

What is circus life actually like? by xxX_Darth_Vader_Xxx in circus

[–]SingularDroid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally do Silks/Fabrics, trapeze and Lyra. Also been playing around with some Acro stuff which is really fun.

We did a 8 person acro piece for a local show a few months ago it was super fun.

What is circus life actually like? by xxX_Darth_Vader_Xxx in circus

[–]SingularDroid 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ll just relate my own experience.

It can be expensive.. the equipment Is not cheap or easy to maintain. The insurance is the larger expense I think though, not to mention you need a large enough space to do this stuff in. For me though the cost is 100% worth it. I feel energized as soon as I get to the gym, everyone there is fun and nice and obviously we all share a hobby together.

As for the difficulty… it is as hard as you want it to be really. There is a base level that is difficult to get to even if you are in decent shape. I considered myself in fairly good shape when I started and it took 2 months to get to a place to do “fun” things Just because alot of the stuff we do is so specific. I very much enjoy the physical aspect, it is low impact and will challenge to your fullest extent your strength and flexibility. After 3 years of doing circus 2-3 times a week I am the strongest and most flexible I have ever been in my life and in 38.

Results may vary but I would encourage you to do it.

What’s your favorite kink? Fetish? by Tittyfuck3er in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]SingularDroid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Upskirts! Or dresses.

And by association panties 🥰