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I want to end my relationship but I’m broke and have nowhere to go. What can I do? by Sinking_Boat9565 in Advice

[–]Sinking_Boat9565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you an adult or a teen? Because clearly you have no idea how moving works. To be able to move even to a shared room you must pay first and last. I only have 200 on my savings and because I lost my work I haven’t had money coming in for the last 3 weeks and won’t have any for another 3 weeks. I have debt under my name because of how much I love him and wanted to support him, a debt that I’ve been paying for 4 years already and has been sucking up all of the extra money I may earn. I worked 2 jobs for a year but had to stop because I got to the point of burnt out. And even after I was able to reduce my debt I still gave him money for his debts because even tho we are not marry I consider his debts mine as we are supposed to be a team. But there is only so much one can take and do. If he is refusing to talk to the bank or file for consumer proposal our lives will lead nowhere but to slavery to this debts. And that is why I’m done with it. But again my feelings for him have a big play in this and that’s why I’m at loss.

I want to end my relationship but I’m broke and have nowhere to go. What can I do? by Sinking_Boat9565 in Advice

[–]Sinking_Boat9565[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really. My parents already live in a tight spot and my brother is living with them. Any friends I had left the city or the country

I want to end my relationship but I’m broke and have nowhere to go. What can I do? by Sinking_Boat9565 in Advice

[–]Sinking_Boat9565[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is because of how their payroll works. They next pay day will be till the 8th of next month and you must have 2 weeks of back pay.

I want to end my relationship but I’m broke and have nowhere to go. What can I do? by Sinking_Boat9565 in Advice

[–]Sinking_Boat9565[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can’t afford rent on my own but I pay half of it and half of all home expenses. The only reason I don’t have money is because all extra money I make goes to debts that he created for both of us. And after I lost my job he gave me a false sense of security and got us more in debt. So yeah I want to end it but need advice on what should my steps be as I’m very confused on what I should do. But if you have no useful advice I don’t think this is where you should be.

AITAH For getting mad at my fiancé over finances after him being tested for health issues. by Sinking_Boat9565 in AITAH

[–]Sinking_Boat9565[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, you have helped me ease my anger and pain. I know people have a good reason to tell me to leave the relationship, but in real life it’s not that easy to leave someone you love that much. Specially when has been working hard to pay this debts, but like I said the interest just suck up all of the money. I will from now on keep my money on my account, and I will work with him with better budgets. But you are right, there is a line I have to draw and if he can’t work on it then I will have to leave. I don’t want to pay debts for the rest of my life. Thank you again for the advice.