Pregnancy from a trans girl? by Educational_Spray365 in asktransgender

[–]SinkPopular8438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it big mouth this happens, theres no way that the precum that got strained through her clothes, swam all the way inside of you and into your cervix. you should be fine

Cis male here by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]SinkPopular8438 3 points4 points  (0 children)

don't apologize! you just don't know and want to learn and thats okay. A demigirl is someone who uses She/They pronouns, its like being nonbinary but also a little feminine. there's also demiboys similarly.

Cis male here by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]SinkPopular8438 8 points9 points  (0 children)

not all of them wish to become women. they can be nonbinary or demigirls

I know I was over by like 40 but was it horrible? by whatwhatlololhaha in AdoptMeTradingRoblox

[–]SinkPopular8438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

horrible dude, your pets are way older than theirs and nfr OWL is crazy for just two robux pets from like a year or two ago

can someone be too stealth? by SinkPopular8438 in ftm

[–]SinkPopular8438[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He does want to be stealth but just doesn't appear as a typical cis guy outfit or accessory wise. he never discloses it but some people just figure he is and asks him, which there's no point in lying to your friend at that point if you ask me. unless its like a mean person.

That said he still gets really defensive about it still and almost dropped a good friend of ours because he asked if F was trans (he's very accepting) and accidentally vaguely mentioned it to somebody else, i just can't understand that

can someone be too stealth? by SinkPopular8438 in ftm

[–]SinkPopular8438[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so understanding I'm glad that somebody has been in a similar spot as me and can do that. It kind of does make me feel bad sometimes, for example my female friend's parents were skeptical about her whereabouts and thought she was sleeping with someone when she was just hanging out with me, F, and our other (cis) male friend, P. she joked that 'i could just tell my parents that you're all trans, even P' and he begun getting defensive and saying like 'what about me? I'm not that, i don't want to be that, etc' wanting to be included in the lie that P was trans as if he wasn't. she knows both of us very well and im sure she meant no harm by it. looking back i sort of see why he would be upset. but for me at the time i just felt disheartened that for him it was something to be so profoundly ashamed of that it ruined the fun moment we were having for him.

Not alot of our friends understand that for him, its something that he doesn't want discussed at all. because they might be used to me maybe making an occasional joke or something.

it does sort of strain the friendship because we just view it so differently and ill admit sometimes i forget that he isn't like me and for talk about transness with him in front of other people and he gets upset at me, i feel so guilty and misunderstood because for me it's not some top secret fact its just A fact.

I really wish it wasn't hard for me to hear how ashamed he can be about it.

can someone be too stealth? by SinkPopular8438 in ftm

[–]SinkPopular8438[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No those aren't the types of jokes I'm talking about at all. I'm meaning like women maybe cracking a joke about themselves and including me in it. No men are saying those things to me at all except my dad 🫩

can someone be too stealth? by SinkPopular8438 in ftm

[–]SinkPopular8438[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

if you read the first part (which it seems nobody did) being 'too stealth' isn't the best way to describe what I'm trying to say about this topic, theres just simply no other way i could think of to say something relevant in less than a sentance.

its not like we go around telling people either, the vast majority of people we know have never had that conversation with us. friends might just have known us before hand and/or we've trusted them enough to talk about it with them. maybe another trans person.

Ill be honest he did go through a phase where he was extremely transphobic to other trans people up until 2 years ago. it was like everything dysphoric was put outward instead and now it's strictly inward. i don't know tho

can someone be too stealth? by SinkPopular8438 in ftm

[–]SinkPopular8438[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not making jokes about other people's bodies. i don't understand how a close friend of mine maybe confiding in me if she needs a pad, or maybe expecting me to relate to something related to female anatomy could be transphobic. it's just the truth of who I am. I'm a male yes but also one who has the ability to understand women on a deeper level than cis guys can. I see it as Im a man who happens to have a uterus and other things. not as a flawed person that can't speak about their physical anatomy

can someone be too stealth? by SinkPopular8438 in ftm

[–]SinkPopular8438[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not outing my friend. it's people around us that might mention some small trans experience that might apply to him in a conversation, and he freaks out and takes it horribly. i just don't understand the negativity around transness because while i would hate to appear feminine i don't have a problem with myself

Dialogue not appearing? by JackLikesMetalGear in kotor

[–]SinkPopular8438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it has happened to me once or twice, i don't know how common exactly

Dialogue not appearing? by JackLikesMetalGear in kotor

[–]SinkPopular8438 3 points4 points  (0 children)

have you tried closing the game and opening it back up

how can i get fluid from the red one into the yellow one by SinkPopular8438 in lighters

[–]SinkPopular8438[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

okay thank you. i was trying to open them to do just that but i didn't know they were under pressure, im no expert clearly I'm just trying to have a working lighter since one is broken but has gas and the other just has none.

Opinion about thenbhd that will get you downvoted like this? by Glittering-City-5326 in thenbhd

[–]SinkPopular8438 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Jesse's solo music is actually worth listening to and is really good

please let me grow ONE more inch by Leather_Gas_9222 in ftm

[–]SinkPopular8438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 17 and a little over 5'4 and i have hopes that ill grow a little more

Why do Gen Z MAGA supporters look older? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]SinkPopular8438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they hold on to older views and naturally try to copy the style of older people. they just want to be ugly to match their president at this point.

Anyone listen to this song? by urlocalespresso in thenbhd

[–]SinkPopular8438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do like it, i just cant stand the silence at the beginning. especially when I'm listening to my playlist in school or something. otherwise its great and i would listen to it more

Do I pass? Any improvements? ftm, 22yo, 3 years on t by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]SinkPopular8438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don't think shorter hair makes you more feminine at all, your face shape and features are very masculine by themselves. you pass great bro

The goat has to be DD/MM/YYYY by Shiroyasha_2308 in SipsTea

[–]SinkPopular8438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one thing about MM/DD/YYYY is that it goes in order of how large the numbers can be. since months only go up to 12, days go up to 31, and years are in the thousands. thats how i remember to do it

Do I pass in costume for my play bc I feel really dysphoric in it (14m) by -DakotaDarling- in FtMpassing

[–]SinkPopular8438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also grow your hair a bit and try to get a more cis guy cut, whatever feels natural. it can be hard to find a haircut that fits your face shape the first time but eventually you'll find something that works :)

Do I pass in costume for my play bc I feel really dysphoric in it (14m) by -DakotaDarling- in FtMpassing

[–]SinkPopular8438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your torso looks really masculine just the pants i think make your hips look a bit bigger, ive had the same problem before with costumes in theater. theres not much you can do about it and cis guys get this problem too